I'm Getting Pissed Off At Full Heads' "problems"

[Exodus2011]

anyone else get annoyed at how petty the problems full heads complain about are?

i just saw this guy on facebook complaining he had a job interview for a boring position, and had angst and existential dread. just lawl. you don't know existential dread until you realize you are doomed to be a loser in society's eyes for life. and that seems to almost always be the case

some sh*t about "oh boo hoo my girlfriend is being mean, i hate my in laws, my job sucks, all such meaningless temporary minor issues that can so easily be fixed with a little bit of grit". meanwhile i have to save up $5,000 just so i can look 30 and not 40, and be able to get a girl that isnt f*****g 50+ pounds overweight and 10 years older than me.

i f*****g hate full heads sometimes. and of course how they dare to dismiss baldness really just adds gas to the fire x.x

 

[tellersquill]

Full heads kill themselves every day. There is currently a male suicide epidemic so I'm not sure we should belittle other peoples suffering. It might seem petty to you but to them it can be a big deal.

I've known three men kill themselves in the last five years - and I don't even know that many men!

While its annoying if someone complains and it seems petty - I say let them let off steam and if you're in a nice mood - support them,

 

[Exodus2011]

Full heads kill themselves every day. There is currently a male suicide epidemic so I'm not sure we should belittle other peoples suffering. It might seem petty to you but to them it can be a big deal.

I've known three men kill themselves in the last five years - and I don't even know that many men!

While its annoying if someone complains and it seems petty - I say let them let off steam and if you're in a nice mood - support them,

to be fair i can understand it if its something big like a sickness or they are just plain ugly or whatever. i get that. especially in today's dating and social environment, ugly guys in general are suffering. not just bald men. so i consider ugly/mediocre looking people in general family.

my original post meant a lot of full heads problems, not all of them.

and it seems a lot of times people are depressed for "no reason" they turn out to be ugly or barely average looking. i think they might be emotionally affected by their looks subconsciously. of course though it usually takes something big like baldness or girls throwing themselves at you for people to be aware looks matter a lot

hot people who aren't afraid to speak their mind and are aware often seem to be know the power of looks too, since they have benefitted so much from them. i just hate when they deny the privileges they have.

 

[CopeForLife]

Get the f*** out of here.

LMAO

I had a very GL (9/10) friend he told me how he passed face control in the club. For normal people usually it is jeans some skirt etc.

He went in slippers, shorts and t-short. Security was a bit surprised but eventually he passed.

Guess what he said?

"They liked my style!"

I said "Yeah... Sure..."

What kind of magic is this?

 

[Exodus2011]

fred, are you sure there weren't other issues that those hot people had? kurt cobain had severe medical issues, he is like a 9+ and i'm sure would have been a totally different person without the medical sh*t.

in cases where they have it easy their neurochemistry is probably fucked, so they still end up sad. ofc its still easy for them as they can just get some therapy and change the lifestyle to get some neuroplasticity going. thats when your brain changes. its even happened to all of us i'm sure, feeling angry and sad about baldness for an extended period of time. difference is with us the cause of it is mostly unchangable

 

[CopeForLife]

I have a bunch of stories about this guy albeit I was with him only a couple of days... He lives his life on easiest level.

He earns a lot of money working in oil production. Like 600USD per day (lol). He can chose any girls and she will never refuse.

First day we separated and he went to home – while he was on the way back he met 4 girls chose the hottest one and banged her that night.

He took a virginity of another 8/10 girl.

Also he never complains about anything or bragging – one of the friendliest and "confident" guy I met ever.

By coincedence most goodlooking as well.

 

[Exodus2011]

Full heads kill themselves every day. There is currently a male suicide epidemic so I'm not sure we should belittle other peoples suffering. It might seem petty to you but to them it can be a big deal.

I've known three men kill themselves in the last five years - and I don't even know that many men!

While its annoying if someone complains and it seems petty - I say let them let off steam and if you're in a nice mood - support them,

i have about 50 people in my extended circle, as in i'd know about their life through facebook because i went to school with them or theyre friends of a friend. and only 2 have attempted suicide as far as i know, and one succeeded.

one was a guy who was raped by his mom, and the other a girl who was raped by her dad. the girl is the one who succeeded in killing herself (she jumped off a bridge). you are acting like its some common thing to be suicidal

most of the time in my experience they have a good reason to, being raped by your parents is definitely one.

