This is to Stabber if he's still on this board.
Stabber,
I just got back from the gym. I've never seen this kid (probably 21-23 years old) in the gym before but there he was today. Sitting on a bench and working out his biceps. But there was something different about him. He had something with him and that somethign was a wheelchair. As I sat down beside him on another bench to do some chest exericises I started thinking.
Here I am, working out, walking around like it's nothing, being able to lift weights without much trouble, and there he is...sitting...unable to use his legs YET still in the gym and doing some bicep exercises. Yes, I do feel shitty about hairloss, but for a second there all I could think of was "wow, think how sometimes he must feel. To not be able to walk, yet in here with everyone else, doing what everyone else is doing."
Moral: get out there and do something with yourself. Hairloss isn't the be all end all. I wished that I could give him my legs for an hour, just so he could feel what it's like to WALK again....and here I am...worrying about hairloss.
Chicks won't look at you? People will analyze you to $hit because of your hair? Well, f*** em all! Throw on a hat. Think how this guy must feel. 99% of chicks won't go up to him. 100% of people will look at him. 100% will judge him.
I judged him too when in the gym, but I judged him on character.