how to not have a self defeatist self loathing mindset as an ugly bald short guy?
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It's your parents' fault
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They were murdered tho
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to be fair it's the better alternative to being raped and tortured by the barbarous red hordes
So what are your plans for your garbage genes?
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that’s the point
therapy is there to help you stop comparing yourself to others and just make the best with what you have got
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What "the best", bro. The best? With this face male pattern baldness did to me, lol ?
Most I can do is be grateful Im not handicapped or I dont have leukemia.
Cuz judging by my "luck" in life, I should really be grateful Im healthy.
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the best that you can do with male pattern baldness
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The best out of male pattern baldness doesnt sound at all like you can put best and male pattern baldness in the same sentence.
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Best is relative
would you have the same opportunities as a lower Norwood , no, but I’m sure you would have some
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Opportunities with what?
Im not that dumb to think male pattern baldness ruins my social life, but my dating life was massacred by it.
I just need some time, bro. Its hard to accept going from prettyface to smeagol level nw6 since 26 y old.
Thats why I am on this forum. To have people I can relate to.
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I totally get that
You need to accept your baldness , accept that you will have less opportunities now than when you had hair, and find women that find you attractive bald.
That’s it
You will get opportunities, just much fewer but the main thing is getting them
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The differences between dating with hair and dating bald are f*****g enourmous.
Thats what I hate the most. I wasnt some Casanova before going bald, but I had shitload of woman attention, sadly I didnt have much social skills (and I was extrenely shy) and most of my dates happened because alcohol or drugs gave me the balls to talk to them.
I also had many rejections with hair, but only from 8+/10 women.
Now I get rejected by mediocre 5/10 women.
And my friends ask me "bro, what happened with you? You had a decent dating life before" but dont wanna believe me when I prove them with facts, lol.
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it is what it is bro
the game has got harder, you need to learn to accept your new reality
You will have fewer opportunities
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A lot fewer, sadly.
I mean, if you are lucky to only find those 10% of women who like balds/dont care, thats great, but if you only encounter the other 90%, your self esteem is gonna go to sh*t.
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I get that mate - I have the same problem, to a lesser extent, ethnicity , not white
But your mindset should be ‘I’m going to find those 10%, f*** the 90%’
All you need is one hot girl from the 10% to give you a shot
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Yeah, and accept the fact that there.s a 90% chance you're gonna get rejected, which is the hardest part =)).
Also, I rarely see hot women with bald guys, unless those guys are tall and gymgoers/rich.
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doubleindemnity
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This is extremely optimistic in my opinion. A bald guy is going to get 0 chances. He can't just work and mindset his way out of it. He must treat his hair loss or suffer the consequences. No 90% rejection rate but 100%.
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Its not 0%, bro, its 10%. There are some women who have J. Statham fetish and some women who dont care if you bald (as long as you look good in all other departments).
Think about it like this: I fucked a 10/10 ex-model with an amazing personality with my NW6. It was because I looked like her ex-husband (who wasnt bald) and because Goddess Fortuna blessed me, but still, she didnt care about my NW6.