 

[tellersquill]

i have about 50 people in my extended circle, as in i'd know about their life through facebook because i went to school with them or theyre friends of a friend. and only 2 have attempted suicide as far as i know, and one succeeded.

one was a guy who was raped by his mom, and the other a girl who was raped by her dad. the girl is the one who succeeded in killing herself (she jumped off a bridge). you are acting like its some common thing to be suicidal

most of the time in my experience they have a good reason to, being raped by your parents is definitely one.

For sure.

I've had suicidal thoughts - still do. And even though I have hair loss - the reason for my suffering goes beyond that.

Perhaps I shall be mocked but I see a lot of futility to life. The pain often outweighs the pleasure. There is a hell of a lot of suffering and it wont get any easier as we age. The world is in an awful place and I feel I'm not really in a position to make significant changes.

I don't plan to have children and I fear I cannot connect with someone deeply enough to ever have a wife. What awaits is a series of more flings - more meaningless flings. I know that's sounds great for the under thirties on here - but when you become a man and you've been there and seen it all - it gets old.

At the moment I stay alive for the little things - a good conversation, a sunny day, a long novel, a duvet day with films.

Its that stuff that keeps me alive and if I think about it too much my mind will grow dark.

 

[dunno]

That's why I hate good-looking people. Not only they have it WAY easier in life, but they won't admit it and even try to feed you their sh*t. And then people get surprised when I say that I enjoy their suffering.

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No wonder bald men are portrayed as villains, can you blame them?

 

[Exodus2011]

For sure.

I've had suicidal thoughts - still do. And even though I have hair loss - the reason for my suffering goes beyond that.

Perhaps I shall be mocked but I see a lot of futility to life. The pain often outweighs the pleasure. There is a hell of a lot of suffering and it wont get any easier as we age. The world is in an awful place and I feel I'm not really in a position to make significant changes.

I don't plan to have children and I fear I cannot connect with someone deeply enough to ever have a wife. What awaits is a series of more flings - more meaningless flings. I know that's sounds great for the under thirties on here - but when you become a man and you've been there and seen it all - it gets old.

At the moment I stay alive for the little things - a good conversation, a sunny day, a long novel, a duvet day with films.

Its that stuff that keeps me alive and if I think about it too much my mind will grow dark.

i understand. i have existential angst a lot as i'm too rational to have faith in sky daddy and eternal post death pie aka heaven and christianity.

its just those simple things are a lot harder to enjoy when you are bald, knowing society sees you as inferior, being depicted as losers constantly in fiction, dating issues, identity destruction, etc. you have to go into a totally different mindset to enjoy things.

 

[Exodus2011]

That's why I hate good-looking people. Not only they have it WAY easier in life, but they won't admit it and even try to feed you their sh*t. And then people get surprised when I say that I enjoy their suffering.

the oppressed rise up against their oppressors

baldness has a strong correlation with ugliness and ugly people are oppressed. so i can see the reasoning behind baldies being depicted as villains tbh. but of course many people only see bald slayers cuz well, come on, who spends time thinking about ugly people? we spend time thinking about hot people so a lot of people and especially women just think of the jason statham bald slayers

its like i am with fat girls. i like somewhat chubby girls who have feminine fat placement (dat THICKNESS/hip fat placement), but theyre far from the average fat girl. theyre the equivalent of tall manly bald guys who can pull it off.

i'd be damned if i try to use it as an example to make a fat girl feel better though, as i know the situations are way different

 

[tellersquill]

i understand. i have existential angst a lot as i'm too rational to have faith in sky daddy and eternal post death pie aka heaven and christianity.

its just those simple things are a lot harder to enjoy when you are bald, knowing society sees you as inferior, being depicted as losers constantly in fiction, dating issues, identity destruction, etc. you have to go into a totally different mindset to enjoy things.

Yep, it is compounded if you don't look so good.

But still, we must have empathy for all suffering - not just for the baldies.

 

[Baldingat188]

the problem is if thats the only thing they know they won't be able to relate to it.

I could see someone with a terrible disease think people who complain about hairloss are wasting their time . not saying this is the case but I could see that. If it only was really about losing your hair it wouldn't be a big deal but its about losing your identity , self worth , ect. no one should be foolish enough to think hairloss is really just about not having hair because its much deeper then that.

 

[Exodus2011]

the problem is if thats the only thing they know they won't be able to relate to it.

