honestly, is this enough to irritate a woman?

[Man in Space]

:laugh:

 

[HughJass]

Aussie im telling you, your money baby! effing money!

yeah I haven't forgotten



That being said, time has already been invested in this project and I can't resist a challenge

 

[Bald Dave]

I would say that 5 days is too long to wait. If i got a number by say Friday night i would then text her on Sunday. That is giving enough time to not come across as desperate but also interested. By leaving it till Sunday you are giving the impression that you was busy Sat night (even if you wasn't) socialising with friends etc and on Sunday you are just chilling out from the busy weekend.

Yeah some women aren't all there but you've gotta go through lots of wronguns before you meet someone whos right for you

 

[virtuality]

I really don't get what all this waiting period is all about...

You are looking for easy sex, she might have felt like easy sex that particular night and she willingly gave you her number. If you leave a large interval, she might go off the idea of easy sex and you are doomed..

I never do phone numbers... If I meet a girl at a bar, it's either sex the first night or never. That might be the reason why I haven't been laid for 7-8 months :sobbing:

 

[HughJass]

oh, she texted back by the way :whistle:

 

[HughJass]

Why have you changed your name!

salted licorice is tasty!

 

[Man in Space]

Why have you changed your name!

Are the suffragettes after you? :woot:

Haha It was only ever a matter of time!!

 

[Bald Dave]

Smells like fish
Tastes like chicken
That is where you put the dick in

 

[Ori83]

like chicken?!?!.... dude... i think you got the wrong address.... :whistle:

 

[HughJass]

Why have you changed your name!

salted licorice is tasty!

I see; you know what one tastes like also.

You dirty dirty dog :hump:

I was merely practicing my non sequiturs :whistle:

 

[CCS]

There is no optimal amount of time to contact a woman. If she likes you, she will want you to call her and will not think you are needy. If she does not like you much and thinks you are needy just because you call soon, then she probably already thinks you are needy and will not have her mind changed.

How about instead of saying, "I'll call you", say, "I'll call you on Monday", or "I'll call you tonight". By saying that, and seeing her response, you will learn much faster than you will by doing all this guessing or talking to her answering machine.

I have heard a lot of women say they want a guy to contact them promptly after having a date, just to vaguly let them know how they did, such as saying, "I had fun" or something general like that, so they are not left guessing if you still like them or not. Saying it face to face could just seem polite under pressure. Calling to say it when you are safely away is more reassuring. This also is a good time to ask how you did, instead of asking in person. Make it easy on them by providing them an easy out, and you'll get a more informative answer.

 

[Man in Space]

There is no optimal amount of time to contact a woman. If she likes you, she will want you to call her and will not think you are needy. If she does not like you much and thinks you are needy just because you call soon, then she probably already thinks you are needy and will not have her mind changed.

How about instead of saying, "I'll call you", say, "I'll call you on Monday", or "I'll call you tonight". By saying that, and seeing her response, you will learn much faster than you will by doing all this guessing or talking to her answering machine.

I have heard a lot of women say they want a guy to contact them promptly after having a date, just to vaguly let them know how they did, such as saying, "I had fun" or something general like that, so they are not left guessing if you still like them or not. Saying it face to face could just seem polite under pressure. Calling to say it when you are safely away is more reassuring. This also is a good time to ask how you did, instead of asking in person. Make it easy on them by providing them an easy out, and you'll get a more informative answer.

Do you have the mandate to give advice on women!?

 

[HughJass]

:whistle:

 

[Man in Space]

He's had sex with 3 of them, didn't you know?

Haha sounds like we should all definately hold him up as the authority on all matters woman then!

 

[HughJass]

Aussie im telling you, your money baby! effing money!

Didn't even say thankyou when I paid for everything. Pretty sure I got used.



Hard to believe somebody could reach adulthood and miss out on learning such a basic social convention. Or just view it as altogether unnecessary.




Another fascinating insight into the immaturity and/or entitlement mentality of women.

 

[otis]

So I ask this girl if she wants to go out and she gives me her name and number. Five days later I send her a text and ask if she wants to get together.


No reply.



Now, I have been informed that I may have committed a dating faux pas by waiting too long to get in touch with her to organize a date. Is this seriously enough to piss a woman off and ignore your advances? Honestly? If so then my patheticometer is about to go into friggin orbit. I can't say I have ever experienced this before in previous episodes of adventures in dating.


Surely 5 days is not too long?


Of course there is always the possibility she just gave me her number because she was too polite to tell me to get lost but she seemed pretty keen and flirty. Perhaps I read the situation completely wrong?

Maybe she doesnt have text mesegeing

 

[CCS]

Aussie im telling you, your money baby! effing money!

Didn't even say thankyou when I paid for everything. Pretty sure I got used.



Hard to believe somebody could reach adulthood and miss out on learning such a basic social convention. Or just view it as altogether unnecessary.




Another fascinating insight into the immaturity and/or entitlement mentality of women.

Some women ask me if I had fun on our date, when I was the one who took her out and paid for everything. I'm not sure how to respond to that, other than replying, "that's my line. Did you have fun?".