Is There Any Point In Trying If You Are Short And Bald?

[Notcoolanymore]

Maybe they like being dominated.

Maybe they like how cool is looks when they are banging them in the car, to have to have one their feet hanging out of the driver side window and the other foot hanging out of the passenger side.

 

[blackg]

Maybe they like how cool is looks when they are banging them in the car, to have to have one their feet hanging out of the driver side window and the other foot hanging out of the passenger side.

Haha.. I like your humor.

 

[CaptainForehead]

Damn.

 

[F2005]

It really depends on how short you are. One of my really good friends is 5'6 and has gotten more women than anybody. But the key is that he has thick, rockstar hair literally down to his ***, some of the best hair I've ever seen. He also keeps in awesome shape, tan, and has a nice face. He also wears some kind of lifts in his shoes when he goes out, I think. Once you get below 5'5 though, then I think a person is limited in who they can go out with.

That being said, height really does help, yet I'd trade a few inches just to have a full head of hair. Any day. But if you are maybe around 5'8 or slightly below average, it's really not going to limit you at all. But 5'4, that is a different story.

 

[Roberto_72]

I never can understand these threads because of the imperial system.
I understand 5'7" is short (170 cm) and 6' (183 cm) is tall.

In my opinion, the problem with short+Bald is that when you are short the bald dome is more visible. Every time the short bald person lowers their head, their Norwood state jumps to the eye.

When you are very tall, the attention goes to the lower part of the head (mouth, chin, nose) and the baldness is more rarely highlighted.

This adds to the fact that height is indeed fascinating for both sexes. Honestly? I would love a taller woman. It would find it very virile, as in: he is ugly, but secured a very tall specimen

 

[FootyStar]

Is there even any point in trying to date if you are short and balding?

I guess like others have said it depends on how short, how bald, and how attractive your face is. Social skills is also another thing to consider. 5'7" isn't bad provided you have good enough hair to work with, an attractive face and decent social skills.

If you don't have those things at that height, you're pretty much on your way to dating hell. Believe me, I'm a lifetime resident there.

 

[resu]

There's a checklist you have to meet, if you're short then your other traits have to be really high or even flawless. The better looking one is the more they can get away with but everyone knows this. It also depends if you're slaying or dating, dating is much harder and requires you to accept that the only thing they want from you is to start a family, to provide and to be their errand boy, if you start saying that you don't want a kid then see how quickly they change and start becoming more and more intolerant of you until they eventually boot you out.

 

[sunchyme1]

I'm a lifetime resident there, too. I gave up on girls and dating even before I started losing my hair. People should be honest with themselves and accept and deal with what they've got, without becoming delusional and thinking that personality and social skills can compensate for an ugly face and baldness.

PLASTIC SURGERY MY CRAZY ITALIAN FRIEND!

 

[sunchyme1]

Height means nothing at all if your ugly. I am 6'2" but bald and ugly, I have accepted I'm doomed. It is what it is. Haven't been with a girl in 10 years and I'm 27.

i have one word for you my friend

PROSTITUTION

 

[sunchyme1]

anyone here crazy enough to get leg lengthening surgery?

http://abcnews.go.com/Health/york-man-grows-inches-surgery/story?id=15776730

 

[tellersquill]

Sometimes incels get laid - just play the numbers and looksmax the best you can

The last one hurts me because that woman is genuinely good looking - someone I would definitely date

 

[tellersquill]

Many above average guys like me play the numbers too, and I see a lot of them getting nowhere.

I cannot imagine the amount of effort if you want to score as an average guy, or god forbid, an ugly guy.

You'd need to make it a full-time job, which is exactly what PUA enthusiasts will do, with little to no reward (because they're ugly to average).

At a point, it's better to give up and accept that no woman wants your genes.

But its not always the case.

I think they will have a hard time on tinder - of course they would.

But sometimes in real life things aren't always the same. I've got quite a lot of average looking mates who have better looking partners. Lots of 5s going out with 6s and 7s.