I could see someone with a terrible disease think people who complain about hairloss are wasting their time . not saying this is the case but I could see that. If it only was really about losing your hair it wouldn't be a big deal but its about losing your identity , self worth , ect. no one should be foolish enough to think hairloss is really just about not having hair because its much deeper then that.

admittedly i complained before hair loss too. its just i always had a core of self esteem and happiness and hope that kept me from really feeling sad. those times were more "i'm frustrated at the current situation". but thats all it ever was, just a "ugh this sucks" rather than the completely hopeless "i'm inferior and worthless and people look down on me" that baldness is.

fred is right though in that these full heads often do realize how much baldness sucks, they are just afraid of being seen as vain or weak.

lol this reminds me of a dark memory i had when i was 16. family pointed out my crown was thinning but it was at that borderline point. i remember saying over and over "i'll shave my head and be a confident bald guy! i'll be the cool bald guy!" and the more i said it the more the words sounded empty. i was so deep in denial about it that if i was polygraph tested i would have passed it but deep deep down i was in denial and rationalizing

its so easy to superficially lie to yourself about it because no one wants to confront the fact that looks matter a lot and largely determine your worth.

 

[cocohot]

^ This guy killed himself at the age of 35 because he thought he was unhappy.

I have no sympathy for these people. It's like humans like to have some problems to attract attention.

And when they have none, they create them out of thin air it seems.

I remember my ex-girlfriend's cousin, first thought that popped into my head when I saw him:

"Damn, he's so good-looking, he must live the life and be so happy!"

Nope, the idiot hung himself in his basement. Because he had an argument with his wife. Seriously.

"I'm so good-looking, people only love me for my looks!"

"My wallet is too small for my money!"

Get the f*** out of here.



They just hired this guy for a high-ranked function at my workplace.

Very handsome guy, he must be like 22, fresh out of university with only his master's degree.

The guy's got almost a manager job right out of college.

All the girls were acting like puppies when they came to introduce him.

But if you ask him, I'm sure he'll say it's his hard work that got him there.

Have you ever considered that if you were a 10/10 with a great job etc you might just get bored with it when the novelty wears off?

That guy was 35, so he'd had 20 years of being a 10/10. Do you think after 20 years he cared about women throwing themselves at him anymore or living in a big house etc? People just get bored of life and nothing excites them anymore, there is nothing that motivates them to get out of bed,

Like we all get desensitized to p**rn, like we take for example flying in an aeroplane for granted or electricity or any number of things that people were amazed by initially but don't care about anymore.

I don't really care about money. I work because I like to and to be occupied. The thing that makes me happiest in life is when I really connect with people and/or have fun.

 

[shookwun]

Despite dreading wearing a wig, and everything involved. When I had a brand new attachment, styled my hair, and looked my absolute best all my problems seemed to go away. \

During that time I was laid off from work, and it didn't bug me one bit. I was collecting unemployment insurance, and went about my day. I was seemingly happy when I managed to actually get this wig to fit properly. Of course those feelings quickly went away when the sun oxidized the piece in a matter of a week. But I remember specifically those days where I had a full head of hair and I felt good about myself.

Nothing seemed to bother me. I had a full head of hair, was more social, met lot's of women despite being a nervous rekt when they were up close. During that breif time I wore I managed to score one of the hottest babes I ever been with. Everything about her, and that experience was amazing. To the point where my first night with her I couldn't get it up due to my wig induced anxiety. I got a lot of pleasure out of just getting hert off, and feeling truly ALIVE. sweating my life out just licking and fingering her like my life counted on it. I have also had experiences with borderline average women, and it never felt the same. That's where I came up with the whole life theory that I rather be alone then be with a chick I am not into, for the sake of being with someone.

my point is that when I did have a decent attachment, and wasn't riddled with anxiety my problems seemed to go away. I was much more alive, and concerned about others, and what they have to say. To the point where I was following up with questions about them, rather then talking about my self. I seemed to 'give a sh*t' about the littlest things, and had interest on all levels. I was less selfish, and more caring of others.

Verdict: f*** full head problems, and there menial bullshit issues. They don't know what baldness, and the cocktail of depression, anxiety and having low levels of self-esteem will cause. Most there problems are trivial bullshit, and every day normal issues we face. Put these faggots on hard mode, cross that HARDCORE mode, then tell me your problems.

