Is it better to be a beta provider or settle for trash or be lonely?

[Feelsbadman]

for an ugly / balding short guy
is it better to be lonely and just bang hookers?

or be beta provider to a girl whose fucked heaps of bad boys and looking to settle and/or

settle for some trash hoe e.g. uneducated, dumb, skank, single mum etc.

 

[doubleindemnity]

A bald guy isn't realistically attractive enough to do the second two. So the first is the only option. I think that we should see the positives. Save money, try to retire not too old. Spend on stuff that you enjoy such as video games, books and movies.

 

[Notdifferent]

A bald guy isn't realistically attractive enough to do the second two. So the first is the only option. I think that we should see the positives. Save money, try to retire not too old. Spend on stuff that you enjoy such as video games, books and movies.

^ anything is better than whatever this guy is doing lol

 

[KNemo]

for an ugly / balding short guy
is it better to be lonely and just bang hookers?

or be beta provider to a girl whose fucked heaps of bad boys and looking to settle and/or

settle for some trash hoe e.g. uneducated, dumb, skank, single mum etc.

Work on your personality and empathy. Get some interests, focus on them for some years and try to get good at them. Be healthy. Have hygiene and style.
Dare to be seen and interesting, being able to be passionate is attractive. Show that you're sexually available without being plump or overly aggressive.

Short ugly men can get with good looking girls but incel scum can't so erase that kind of sh*t right out of your mind.

 

[doubleindemnity]

Work on your personality and empathy. Get some interests, focus on them for some years and try to get good at them. Be healthy. Have hygiene and style.
Dare to be seen and interesting, being able to be passionate is attractive. Show that you're sexually available without being plump or overly aggressive.

Short ugly men can get with good looking girls but incel scum can't so erase that kind of sh*t right out of your mind.

These things don't work for bald guys. If you don't believe me, just shave a NW6 pattern into your head and try it yourself. I'm sure that most guys believed this stuff until they tried it. I've done all of this. Get in shape, dress well, take up some interesting hobbies, improve social skills by making more friends and work hard in your career. The same is true, I believe, for a lot of bald guys on this forum. I really think that most actual 'incel' guys are regular hardworking, interesting and passionate guys who just aren't attractive enough. We only hear from the vocal, deranged incels though. That's why I think that a bald guy being able to settle or maintain a relationship by being a provider is doing way better than he can expect.

Edit. Also TC, I don't think that uneducated or dumb should be put alongside skank.

 

[Diffused_confidence]

You are better off single than in a bad marriage. It's that simple.

 

[LouisSarkozy]

Work on your personality and empathy. Get some interests, focus on them for some years and try to get good at them. Be healthy. Have hygiene and style.
Dare to be seen and interesting, being able to be passionate is attractive. Show that you're sexually available without being plump or overly aggressive.

Short ugly men can get with good looking girls but incel scum can't so erase that kind of sh*t right out of your mind.

cope

 

[INT]

cope

Dumb

 

[JaneyElizabeth]

Anyone about to post these types of threads, if you desist from seeking humiliation, I will send you a signed picture of Janey with a special insult composed just for you, loser and I will wear whatever you like but then you have to take your bald head and ineffectual penis and go seek humiliation on sites actually created for that so the rest of us can get back to trying to find a cure for your ugly *** pate.

Signed,
Janey

 

[Feelsbadman]

These things don't work for bald guys. If you don't believe me, just shave a NW6 pattern into your head and try it yourself. I'm sure that most guys believed this stuff until they tried it. I've done all of this. Get in shape, dress well, take up some interesting hobbies, improve social skills by making more friends and work hard in your career. The same is true, I believe, for a lot of bald guys on this forum. I really think that most actual 'incel' guys are regular hardworking, interesting and passionate guys who just aren't attractive enough. We only hear from the vocal, deranged incels though. That's why I think that a bald guy being able to settle or maintain a relationship by being a provider is doing way better than he can expect.

Edit. Also TC, I don't think that uneducated or dumb should be put alongside skank.

This

People just don't understand. Women do not f*****g care about your "hobbies" or "being interesting" or your career, (unless you are making huge bank).

I've seen this countless times. I even have an attractive second cousin who used to do some modelling. She married a 6 ft 4 tall dark and handsome man. He has no real career. Smokes, drinks and i drives a sh*t bomb. Yet every time I see her with him she is happy and loving him.

Ugly men just get the left overs. Some washed up girl who is just looking for some security and a guy to have babies with. Who will make him wait for sex or have sex once a week.

Also i meant a low value women. I know skank is different to uneducated but you know those low value women you see on dating apps? Single mums. Emotional baggage. 30 years old. Skanky. Low skilled job etc

 

[vondoom]

ugly men most likely get ugly women without any problem... same as average men get average women and good looking men get good looking women and so on...
people usually date on their level... it is of course not surprising then really good looking people got more chances...
i got no idea why anyone is surprised by that, or even offended... go out and get a gf!

