I have returned with some great news

[trialAcc]

Maybe but the burden is much lesser.

You might worry about ur abs not being defined enough but let's not.even compare hairloss bro. The drugs I'm taking I look like I have multiple.types of cancer... lol

See you just did it. You have tunnel vision on this one issue, to the point where you just said "the burden of others demons is much lesser" then your hairloss. Seriously dude? Your hairloss is worse then the guy who had his leg amputated in his teens due to cancer? Or the family who just someone due to an illness? The person who has to live their entire life with a untreatable illness? How about the person who is just born on the extreme ugly end or with learning disabilities? Hairloss is worse then literally none of the things mentioned above and millions of other issues in terms of it's impact on the average person's life.

And yes, the issue of "loving yourself" and feeling desired can be changed with therapy and developing a more healthy mindset. Even the most beautiful people on the planet suffer issues of self doubt and loathing. The people who are able to be happy despite these issues are the ones that are able to realize that if you change the perception you change the narrative. If you don't (or can't) feel desired or wanted by others due to your looks, then find other ways to achieve the same outcome.

 

[Notdifferent]

Maybe but the burden is much lesser.

You might worry about ur abs not being defined enough but let's not.even compare hairloss bro. The drugs I'm taking I look like I have multiple.types of cancer... lol

I didn't make that comparison but you did and it just proves my point lol, people always think their problems are much bigger than anyone else's lol

 

[trialAcc]

Allow me to specify that the conversation was about you "finding other things to worry about even if you didn't have hairloss".

That means that there is no room for you to come up with overly dramatic scenarios to make your point. And anyway, for me hairloss is another life threatening illness, just a much different category and kills your life in a way that might not be easily seen, but that's not the point.

Compared to the things that you, and many believe that you can choose or find to worry about when it comes to your appearance, hairloss can arguably be the most dramatic one, only comparable to micropenis or dwarfism.

That's what the conversation was about.

People are desired by multiple things but you need physical attraction to get turned on its biological. You can get all the therapy you want in the world to find obese women attractive I dont believe you'll trully internalized this. Sorry if I'm offending anyone maybe I've crossed the line but I'm busy cant engage too much into diplomacy lol

If you're going to allow your life to be "threatened" over hairloss, then that very much is within the guise of where you are mentally vs what is actually happening to you. I strongly suggest you seek out someone to talk to about these issues.

You're not offending me, and no one is saying that it's not a massive issue, but when it gets to the extent of you thinking that your life has been killed because you no longer have keratin shafts growing on your scalp, then that's where you will strongly benefit from some sort of therapy or life coaching. You need a new perspective.

 

[trialAcc]

I dont "allow" anything to threaten my life over hairloss. It's not a choice buddy. It affects you mentally, lookswise, dating wise, and in many other areas. Period. You don't choose this. These are realities.

After that, you can try to work out improving certain aspects which might be enough/good for some but not for others, like me.

How old are you? You sound outdated and I'm sure that you're significantly older than most folks or dont live in the west... so your beliefs are based on other type of environment...

I'm 27 and live in one of the most vanity driven cities in the North America outside of LA, Miami or NYC, but you can keep keeping making excuses for why you're situation is different then others as you've continued to do so the entire conversation.

It absolutely is a choice, and when you come to that realization is when you stop letting it control your life. Your mentality is driven by your perception of the world that you occupy. The only "reality" is the one that you create for yourself, and if you keep telling yourself that you are a victim who can't be attractive or be "desired" as you said above, then that's how the people around you are going to treat you.

Anyways, I'm done with this conversation. You can't help people that don't want to help themselves, I just hope you can eventually come to that realization yourself and not allow your best years to be consumed by this. Good luck.

 

[randolf_faust]

Maybe but the burden is much lesser.

You might worry about ur abs not being defined enough but let's not.even compare hairloss bro. The drugs I'm taking I look like I have multiple.types of cancer... lol

what kind of medication are you taking? if you put so much emphasize on being someones romantic dream / wattpadstory guy i hope it includes at least some serious medication and not some pumpkin seed oil capsules..

 

[czecha]

Saving hair past nw3 is cope and past nw4 it’s gigacope lmao.
It’s thick Norwood 2.5 or better. The rest is COPE

 

[Diffused_confidence]

Honestly I'm currently "just" taking dutasteride. If I had money I would consider additional drugs but I currently cannot finance them.

I dont think it's a good idea to use dutasteride. I read that type 1 of the 5ar enzyme isn't even located in the scalp but it is located in the brain?

Did you try finasteride first at least?

 

[It_is_over_for_nw7]

Oh look at that, @killyourinnerloser is literally on the forums.

This pervert is pretending that baldness is no big deal but why is he searching on a forum full of threads on fighting baldness, future cures, side effects, and how fucked our lives are when it isn't a big deal. Clearly this guy is insecure about baldness.

 

[BurningCoals]

Oh look at that, @killyourinnerloser is literally on the forums.

This pervert is pretending that baldness is no big deal but why is he searching on a forum full of threads on fighting baldness, future cures, side effects, and how fucked our lives are when it isn't a big deal. Clearly this guy is insecure about baldness.

Only thing he seems to have done is to share his response video on one of your threads, so idk about that

 

[Notdifferent]

I am convinced this is a troll lol

 

[disfiguredyoungman]

It was pretty cringe all arround when he read your message with a serious voice...you gotta give him credit, he called you a doomer instead of an incel, even though many people might find the latter more than warranted.