I feel kinda lonely but i despise socializing with normies

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Caillou said:
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Every culture has their own share of problems and afflictions. There is a tendency among non-Westerners to think, that this we all live in carefree splendor and luxuary.
This is a) not true at all and b) no guarantee whatsoever for happyness. I've talked to many immigrants, befriended some. No one is really euphoric to be here. They often feel disenfranchised and have problems with coping with the immense financial competition in Germany and the isolation of the individual.
So not seldomly they go back to idealize their own country, which is of course just another cope. Even the people from the warzones such as Somalia aren't really happy, which is very telling. It beats getting shot at or shooting other people and they make a lot of money here compared to their ancestral lands sure, but that's about it. They are not gleeming with joy and often even depressed.

I had the same dreams about immigrating to Japan, for similiar reasons. But it in a it was just a cope as well and I'd just have replaced one 'evil' with another.
 
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Folks here get married for documents but it's minimum 10k£ if you were to make money it could be possible for you probably.
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I was stupid tbh because i had a bunch of opportunities back then. I remember when i was 15 years old i was talking to a very clingy teenage girl from the UK. But i didn't really care about girls back then and i found her annoying and not hot enough for me even though she was average. I preferred spending time playing video games than talking to her and she would keep writing me walls of text on whatsapp until she gave up after a month

Now that i'm thinking about it, maybe i should have kept talking to her and used her help to go to the UK
 
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disfiguredyoungman said:
Every culture has their own share of problems and afflictions. There is a tendency among non-Westerners to think, that this we all live in carefree splendor and luxuary.
This is a) not true at all and b) no guarantee whatsoever for happyness. I've talked to many immigrants, befriended some. No one is really euphoric to be here. They often feel disenfranchised and have problems with coping with the immense financial competition in Germany and the isolation of the individual.
So not seldomly they go back to idealize their own country, which is of course just another cope. Even the people from the warzones such as Somalia aren't really happy, which is very telling. It beats getting shot at or shooting other people and they make a lot of money here compared to their ancestral lands sure, but that's about it. They are not gleeming with joy and often even depressed.

I had the same dreams about immigrating to Japan, for similiar reasons. But it in a it was just a cope as well and I'd just have replaced one 'evil' with another.
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I agree. But i don't think i will be happy in the west. I'm well aware that i will face some racism, worse social life, being away from family, etc. But i just want some peace of mind and money to improve my mental health to some degree

It's just getting unbearable living in a military controlled country that would rather you drop dead than waste any resources. Tired of living in a constant state of fear and worrying about the future

I'd rather avoid some European countries like Germany and the UK and a bunch of others. I think a liberal shithole like Canada will do best because they have money and won't bother you much
 
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