I Want To Have Sex With A Girl Before I Start Finasteride But I'm Running Out Of Time

JeanLucBB

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Lolwut. We're not all tall/handsome/buff/white chads. I spent hours picking all the best pictures i could, and swiped right on somewhere between 400-500 girls (only avoiding fat chicks) and i got zero matches. Used a boost and got 4. One messaged me and then stopped. Two ignored me. By that point i didn't try with the fourth.

Just stopped at that point because it was depressing as f***.

My only pic is a selfie, I look like a 5/10 in it, it's pre-transplant and I still have over 100 matches in four months. Banged two, nudes from another few I cbf f*****g and 5-6 girls that were interested in quick sex and probably useable options but haven't got around to it yet. Haven't messaged 30% of the matches yet or just basic sh*t.

Use superlikes though, half my matches are from them.

You don't have to be a chad and they can't gauge your height on tinder I mean lmao. Just look semi-normal. Be more flirtatous and don't bore them with small talk, compliment the sh*t out of them + use emojis and be witty. They just want guys to stand out and be confident so they know you can give them dick properly.

You can't be THAT bad. I doubt you're worse than me and have worse pics than my single f*****g selfie pic. Use Okcupid too at least so you can message without matching too.
 

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My only pic is a selfie, I look like a 5/10 in it, it's pre-transplant and I still have over 100 matches in four months. Banged two, nudes from another few I cbf f*****g and 5-6 girls that were interested in quick sex and probably useable options but haven't got around to it yet. Haven't messaged 30% of the matches yet or just basic sh*t.

Use superlikes though, half my matches are from them.

You don't have to be a chad and they can't gauge your height on tinder I mean lmao. Just look semi-normal. Be more flirtatous and don't bore them with small talk, compliment the sh*t out of them + use emojis and be witty. They just want guys to stand out and be confident so they know you can give them dick properly.

You can't be THAT bad. I doubt you're worse than me and have worse pics than my single f*****g selfie pic. Use Okcupid too at least so you can message without matching too.

I'd kill to be a 5/10. You're obviously a fuckload better looking than me. I have no problem talking to girls but they don't reply online or match if you're a below average minority.

Most guys don't get hundreds of matches on tinder. Most guys get very few. I only know a few who have had matches like that and they've all been very good looking.

I think i saw your picture once before and if i recall you're a handsome white guy. if I'm recalling correctly no surprise really you do well. Or maybe I'm mixing you up with someone else.
 

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I'd kill to be a 5/10. You're obviously a fuckload better looking than me. I have no problem talking to girls but they don't reply online or match if you're a below average minority.

Most guys don't get hundreds of matches on tinder. Most guys get very few. I only know a few who have had matches like that and they've all been very good looking.

I think i saw your picture once before and if i recall you're a handsome white guy. if I'm recalling correctly no surprise really you do well. Or maybe I'm mixing you up with someone else.

When it comes to online dating profiles, it's all about using flattering/fun photos of yourself on your profile. Try to include photos of you with an animal (e.g., dog or cat), an artsy nature picture, and other pictures of you doing sh*t that you love. I don't consider myself to be a good looking dude, but I remade my Tinder last week and I'm already at 100 matches from using "flattering" photo choices.
 

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When it comes to online dating profiles, it's all about using flattering/fun photos of yourself on your profile. Try to include photos of you with an animal (e.g., dog or cat), an artsy nature picture, and other pictures of you doing sh*t that you love. I don't consider myself to be a good looking dude, but I remade my Tinder last week and I'm already at 100 matches from using "flattering" photo choices.

100 in a week, f*** you must be an 8-9/10. Even my most good looking NW1 friends only get 2-300 a year. The pic mastery does help though.
 

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100 in a week, f*** you must be an 8-9/10. Even my most good looking NW1 friends only get 2-300 a year. The pic mastery does help though.

I basically swipe right to everyone as long as they aren't 300 lbs. I can DM you my profile if you want.
 

