I agree 100% with every word you said. eg. Dave wanting to get lip and forehead surgery when he has hundreds of girls matching to him on Tinder is body dysmorphia of the highest order. Yeah that's a problem.
But I would also like to say that I think "incel culture" is spreading and growing and no matter what anyone does, it will not stop or be contained.
I think the real catalyst for all this has been online dating. Up til now, everyone would tell you if you did bad with women, you just need to try harder, or work on your personality, or be more funny/interesting, etc. And I think people mostly believed it.
But now, a guy who is suffering can simply change his pictures online to a better looking guy and get instantly 500%+ the results without anything else changing about them. All of a sudden, girls want to talk to them. They don't have a "bad personality" anymore. Girls laugh at their stupid jokes on the apps, girls offer their phone numbers.
The thing is - the cat can't go back into the bag on that one. Technology let it out, and the fallout is spreading for young men's self-perceptions and ideals of what are important for them.
Someone mentioned a new incel site on this site, at incels.me. I checked it out, and it's only been around 4-5 weeks, yet has 70,000 posts! This is insane! They had
50,000 posts in 3 weeks! Can you imagine? Obviously that's mostly because these guys are sitting around complaining all day. But the point is the number of guys who feel dejected and rejected by society is massive and likely growing.
I think all this stuff is becoming more and more mainstream, and I think it will spread throughout the Internet and real life as well. Another example is bodybuilding.com's misc section, which once was just a place for Chads to shoot the sh*t, but in recent years has also become "inceltalk dot com" as EvilLocks called it.
I don't think there's any escape. It's a type of progress. Toward what I can't say. Maybe Japan's social situation?