I Wonder, Why Is Life So f*****g Unfair?

[MrBald]

Why does some people get a full head of hair with no greying hairs while others like me lose the hair when only 15 f*****g years old? Now I am 31 and complete nw6. And if thats not enough I have noticed some white hairs in my beard.. Serious, its so f*****g unfair.. Some of my friends that are 40 years old got a full head of hairs and no greying.. I try to cope with meditation and spiritual mind-games and generally it works ok, but some days like today its just impossible to cope with this. What the f*** is the purpose with this balding joke, why do we have to lose our f*****g hair on our heads. Life certainly is cruel to some. Some days I feel is would be better to end this misery that is called life, because life really never started, hair loss came before and gave me depression/anxiety/social phobia... Completely destroyed me...

Just writing this to rant, I know there is no answers. Just got to get it off my chest..

 

[Theodolite]

Yeah, that sucks... Life is not a party for some, that's for sure. I am currently watching "Ch5.Extraordinary.People.Help!.Im.16.but.look.60", it kinda helps... Docus like that help much better than meditation or stupid spiritual games. Just my two cents...

 

[tellersquill]

Hell, why are some people born with aids? Why do some people get cancer and die before they've lived? Why are some people born blind? Why are some people raped? Why are people born into poverty?

One thing I will say is that if someone told you it was supposed to be fair then you have been lied to.

There will always be people better and worse off than you.

All you can do is live your life the best way that you can.

 

[Fullhead1day]

Why didn't you go on finasteride or dutasteride?

 

[buckthorn]

Hell, why are some people born with aids? Why do some people get cancer and die before they've lived? Why are some people born blind? Why are some people raped? Why are people born into poverty?

One thing I will say is that if someone told you it was supposed to be fair then you have been lied to.

There will always be people better and worse off than you.

All you can do is live your life the best way that you can.

Most people on here will give you sh*t for this, but it's the truth.

 

[MrBald]

Why didn't you go on finasteride or dutasteride?

Did not even knew that it existed at the time my hair loss started. Found out some years later, but I read about the risks at internet, and I decided not to take it because my hair loss had gone so far anyway... Recently I was at a respected hair transplant doctor for a consultation and he recommended me NOT get on finasteride (if I get a transplant), due to the side effect they had observed on many of their patients.

Maybe if I knew about finasteride when it all started I would have take it though. But I was only 15 then and nobody told me. Not even my my family did take my hair loss problem seriously.

 

[Hangin'on Hair]

Don't worry about grey hairs mate.

 

[hellouser]

Because a fullhead needs to be better off than you and I.

 

[stachu]

Yeah it sucks.

 

[Jimbo5]

Yeah, Bald, life can be brutally unfair, no doubt about it.

Just remember, tho, that you (along with everyone else) had absolutely no control over the hand you were dealt.

Some hit the genetic lottery ... some got a few winning numbers ... and some end up looking like Jason Alexander.

You've probably heard it a million times, but all you can do is try to make the most of what you can control.

Jason may be a complete laughingstock in his phony wig, but the dude at least has some serious dough and fame.


Whatever you do, DON'T pull a "Bobster" over hair loss.

There's absolutely no reason to believe that there's any kind of afterlife.

Religion is nothing more than childish bullsh*t for the frightened and weak, in my view.

You're nothing but nourishment for earth worms after you croak.

And frankly, I'd much rather be here losing hair than in a box on the other side of the grass...


At any rate, here's some Friday night music to cheer up the board ... an oldie from Tom Petty ... Even the Losers (get lucky sometimes) ... LOL

 

[Hangin'on Hair]

Whatever you do, DON'T pull a "Bobster" over hair loss.

Any word on ol' Bobster?

 

[Fullhead1day]

Did not even knew that it existed at the time my hair loss started. Found out some years later, but I read about the risks at internet, and I decided not to take it because my hair loss had gone so far anyway... Recently I was at a respected hair transplant doctor for a consultation and he recommended me NOT get on finasteride (if I get a transplant), due to the side effect they had observed on many of their patients.

Maybe if I knew about finasteride when it all started I would have take it though. But I was only 15 then and nobody told me. Not even my my family did take my hair loss problem seriously.

Absolute bullshit. I hate the damn fear mongering that exists on the internet, including here. Yeah, if you really claim you started losing hair at 15, then it would not be a wise choice to hop on Finasteride. But surely you can hop on it at 17 or 18.
This fearmongering is ruining people's lives. Odds are, you won't get side effects. And if you do, it will not persist after getting off the medication. SO PEOPLE WHO ARE SCARED TO GET ON finasteride, DON'T FALL FOR THIS FEARMONGERING BULLSHIT. Sorry to make an example out of OP, but for people too scared to take the medication, you'll end up exactly like this dude, all depressed, asking why life is unfair. And then, the biggest regret you'll have is not hopping on finasteride earlier.
Again, sorry OP. I'm not blaming you for your decision to pass on finasteride. It's the internet's fault, it's your doctor's fault.

