Hello, I'm The Ugliest Kid On Earth And My Life Is Terrible.

[Baldingat188]

Yeah man they say constant hardships make us more stronger, but i disagree, they make you filled with hatred, more bitter, frustrated and angry and after a period of time you'll be a completely different person and usually a worse one.

I actually brought up hairloss with my therapist before and my therapist tried telling me to use it as an opportunity to grow and become a new person . Like balding should help me beat my anxiety

Please....

There are plenty of opportunities you can grow from , even negative things . But sadly I don't even want to go grow from baldness. It's weird - I have some kind of imagination of how the future might be. I see myself , completely bald working like a normal adult in society and driving around as a bald man. Somehow just picturing myself living life as a bald man is enough to make me not want to live life. It's a huge identity thing. I also hate when people try to compare hairloss to other problems like alcoholism or weight loss . Those are some people's demons, yes . But they can be beat by living a healthier life style if you work at it. Baldness is just completely a random luck thing so imo there's not really an opportunity to gain anything positive from it.

 

[Baldingat188]

I'm a good person, but i'm slowly turning into a piece of sh*t.

Yea this is why I can't believe the "everything happens for a reason"

I'm by no means a perfect person, but I'm nice to people and I would never make fun of others for baldness even if I had a full head of hair till I was 70. Also I'm someone who needs my hair to look decent , so yea ... that's karma I guess

 

[Baldingat188]

The problem is I already struggle with mental illness; first I had a traumatic childhood and then for a long time I hated myself because I was fat. then I lose all of the weight, I'm feeling good about my self for a while, now I'm bald. Things just can never go my way.

Hit the nail on the head .. I never struggled with weight but in my early - mid teens I had terrrible anxiety and could hardly talk to people. Finally by my senior year of high school I realized most of that was in my head and I could socialize again , it was such a relief . Less then 2 months later I found out I was losing hair , and all hell came again.

 

[bridgeburn]

Four reasons why people will mock the bald:

1. It may be considered a male sexual impairment, as bald men are less sexy.
Male sexual impairments have always been the object of ridicule. Think of all the v****-related jokes.

2. Baldness is a type of nudity. You expose a nude head. And male nudity is ridiculous. Think of the naked king story. The king is naked... and everyone laughs.

3. It is not an illness that people recognize as such. Obesity, for instance, a disease per se. You die from obesity. Baldness is a disease because of it consequences on your psyche, but a bald person does not die because of the lack of hair.

4. It is mostly males who have it. This society has reached a point in which everything bad that happens to men is kind of a payback for everything they have done in the past to women.
As if it were the same men and the same women.

wow, never thought of it like that.
#1, #2, hmmmm, involuntary public nudity, dont look #3, very true, its not unhealthy, it just Looks unhealthy. but everyone knows its not a real problem.. unless it happens to them of course. #4, WTF!!! twisted human idealogy.

 

[Stanx22]

You're so full of sh*t.

By the way, OP, the users giving you advice about looksmaxing are all good-looking, so don't bother considering them. If you truly are unattractive, that is.

Yeah man some people here are truly sick and ignorant, delusional beyond imagination. That's why i make dozens of angry threads complaining about them because they piss me off too much and when i do that they tell me i'm not mentally stable. What a f*****g waste of skin these people are. The best ones i've seen so far are you and copeforlife and sunchy.

 

[blackg]

I actually brought up hairloss with my therapist before and my therapist tried telling me to use it as an opportunity to grow and become a new person . Like balding should help me beat my anxiety

Please....

There are plenty of opportunities you can grow from , even negative things . But sadly I don't even want to go grow from baldness. It's weird - I have some kind of imagination of how the future might be. I see myself , completely bald working like a normal adult in society and driving around as a bald man. Somehow just picturing myself living life as a bald man is enough to make me not want to live life. It's a huge identity thing. I also hate when people try to compare hairloss to other problems like alcoholism or weight loss . Those are some people's demons, yes . But they can be beat by living a healthier life style if you work at it. Baldness is just completely a random luck thing so imo there's not really an opportunity to gain anything positive from it.

I know. Also, being an alcoholic can be quite an appealing image.... as long as you're good looking with a fullhead of hair.

Being a bald man? A faceless invisible existence.
Noone cares about your struggles or back story.

 

[EvilLocks]

Yeah man they say constant hardships make us more stronger, but i disagree, they make you filled with hatred, more bitter, frustrated and angry and after a period of time you'll be a completely different person and usually a worse one.

You are wise beyond your years.

 

[Stanx22]

Same here, now I revel in the misery of random good-looking guys and girls, don't help them even when they're in need of immediate help/assistance in front of me, and I just walk away chuckling to myself to their pain or tragedies.

You're a truly wise and sensible person, and you're on your way to be one of the best users here already.

When life gives you nothing but sh*t, you will finally reach a point when you just can't take it anymore, so you'll start to aim your frustration and anger at everything including people. I'm mentally stable, but people think i'm crazy because i express so much rage in my posts when i'm just trying to let out what's inside me and i have no other way but to do that. I really don't like to insult or attack anyone, but some people just drive me mad. And btw thanks, Dante. I really consider you as a big brother to me and i've been seeing your posts before i even made my account, you're actually one of the reasons that i'm here.

 

[blackg]

And btw thanks, Dante. I really consider you as a big brother to me and i've been seeing your posts before i even made my account, you're actually one of the reasons that i'm here.

Your conversion is now complete.

 

[N003]

First, go to a dermatologist which is specialized in hair.
This hair loss looks strangeand absolutely not typical like male pattern baldness.

When it is male pattern baldness then take finasteride.But i would wait until you are 20 years old.

But again, go first to a dermatologist. it can be something else.

 

[pegasus2]

If you're truly the ugliest kid on earth there's money to be made from that. You'll be filthy rich, and some dumb, hot blonde will marry you out of pity. You need to leverage this, man.

 

[pegasus2]

Your conversion is now complete.

How in the world those two found each other, I don't know, but it's perfect.

 

[CopeForLife]

If you're truly the ugliest kid on earth there's money to be made from that. You'll be filthy rich, and some dumb, hot blonde will marry you out of pity. You need to leverage this, man.

own this sh*t and leverage it

 

[Dench57]

own this sh*t and leverage it

*sips coffee*

 

[Dante92]

 

[blackg]

How in the world those two found each other, I don't know, but it's perfect.

Cosmic karma. Now dinner.

 

[biddybomb]

own this sh*t and leverage it

 

[ihatemylife]

I'm back; I've been on 5% minoxidil for 3 months now and my hair is pretty much back. Thank you to those who supported me and thanks to those who made fun of me or told me it was hopeless. In the past few months I got on minoxidil, grew facial hair, and worked out every day and lost fat and gained a lot of muscle mass (I have abs for the first time in my life and am down to 180lbs from a high of 260lbs). I know the results are dramatic and you can say this is fake if you want but I have more proof if needed so if you don't believe me, just ask or something. I now just turned 19 a few days ago and have my fist girlfriend ever in my whole life and I'm no longer depressed. Don't give up guys, have hope and love life.

https://imgur.com/a/HnNIX

 

[ihatemylife]

I don't know what to say to be honest.

You are NW5 with retrograde alopecia.

Unfortunately, I think it's over in hair department for you. Try dutasteride or finasteride at least.

Oof

 

[DHTpolice]

"Cured". Minoxidil is such a powerfull weapon...
Unfortunately, it wouldn't last forever without antiandrogens.