honestly i dont think feelsbadman situation is that bad and that there is still hope. its not over!

[Pacho]

its over

 

[Feelsbadman]

cant bellieve she ghosted me after sch a nice chat. oh well her loss .

 

[justinbieberscombover]

cant bellieve she ghosted me after sch a nice chat. oh well her loss .

I ghost or get ghosted all the time

 

[Feelsbadman]

I ghost or get ghosted all the time

yea but i've been wthout dating or a gf in years and im having this great online covo with a girl and boom she's gone lol
oh wel im used to it now at least im over my ex.

 

[justinbieberscombover]

On what do u base ur ghosting?

Usually I look at her pics a few more times and realize I'm not attracted enough to her

And there are many cases where the conversation is dry and doesn't go anywhere, in that case I just let the girl ghost me and move on to the next lol.. or if I really want the girl I will make one last effort to save it

yea but i've been wthout dating or a gf in years and im having this great online covo with a girl and boom she's gone lol
oh wel im used to it now at least im over my ex.

What was so great about it? Genuine question

 

[Feelsbadman]

Usually I look at her pics a few more times and realize I'm not attracted enough to her

And there are many cases where the conversation is dry and doesn't go anywhere, in that case I just let the girl ghost me and move on to the next lol.. or if I really want the girl I will make one last effort to save it


What was so great about it? Genuine question

seemed to have good banter, similar interests etc.

 

[Oknow]

As I explained, it is a numbers game and the numbers are against bald guys.

NW1 or NW2: get lots of leads, some interactions and dates. Over time, you learn from all your mess ups and improve your situation. You become more attractive through these experiences and the positive experiences make you more confident which gives you more positive experiences and so on.

Bald guy. One date per month in the very best case. Not enough leads to mess up and learn from, and trigger improvement . Doesn't become more attractive over time and is eventually out competed by the NW1 or NW2 who, thanks to the numbers being in his favor, improved a lot.

It's a classic case of the rich getting richer and poor getting poorer.

The problem is, you don’t even take your chances when you get them. Like recently,

 

[Oknow]

Usually I look at her pics a few more times and realize I'm not attracted enough to her

And there are many cases where the conversation is dry and doesn't go anywhere, in that case I just let the girl ghost me and move on to the next lol.. or if I really want the girl I will make one last effort to save it


What was so great about it? Genuine question

sounds exactly like my own experiences

 

[Oknow]

cant bellieve she ghosted me after sch a nice chat. oh well her loss .

I’ve been talking to a girl who told me she would get back in touch after her holiday, she hasn’t

we had a good chat leading up to that point

women are unpredictable, try not to take them to seriously

 

[Oknow]

seemed to have good banter, similar interests etc.

Without realising, it’s probably something you said that put her off. So instead of confronting you, unmatched you.

Dont worry about it , she is the one with the problem - her loss not yours

 

[Feelsbadman]

I’ve been talking to a girl who told me she would get back in touch after her holiday, she hasn’t

we had a good chat leading up to that point

women are unpredictable, try not to take them to seriously

i know this alread ybut its been 3 years for me

 

[Oknow]

i know this alread ybut its been 3 years for me

been 5 years for me