Has Anyone Gained Any Positives From Hairloss?

[Nadester]

Also here is a really simple way to fight baldness, stop thinking that you are suffering from baldness.
Instead accept the fact that you are ONE OF MANY people who are suffering from this disease.

Bad things don't happen to you only, they happen to everyone. It is your perception and actions that matter as they will dictate what COULD happen in the future.
Their is no guarantee to sucess. You could wallow in self-pity or choose to move forward and EVEN THEN their is no guarantee that it will work.

Yup life is not fair.
You sucess can be dictated by your hard work or something as random like your looks.
Accepting what you get/have and moving forward is the only thing that can be done to make sure you are actually living.


This will help in taking a lot of weight off your shoulders.

 

[hellouser]

No positives. All the "knowledge" that I have gained from this sh*t is stuff I wish I didn't know.

Ignorance is bliss.

 

[swingline747]

no

 

[dunno]

It made me realize how short-lived our youth is and understand what aging feels like. If my hair transplant turns out well, I'll be back to square one and fully educated about fighting aging.

This!

The day i realized i was actually balding turned my life completely upside down. However, just need to find a way to cope and improve other aspects of your life.

 

[Norwood]

Going bald has eliminated my risk of accidentally getting a girl pregnant because now the only women who will have sex with me are of post menopausal age.

 

[buckthorn]

yes, I learned that I am pure sh*t. genetic trash, waiting for the time to be physically exposed for all my genetic flaws. That nothing is permanent. That investing emotional stock in any possession is foolish. You can't "own" anything. nothing is permanent. One second you have something, the next it's gone. It can be looks, money, women, family... We all decay and rot, like dwindling, lowly parasites.

 

[davesmith420]

When I started to notice my shedding/hair loss I started to become a little more outgoing; I made a Tinder, starting going on more dates and sleeping with girls. I have slept with more girls in the last year than I have in my entire life. Gotta enjoy all the sex I can before I become even uglier as a Norwood 6-7.

 

[Agustin Araujo]

no

Agreed.

It's distressing and brings zero positiveness. If hair loss has shown me anything is how uncaring the world is towards beings suffering from any none life threatening disorder that significantly reduces comfort and quality of life. People like us are expected to just 'flow' through life no matter how bad in shape we become.

 

[tellersquill]

When I started to notice my shedding/hair loss I started to become a little more outgoing; I made a Tinder, starting going on more dates and sleeping with girls. I have slept with more girls in the last year than I have in my entire life. Gotta enjoy all the sex I can before I become even uglier as a Norwood 6-7.

Haha I actually did this when I started balding and slept with plenty of women.

Little did I know that I still wouldn't quite be a NW3 by 30.

But still, it was fun for me and the girls so everyone won.

 

[CaptainForehead]

I've been feeling like this (and thinking about that in general) for 24 f*****g years. Now that I think about it, it's a wonder that I haven't killed myself yet.

You have been thinking about this right from infancy?

 

[tellersquill]

I've been feeling like this (and thinking about that in general) for 24 f*****g years. Now that I think about it, it's a wonder that I haven't killed myself yet.

Dante il Calvo, there is still time.

 

[tellersquill]

Tellersquill the Good-looking Bluepilled Gymcel, mind your own f*****g business.

Dante il Calvo, you do not know me.

Refrain from speaking as if you did.

 

[CaptainForehead]

Wow, you two REALLY don't like each other do you.

 

[CaptainForehead]

My philosophy is live and let live.

There are enough people who are real deliberate dicks.
No need to fight with people who inadvertently rub me the wrong way.

 

[buckthorn]

oh, I am also not afraid of anything anymore. someone could put a gun in my mouth in a dark alley way and I would probably laugh. this is not just hair loss, but an accumulation of all my issues. I would legitimately greet an opportunity to end it all with a very open mind.

 

[CopeForLife]

impact is you cannot afford to critique any haircut anymore

why do you even bother with others hair, cueball?? firstly try to grow hair and after you can argue

I always lol when copers like blackg calling some haircut "faggy" – one cannot speak a even little about haircuts once he went bald

 

[CaptainForehead]

A few weeks ago I dreamt of falling down from a building, people called my name in shock and fear but I didn't care and I only laughed like a maniac. Strange dream indeed.

I had a dream a few months ago in which I took a dive from a high rise. Rather than being scared, I was exhilarated and was screaming "I'm free, I'm free". Woke up just before the moment of impact. I remember this because when I woke up, I realized that mentally I am screwed up.

 

[blackg]

Why, do you actually like him?

I like tellersquill. He has a calming presence on here.

 

[blackg]

My philosophy is live and let live.

Really, it is? Or is this your new found philosophy?

Either way, I'm impressed.

 

[buckthorn]

Just look at our profile pictures. We're mentally screwed up, and that's not completely bad. Best part is, we're in good company!

What is "mentally screwed up"? I live in a wealthy suburban area. I literally over hear conversations by middle aged, spoiled housewives about their neighbors buying bushes and sh*t. That is the highlight of their day. To discover anything that is going on with someone else and get goosebumps talking about it to someone else. I don't know what is sane and what is insane anymore. all I know is that, I cannot be associated with anyone but my own family anymore. I mean, they are screwed up too, but they are blood.