I hate my life

[crowngarden]

How did you recover? Do you feel like your second procedure helped or worsened things? I had a bad procedure done many years ago and it's scared me from ever having another one done but I would really like to try and improve but I know it's a gamble.

 

[Rudiger]

Whoever made this surely won't be back, I wonder what became of him.

 

[EvilLocks]

I spend so many hours each and every day trying to cover it up doing combovers, and everything else to hide it, only to have it ruined by the slightest wind that I encounter while I walk from my car to the front door at work. I am so f**king sick of this s**t!

Oh how I can relate to this... When it happens I get so f*cking pissed I want to hit someone. Like I spend half an hour trying to get my hair to look as normal as possible, then I go outside and the wind just f*cks my hair up in the blink of an eye. And I feel the rage bottling up inside...

 

[EvilLocks]

And lol at Location: Hell

I thought it was quite fitting.

 

[Rudiger]

I think by "truly realistic" posters you just mean "devastatingly negative" posters. The truth is that people who think baldness "disqualifies you from life" are as realistic as those who think bic'n'tan will pull supermodels, neither is an opinion that's attached to reality. That's the irony of being a "realist", although you may be a little bit closer to reality than those who think baldness is positive, you still aren't being a realist if you think people judge you by your lack of hair 100% of the time, and everything you do or attempt to achieve is always overshadowed by baldness, because that simply isn't the case and it's not being a "realist", it's just beating yourself up. It's a bad coping mechanism.

Besides I haven't been here long, but Fred is still devastatingly negative, check out his recent Positivity Theory Debunked thread, I can't imagine what he must have been like before if this is "positive Fred".

 

[Rudiger]

Ok H.L., here's an argument, tell me this is wrong and how:

As a bald man you are restricted to ugly women. Have a kid with an ugly woman and the kid will be ugly like the mother and bald like the dad. It would be evil to have kids. Is that devastatingly negative or just a realistic inescapable fact?

What am I a ****ing performing monkey? How does that question have any relation to society judging 100% of everything that you do?

Maybe some people are against bald people breeding, maybe even subconsciously (and I'm saying maybe because I don't know either way, and neither do you), but it's irrelevant, I said you're deluded for thinking you're a "realist" in believing that the average person in society constantly judges every single move a bald guy makes, and you jump to the extreme scenario of whether society thinks bald people should breed.

Let me guess what's coming next, if society doesn't want us to breed (which there's no proof of, before you get started) then that filters down through everything, because of it's importance, it means that people also don't want us walking out of our front door to pick up a bottle of milk, am I right? Is that where you're going with this?

 

[goodidea]

Shave it off and get a hair system.

When you've saved up enough, get it removed and get an FUE transplant.

These are the only two real options.

Finasteride gives you a limp noodle.

Rogaine gives you eye bags and destroys collagen.

Nizoral is a shampoo and will do nothing for hair loss.

[video=youtube;RrzsDvdBzIk]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RrzsDvdBzIk[/video]

 

[Rudiger]

I was making fun of you, not asking myself questions. And yes I know where you're coming from, and it's really messed up. I was parodying how you jump in logic from society not liking bald guys breeding (still not a reasonable thought but anyway) to not wanting them to leave the house.

I don't know why you push for this bald hating agenda so much, I mean writing "it's enough you're asking yourself these questions" you sound like a cult leader trying to break someone down, you clearly aren't trying to come to any understanding you just want to convert people to your way of thinking. I don't get why you and so many others get off so much on bald hating or being a "realist" that you take thoughts that may sometimes have something behind them (not in this case though), and stretch them to apply to extreme and ridiculous scenarios wherein society crushes us all by the balls- and then you reach for the tissues.

I knew exactly where you were going with that question before and I guess your practically non-response shows that it does hurt to be predictable and dull, what I don't appreciate is that you were trying to "trap" me or something instead of just making your point.

 

[Rudiger]

Oh so that's how it works, when in doubt, just remind someone that they're losing their hair. Isn't that the kind of attitude that you b**ch about so frequently?

I know why I'm here and I've said it before and will say it many times again to idiots like you who assume that just because I don't think everyone wants bald guys to die, I must be some SlyBaldGuy here to proclaim how great baldness is- I'm here because baldness is ****, it's hard to deal with, I want to fix it, I want to help cope with it, and I want to help others cope with it.

I hate it and never have claimed otherwise, so don't pretend like I don't know "the truth" because you know nothing about me. But as much as I hate it, do I think when I am officially bald, I'll go outside and be pelted by eggs? Or that people want to pelt me with eggs? No, that's your insane logic, and that's not helping you or anyone else cope with the undeniable fact that it sucks, so maybe you should just keep your "realism" to yourself and your own twisted mind.

In an odd way I've seen from you writing and other "realists", I really think that you also hate being just another person, at least if you're bald and hated then that's something, but if you're bald and just average or ugly, like most other guys, then you aren't anything at all. Unfortunately for you, bald guys aren't constantly ridiculed and mocked, in fact most people don't care, that doesn't mean they "don't care" in a way that they don't care about your baldness and might want to date you or set you up with their sister, but they just don't give a **** about you walking by in the street, like they don't give a **** about all the other guys who are 6/10 and below.

Does that hurt? Would it be better to be important enough to be hated? Does it suck not being a little victim to society?