Has Hair Loss Made Anyone Else A Bad Person?

[Baldingat188]

My soul is definitely hardened, I feel "old" in my psyche. I guess it matches my older physical appearance.

Which is weird, and not right for any 20 something guy.

Ive been feeling old since 18, it’s terrible. At 18 I never left the house without a hat or shaved my face for an entire year because I was “old” so why put any effort into looking good ? Now at 21 I am clean shaved and go out without a hat but still feel old because I don’t participate in sex , parties , dating. I just dwell in misery.

 

[Balding Boulder]

Ive been feeling old since 18, it’s terrible. At 18 I never left the house without a hat or shaved my face for an entire year because I was “old” so why put any effort into looking good ? Now at 21 I am clean shaved and go out without a hat but still feel old because I don’t participate in sex , parties , dating. I just dwell in misery.

Same. It’s very hard at that age to be sociable when you feel like you’re constantly being judged on your hair. Even if other people aren’t actually judging you on your hair, you’re still judging yourself on it. Unfortunately my 20s were ruined by hair loss — that’s time I’ll never get back. Nothing can make up for that now.