 

[Feelsbadman]

ugly men most likely get ugly women without any problem... same as average men get average women and good looking men get good looking women and so on...
people usually date on their level... it is of course not surprising then really good looking people got more chances...
i got no idea why anyone is surprised by that, or even offended... go out and get a gf!

what if ur not attracted to ugly girls?

 

[JaneyElizabeth]

what if ur not attracted to ugly girls?

Go out and get a boyfriend....

 

[vondoom]

what if ur not attracted to ugly girls?

yeah i get it... this discussion has no point, in case you dont see it...
of course you shouldnt date anyone you are not attracted to, but thats exactly how women see it, too...
if they are not attracted to you, then they wont bother...
usually they just have way less issues with that...
its men that judge themselves way too high usually and its men who want women way out of their league...

in the end you can only improve yourself (or of course do nothing)...

 

[doubleindemnity]

This

People just don't understand. Women do not f*****g care about your "hobbies" or "being interesting" or your career, (unless you are making huge bank).

I've seen this countless times. I even have an attractive second cousin who used to do some modelling. She married a 6 ft 4 tall dark and handsome man. He has no real career. Smokes, drinks and i drives a sh*t bomb. Yet every time I see her with him she is happy and loving him.

Ugly men just get the left overs. Some washed up girl who is just looking for some security and a guy to have babies with. Who will make him wait for sex or have sex once a week.

Also i meant a low value women. I know skank is different to uneducated but you know those low value women you see on dating apps? Single mums. Emotional baggage. 30 years old. Skanky. Low skilled job etc

I still think that 'low skilled job etc' doesn't belong in the same list. Is it even important...

ugly men most likely get ugly women without any problem... same as average men get average women and good looking men get good looking women and so on...
people usually date on their level... it is of course not surprising then really good looking people got more chances...
i got no idea why anyone is surprised by that, or even offended... go out and get a gf!

This kind of thinking works for guys with hair but not for bald guys. As I said, if a bald guy can attract a single mother who is willing to stay with him, he is doing better than average in dating. For guys with hair, single mother would be perhaps less desirable.

 

[INT]

Defeatism is growing strong in this forum. Such a shame.

 

[NAVI]

ugly men most likely get ugly women without any problem... same as average men get average women and good looking men get good looking women and so on...
people usually date on their level... it is of course not surprising then really good looking people got more chances...
i got no idea why anyone is surprised by that, or even offended... go out and get a gf!

The problem is baldness changes our status and level suddenly. And it's difficult to accept that we are now out of league for people who were earlier out of our league

 

[vondoom]

I still think that 'low skilled job etc' doesn't belong in the same list. Is it even important...


This kind of thinking works for guys with hair but not for bald guys. As I said, if a bald guy can attract a single mother who is willing to stay with him, he is doing better than average in dating. For guys with hair, single mother would be perhaps less desirable.

well i say the same... its most of the people here who think they still can be demanding...
if you can be demanding and got enough luck with women, more power to you... just dont expect it and complain about the obvious...

and lets be clear about all that single mother and fatty talk here... i doubt all of the women folks here meet are fat and/or single mothers...
fact is they want some insta models or whatever the internet tells them is hot now and just cant accept it when they dont get it (and most likely would have no issue finding a normal woman, or a woman on their level without any issues)...
i said it before and i say it again: when it comes to looks, most likely fat is for women what bald is for men...
and dont anyone complain about women not liking bald men, you dont like bald men yourself...

 

[vondoom]

The problem is baldness changes our status and level suddenly. And it's difficult to accept that we are now out of league for people who were earlier out of our league

yeah absolutely... they just dont want understand it... its pretty simple though, or does anyone really think i got chances with a woman 15 years younger? i am balding too and have a hard time accepting it... it had no impact on my social life though until now, though...

 

[doubleindemnity]

well i say the same... its most of the people here who think they still can be demanding...
if you can be demanding and got enough luck with women, more power to you... just dont expect it and complain about the obvious...

and lets be clear about all that single mother and fatty talk here... i doubt all of the women folks here meet are fat and/or single mothers...
fact is they want some insta models or whatever the internet tells them is hot now and just cant accept it when they dont get it (and most likely would have no issue finding a normal woman, or a woman on their level without any issues)...
i said it before and i say it again: when it comes to looks, most likely fat is for women what bald is for men...
and dont anyone complain about women not liking bald men, you dont like bald men yourself...

A bald guy has no chance of 'finding a normal woman'. Your argument is sound and sensible but it doesn't apply to bald guys, sadly. Bald guys just want a chance to work themselves out of their situation. But, besides treatments, there is no way.