While its better to be attractive - there is still hope for ugly people

 

[blackg]

Good to see Fred posting again.
Less time at the gym, Fred, and more time posting.

 

[SmoothSailing]

If you cannot get a girl in a club, a bar or on Tinder, you will not be able to get her in other situations (with what options are we left by way? As I've seen @Roberto_72 point out) . No need to make a distinction.

Incorrect. There are people who get together with their friends. I have noticed that a lot of my friends, who never did well in clubs, and are too unattractive for tinder, have got with one of our other friends. Looks-matched of course.

You also forget about girls who don't want to use Tinder, or girls who use it but never meet. They will have it slightly harder than their tinderella counterparts and thus should be slightly easier

 

[tellersquill]

I still don't see why Tinder should be different from real life.

I almost ended up working at my girlfriend's company (I met her on Tinder).

Why would it have been different to meet her there? Maybe it would have been even harder to catch her attention.

I've seen that cope a lot on here the last few days.

It's funny, before the existence of dating websites, people were spouting the same BS about clubs and bars.

"I think they will have a hard time in a club or a bar - of course they would!"

Yeah they would, it's all about looks there, right?

Quit the coping. The girls you meet in your daily life are the same girls you would meet at the club or on Tinder.

If you cannot get a girl in a club, a bar or on Tinder, you will not be able to get her in other situations (with what options are we left by way? As I've seen @Roberto_72 point out) . No need to make a distinction.

So hope for ugly people? Sure, people win the lottery.

I'm not coping myself - you've seen pictures of me - I'm decent looking so I've got no motive to defend ugly men.

I think tinder is more looks based whereas in real life there are other factors that give people more a punching chance.

 

[tellersquill]

What factors? Your looks are always what gets your through the door.

I don't know - what factors do you think are at play when someone dates someone well above their comparative looks range?

I've heard lots of theories:

- good earner
- the hot one has ugly duck syndrome or low self esteem
- they offer something else - they are super talented or something
- less chance of them cheating (in theory)


My best friend is a 7 and she goes out with a solid 5 - they f*** and everything (she has low self esteem though)

Anyway, these aren't my theories, just ideas.

 

[resu]

I don't know - what factors do you think are at play when someone dates someone well above their comparative looks range?

I've heard lots of theories:

- good earner
- the hot one has ugly duck syndrome or low self esteem
- they offer something else - they are super talented or something
- less chance of them cheating (in theory)


My best friend is a 7 and she goes out with a solid 5 - they f*** and everything (she has low self esteem though)

Anyway, these aren't my theories, just ideas.

Just being in a band will get you dates, I remember when I was younger seeing the "prick with the guitar" on their back and that alone would get them girls.

 

[SmoothSailing]

I don't know - what factors do you think are at play when someone dates someone well above their comparative looks range?

I've heard lots of theories:

- good earner
- the hot one has ugly duck syndrome or low self esteem
- they offer something else - they are super talented or something
- less chance of them cheating (in theory)


My best friend is a 7 and she goes out with a solid 5 - they f*** and everything (she has low self esteem though)

Anyway, these aren't my theories, just ideas.

All those factors are at play on tinder. Even before starting the conversation.

If you are exceptionally funny, interesting, fun to be around you'll likely be able to do better in real life.

Also pictures don't show everything about someones appearance. Seeing how someone moves, holds themselves, their facial expression and reactions all affect attractiveness. Some might be more or less suited to Tinder.

 

[tellersquill]

All those factors are at play on tinder. Even before starting the conversation.

If you are exceptionally funny, interesting, fun to be around you'll likely be able to do better in real life.

Also pictures don't show everything about someones appearance. Seeing how someone moves, holds themselves, their facial expression and reactions all affect attractiveness. Some might be more or less suited to Tinder.

Sure but humour and success does not transfer through one face bio pic.

I don't even look at profiles - just the one picture on their profile

 

[sunchyme1]

How it feels like to be ugly and bald in a nutshell.