How Hair Loss Has Made Myself (and Probably Most Of You) Better.

[tellersquill]

I probably would, doesn't make her attractive though. I am so insecure I would f*** a tree if it had a vagina.

That's the spirit.

If it has xx chromosones and it has a pulse then its fair game

 

[tellersquill]

Loath as I am to admit it (jokes), Fred's completely correct on the personality thing. Tons of studies have confirmed it as has my own experience. My Dad was a bit of a loser during his youth (still is now 2bh- though I say that with affection); very few friends, undiagnosed aspergers, most people ignored him and thought he was a weirdo and he obviously bombed with girls. He was a decent looking guy though, still passable despite chronic shortness and male pattern baldness, and he eventually managed to lock down my mum. They're fairly happily married though she definitely wears the pants in the relationship: he's so "beta" its painful - he used to buy random girls presents to try and get them to like him. Mum used to ride the c*** carousel, had literally dozens of boyfriends. Dad was a virgin 'till something like 25. Fortunately, I did a bit better with girls than him, but I struggle from all the same social problems, if not more so. My sister's similar, though by far the more normal of us two. My dad's a (ridiculously) nice guy, but the girl's/people bled him dry before he met my mum, and to be honest I think even she still takes advantage of him a little. I try hard not be as "beta" as my father, but deep down I know its coded unalterably within my genes.

Well, look, if you are nice by nature then it isn't a bad thing. The world needs more nice people and less alpha chads.

As long as you aren't too nice and you get exploited then I think its a good trait.

 

[buckthorn]

That's the spirit.

If it has xx chromosones and it has a pulse then its fair game

if it has xx chromosomes, a pulse AND a tight body it's fair game.

 

[SmoothSailing]

I probably would, doesn't make her attractive though. I am so insecure I would f*** a tree if it had a vagina.

Been there, turned down, was called a manlet and told everyone should know trees have a 20ft height limit.

 

[tellersquill]

if it has xx chromosomes, a pulse AND a tight body it's fair game.

Man, if you only went with those with a hot body then that's like 5% of the American populace.

And they are probably dating a chad type.

The solution: get a butterface, a woman with 30 extra pounds, or go celibate.

(i'm really not sure if I'm joking on this one)

 

[SmoothSailing]

Man, if you only went with those with a hot body then that's like 5% of the American populace.

And they are probably dating a chad type.

The solution: get a butterface, a woman with 30 extra pounds, or go celibate.

(i'm really not sure if I'm joking on this one)

I try and find plane janes who are skinny. Essentially skinny girls that aren't pretty in anyway but aren't ugly either. It's my best hope.

 

[tellersquill]

Thanks, I think? Though I'm not sure I'm all that nice a person 2bh. In truth, I was complaining more about the inherited social stuff, the inability to function in social situations, the chronic lack of friends etc. Part of it's my own fault though, I hate most people with a vehemence.

You say you hate people but I say you're just discerning. You only like to surround yourself with your kind of people. That's a good trait in many ways - it shows you aren't needy and you aren't socialiising with people just for the sake of it.

 

[tellersquill]

I try and find plane janes who are skinny. Essentially skinny girls that aren't pretty in anyway but aren't ugly either. It's my best hope.

That's a fair strategy

 

[buckthorn]

I try and find plane janes who are skinny. Essentially skinny girls that aren't pretty in anyway but aren't ugly either. It's my best hope.

most of us are way past the point of desiring beautiful women. I need a beautiful heart and a beautiful vagina. that's about all.

 

[Baldingat188]

Intresting you say your dad is nice by nature but also very socially awkward. I feel like that description fits me all to well. I would consider myself a nice person ( hope that doesn't sound arrogant) but because I am so quiet and awkward / isolated most people never know that I am nice. Infact most consider me awkward/creepy/weird. I also know this is related to my behavoir ( since I am not bald yet). I actually had a girl who showed intrest in me last year. well we talked for a little bit and went on one date then she stopped texting me. then I recently found out from a friend that she was turned off by my weirdness/creepiness. yea, baldness and Asperger isn't a good combination.

honestly though, being called creepy doesn't bother me to much. Ive come to just kind of realize thats how people see me now...idk I guess id rather feel "creepy" than "weak" and I often feel weak physically and emotionally...

 

[tellersquill]

Intresting you say your dad is nice by nature but also very socially awkward. I feel like that description fits me all to well. I would consider myself a nice person ( hope that doesn't sound arrogant) but because I am so quiet and awkward / isolated most people never know that I am nice. Infact most consider me awkward/creepy/weird. I also know this is related to my behavoir ( since I am not bald yet). I actually had a girl who showed intrest in me last year. well we talked for a little bit and went on one date then she stopped texting me. then I recently found out from a friend that she was turned off by my weirdness/creepiness. yea, baldness and Asperger isn't a good combination.

honestly though, being called creepy doesn't bother me to much. Ive come to just kind of realize thats how people see me now...idk I guess id rather feel "creepy" than "weak" and I often feel weak physically and emotionally...

I think nice people are often awkward because they are usually sensitive. They think things through too much and are afraid to take risks in case they say the wrong thing or hurt someones feelings - this just makes them even more awkward.

I often find that the nicest people are seldom the loudest and most social beings.

 

[tellersquill]

It can happen (above looks) but there is always an explanation for it. A true connection or something else like money/career/status/ shared academic interest. Basically, you're right.

I think there can be issues of perception.

We've all seen those hot young women who think they are ugly who date weird looking guys who make them feel good.

It happens but eventually they cotton on and ditch them

 

[Baldingat188]

Screw that lol , good for you if you can do it but I could never get through 8 years of school

 

[tellersquill]

Was it @tellersquill who said that he knew average guys who had hot wives?

He just forgot to mention that the first one was a lawyer, the second one was a real estate tycoon and the third one was a doctor.

You know, tiny detail.

It wasn't me. I only really have female friends - I don't get on well with men that much (I look like a guy but I don't like most guy stuff)

 

[Dench57]

Some men make love every day; others five or six times in their life

And some men, like nameless, make love five or six times a day

 

[tellersquill]

It happens too, they date a man who is still their type, but not the best-looking they could have.

But as you say, they tend to realize that they deserve better at a point.

I believe this was the reason almost all the girls I was dating bailed when I was in my slick bald phase.

I even caught one of them walking with a tall hot NW1 two weeks after she told me that she was not ready for a relationship.

I almost believed her.

But in defence of the women realising they can do better - at least the ugly guy got some for a while!

If they can repeatedly prey on the low self esteem girls and just work the numbers game then they can at least get some.

Hopefully that's reassuring to anyone reading this who isn't decent looking

 

[tellersquill]

And some men, like nameless, make love five or six times a day (when he had his hair)

Can anyone actually do that?

I could wank five times a day but sex - 3 times tops.

 

[SmoothSailing]

But in defence of the women realising they can do better - at least the ugly guy got some for a while!

If they can repeatedly prey on the low self esteem girls and just work the numbers game then they can at least get some.

Hopefully that's reassuring to anyone reading this who isn't decent looking

They're extremely rare though, simply make a tinder account and most girls find out pretty quick if they're in anyway attractive.

Plus losing a girl who's out of your league must hurt.

 

[tellersquill]

They're extremely rare though, simply make a tinder account and most girls find out pretty quick if they're in anyway attractive.

Plus losing a girl who's out of your league must hurt.

Sure - tinder is death for ugly people. They must dodge it like a fat person dodging a salad.

 

[Dench57]

They must dodge it like a fat person dodging a salad.

blackg disapproved