 

[hairblues]

Why does some people get a full head of hair with no greying hairs while others like me lose the hair when only 15 f*****g years old? Now I am 31 and complete nw6. And if thats not enough I have noticed some white hairs in my beard.. Serious, its so f*****g unfair.. Some of my friends that are 40 years old got a full head of hairs and no greying.. I try to cope with meditation and spiritual mind-games and generally it works ok, but some days like today its just impossible to cope with this. What the f*** is the purpose with this balding joke, why do we have to lose our f*****g hair on our heads. Life certainly is cruel to some. Some days I feel is would be better to end this misery that is called life, because life really never started, hair loss came before and gave me depression/anxiety/social phobia... Completely destroyed me...

Just writing this to rant, I know there is no answers. Just got to get it off my chest..

This is most likely NOT your case but just be aware that Alopecia Areata can mimic Androgenetic Alopecia and when hairs regrow they are white--Most likely this is NOT you but just in case wanted to share that and can be on bear and brows etc. You just seem young for grey unless you had black hair--black hair gets grey sooner than other colors--my sister had some grey hairs even in her late 20s my hair was brown and did not get any grey until recently.

 

[Exodus2011]

Absolute bullshit. I hate the damn fear mongering that exists on the internet, including here. Yeah, if you really claim you started losing hair at 15, then it would not be a wise choice to hop on Finasteride. But surely you can hop on it at 17 or 18.
This fearmongering is ruining people's lives. Odds are, you won't get side effects. And if you do, it will not persist after getting off the medication. SO PEOPLE WHO ARE SCARED TO GET ON finasteride, DON'T FALL FOR THIS FEARMONGERING BULLSHIT. Sorry to make an example out of OP, but for people too scared to take the medication, you'll end up exactly like this dude, all depressed, asking why life is unfair. And then, the biggest regret you'll have is not hopping on finasteride earlier.
Again, sorry OP. I'm not blaming you for your decision to pass on finasteride. It's the internet's fault, it's your doctor's fault.

this is so true. i went to the doctor a few months after i started balding at 17 and he didnt prescribe sh*t x.x. and here i am 23 and fully bald

yea it sucks OP. usually i'm okay just meditating and such like you said but sometimes things happen and i feel shitty about it again. i guess try not to resist it so much, that makes it worse imo. its a natural reaction to a shitty thing.

i was feeling so mad about full heads and blue pills earlier i was listening to music and not even remembering what i just heard, basically just zoning out because of it. i had drank a lot of caffeine in a supplement and all the energy was just negative energy :/.i have to chug caffeine because without it i feel just so lifeless as a young baldie. no motivation or energy

 

[Dante92]

Life generally sucks when you're ugly. It's all about genetics in the end. Sorry dude.

 

[tellersquill]

Why is everyone quiet on the bobster situation?

Did it really happen?

 

[KO21]

Why is everyone quiet on the bobster situation?

Did it really happen?

Ive been waiting to hear as well

I'm gunna guess no one really knows.. so no one wants to comment?

 

[tellersquill]

I bet those guys who trolled him and called his bluff feel really bad right about now.

 

[EvilLocks]

"Why is life so unfair?" I have asked myself this question many times. And I have come to realise; there is no answer. It all comes down to luck and genetics, that's it. Life is random and pre-determined all at the same time. It f-cking sucks when good people are forced to live subhuman lives, while bad people get all the luck in the world. I know I'm not the unluckiest person in the world, and that there are people worse off than me. But it pisses me off that I have been aggressively balding since 20, suffer from CFS, tinnitus and chronic anxiety and depression when I have done nothing to deserve it - at least in my own eyes. I have asked myself why I had to suffer this fate, but I simply have no answer… I feel like I'm being punished for something, but I don't know what it is. Life f-cking sucks sometimes (more like all the time for me), but we have to just learn to live with the cards we've been dealt. Either that, or commit suicide (which I don't recommend of course).

 

[Exodus2011]

evil are you sure its chronic fatigue and not just being drained of energy cuz of baldness?

i might as well have CFS with how little energy i have cuz of baldness

i only keep exercising because i like meditative walks and im scared of heart disease

and it sounds wrong but really about the good and evil thing i find myself realizing how relative that sh*t is

nowadays i usually find myself with "evil" urges (no pun intended evillocks lol) and i usually relate most to the villain

at the end of the day why does the villain want power? to make up for feeling inferior. they also usually want to punish the people who hurt them unfairly

god knows like i said earlier i felt like flying off the handle after that supplement and beating the f*****g sh*t out a smug f*****g spoiled blue pilled full head.

it makes me so mad that they dismiss our issues while having meaningless "issues" themselves