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II think i saw your picture once before and if i recall you're a handsome white guy. if I'm recalling correctly no surprise really you do well. Or maybe I'm mixing you up with someone else.

You don't have to be white, what ethnicity are you? I do LOL when chicks say "no sleezy Indians" though.

Edit: Also what country are you in?
 

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I am 45
I have been taking finasteride years and years
My sexual organ has never failed me
If you are not confident at all, what about buying some erection helper online before the deed (v****, Cialis, levitra?)

But maybe the actual problem is finding the girl, not the erection...
 

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When it comes to online dating profiles, it's all about using flattering/fun photos of yourself on your profile. Try to include photos of you with an animal (e.g., dog or cat), an artsy nature picture, and other pictures of you doing sh*t that you love. I don't consider myself to be a good looking dude, but I remade my Tinder last week and I'm already at 100 matches from using "flattering" photo choices.

Location and occasion of photo make a difference.
 

JeanLucBB

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You don't have to be white, what ethnicity are you? I do LOL when chicks say "no sleezy Indians" though.

Edit: Also what country are you in?

Do people hate the Maoris in New Zealand or are they more respected? The abos in Australia are universally considered animals by pretty much everyone I know no matter the background except for members of government and SJWs.
 

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You don't have to be white, what ethnicity are you? I do LOL when chicks say "no sleezy Indians" though.

Edit: Also what country are you in?


My one distant relative guy is getting married to a white girl from california.
Both are working in technology company.
Marriage is in december.

My one close friend is studying in Florida university.
I did not issue any warning of indifferences to him because he look so fantastic,is 6 feet plus.

Even if you put some one like Chris Evans close to him,my friend won't be ignored.

Looks don't matter.....
 

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Confirmed Dave420 is the best looking guy on the forum. Definitely the best hair. Do need to see Wolfpack though.

that is why he is on my ignore list from the beginning
 

JeanLucBB

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My one distant relative guy is getting married to a white girl from california.
Both are working in technology company.
Marriage is in december.

My one close friend is studying in Florida university.
I did not issue any warning of indifferences to him because he look so fantastic,is 6 feet plus.

Even if you put some one like Chris Evans close to him,my friend won't be ignored.

Looks don't matter.....

Wtf
 

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Because he's good looking and finasteride has kept his hair? From what I've seen the guy is humble and has some good posts.

Humble is actually counterproductive when it results from a lack of self awareness.

Both he and jeanluc are above average good looking white guys and it is no surprise at all they can clean up on Tinder.

They should both understand that, recognize they are lucky as f*** for it, and not imagine its something 90%+ of us could ever hope to attain.

Good looking guys who are oblivious of how easy their looks make things for them are frustrating to talk with.
 
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JeanLucBB

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Humble is actually counterproductive when it results from a lack of self awareness.

Both he and jeanluc are above average good looking white guys and it is no surprise at all they can clean up on Tinder.

They should bother understand that, recognize they are lucky as f*** for it, and not imagine its something 90%+ of us could ever hope to attain.

Good looking guys who are oblivious of how easy their looks make things for them are frustrating to talk with.

I look ok but trust me if I was a chick literally dave would be the first guy I would date. He looks like like the perfect indie chad. If I looked like him I could literally have sex every 5 minutes.

I still actually have to exert effort to get sex unfortunately.
 

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I look ok but trust me if I was a chick literally dave would be the first guy I would date. He looks like like the perfect indie chad. If I looked like him I could literally have sex every 5 minutes.

I still actually have to exert effort to get sex unfortunately.

Dave is good looking too but i dont think he's more than a point higher than you. I think your hair loss has probably caused you to suffer from poor self esteem and its distorted your self image.

The fact that you can still get hundreds of matches with a lazy selfie should say enough when many of us can't get any with the best pictures we can find or take.
 

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Thank you for all the kind words. I have low self esteem and a weird/awkward personality so that ruins my chances dating wise. I once had a guy told me that I was "wasted potential" based on my low body count.
 
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