 

[CaptainForehead]

all such meaningless temporary minor issues that can so easily be fixed with a little bit of grit".



meanwhile i have to save up $5,000 just so i can look 30 and not 40, and be able to get a girl that isnt f*****g 50+ pounds overweight and 10 years older than me.

You know, saving up $5,000 can be done with a little bit of grit too.

 

[shookwun]

^ This guy killed himself at the age of 35 because he thought he was unhappy.

I have no sympathy for these people. It's like humans like to have some problems to attract attention.

And when they have none, they create them out of thin air it seems.

I remember my ex-girlfriend's cousin, first thought that popped into my head when I saw him:

"Damn, he's so good-looking, he must live the life and be so happy!"

Nope, the idiot hung himself in his basement. Because he had an argument with his wife. Seriously.

"I'm so good-looking, people only love me for my looks!"

"My wallet is too small for my money!"

Get the f*** out of here.



They just hired this guy for a high-ranked function at my workplace.

Very handsome guy, he must be like 22, fresh out of university with only his master's degree.

The guy's got almost a manager job right out of college.

All the girls were acting like puppies when they came to introduce him.

But if you ask him, I'm sure he'll say it's his hard work that got him there.

I think it's a myth that ugly nerds get jobs. Sure, a lot of them exert a lot of energy into there studies, have no life and seem to live by the books. But from my experience it's usually good looking people who are educated who land good jobs, get promoted and seemingly have excel at working with all levels of management.

Where did this myth stem from that the ugly guy who spends all his time studying will land a high paying job. Most these clowns are horrible at networking, and meeting people. Apart from there resume, a lot of the time your credentials will get you a interview, but it's your personality, looks and how you articulate yourself that gets you the job.


A lot of nerdy social recluses don't have the social skills to close deals, and make themselves appear as a dominant force against others.



Good looking people tend to be naturally charismatic, and demonstrate better leadership skills.


Who came up with this myth that the ugly guy you pick on is going to be your boss?

 

[Exodus2011]

You know, saving up $5,000 can be done with a little bit of grit too.

a lot more grit from me than your average person because of preexisting social anxiety. and my point was it wouldn't be worth it, i'd need a 10k+ transplant as far as i know for even passable hair.

thats the red pill shookwun, i've only seen the looks of academics and ofc they tend to be uglier/mediocre looking but managers and bosses and other non-academic high paying jobs tend to have that stock photo winning smile aesthetic look.

like theyre straight from andy griifith

 

[buckthorn]

anyone else get annoyed at how petty the problems full heads complain about are?

i just saw this guy on facebook complaining he had a job interview for a boring position, and had angst and existential dread. just lawl. you don't know existential dread until you realize you are doomed to be a loser in society's eyes for life. and that seems to almost always be the case

some sh*t about "oh boo hoo my girlfriend is being mean, i hate my in laws, my job sucks, all such meaningless temporary minor issues that can so easily be fixed with a little bit of grit". meanwhile i have to save up $5,000 just so i can look 30 and not 40, and be able to get a girl that isnt f*****g 50+ pounds overweight and 10 years older than me.

i f*****g hate full heads sometimes. and of course how they dare to dismiss baldness really just adds gas to the fire x.x

I avoid social situations at all costs, especially in public places.

Today, I was waiting to see a house, and stopped into starbucks for 30min. just sitting there, listing to these loud, terrible, white suburban rat-faced fucktards, I realized how sad and pathetic the world actually is. Literally things like, "well I just like don't like know... I thought the way he didn't pick up his pop can was like inconsiderate."

I felt it man. I wanted to shove her scone down her spoiled, entitled face and watch her choke. I haven't attempted a relationship in over a year. I can't leave the house without a hat. I talk to no one. I wake up at 6am from anxiety ridden nightmares, drive to bug infested houses and work all day just to keep my mind occupied. I watched my only friend, my dog, die after weeks of seizures...14 years of real friendship. And the day after, this is what I hear.. this, and a girl literally crying, CRYING because her professor is UNFAIR.

Then there are the girls that are super hyper, and getting goosebumps from talking about theirselves. How great they are and how they got a promotion...

What in the f*****g hell is wrong with people. what is it? why are they such little, petulant f*** faced weaklings? I don't know. but I wish I had a million dicks so I could f*** all their faces.

EDIT - This was a very angry post. I would buy them all dinner before I fucked their faces.