Isnt it ironic that people are marrying later and balding earlier?

[KevinEdEddEddy]

I think the problem he has, he is slick bald, ethnic and average looking

I have hair and considered attractive but still find it hard, in comparison to some of my friends who are white and are objectively similarly attractive

@doubleindemnity is playing the dating game on ultra hard mode - with that said he is not very good at taking his opportunities when they present themselves. He’s had a few good ones.

Tbf many times people who end up alone do so because they overestimated the cards they got

 

[Oknow]

Tbf many times people who end up alone do so because they overestimated the cards they got

yeah you are right

I think sometimes you need to just say to yourself f*** it and jump into a relationship with someone

 

[justinbieberscombover]

it depends on a lot of variables

location - I wouldn’t do well in Australia for example

Women you are going after - the more attractive the higher their standards is likely going to be

If you look at all of those couples, they are quite similar in terms of appearance

The 2nd guy is good looking. He just needs a sharp buzzcut.

The 4th girl is pretty cute she just needs to lose weight and work on her style.

The rest are matched though.

 

[Oknow]

The 2nd black guy surely doesn't belong in there

makes you wonder why

is it because he’s black?

 

[justinbieberscombover]

makes you wonder why

is it because he’s black?

He's a black nerd

Black men are seen as hyper masculine by default
So the ones who are different and not so social struggle

 

[doubleindemnity]

that’s the right attitude , and you should think the same way about being bald

I do understand your frustration, sometimes I just wish things were easier.

so you are not the only one

I don't think that any non bald understand. I could go on about this but I don't want to drag everybody down close to the holidays. I was saying that you said "I choose not to let it hold me back" about your ethnic background and I am disagreeing. It holds you back or it doesn't, regardless of your choice. Same as baldness for me. It holds me back. If I chose not to let it hold me back...well it would hold me back just the same. Mindset really doesn't get a person very far in my opinion.

 

[Oknow]

I don't think that any non bald understand. I could go on about this but I don't want to drag everybody down close to the holidays. I was saying that you said "I choose not to let it hold me back" about your ethnic background and I am disagreeing. It holds you back or it doesn't, regardless of your choice. Same as baldness for me. It holds me back. If I chose not to let it hold me back...well it would hold me back just the same. Mindset really doesn't get a person very far in my opinion.

Being ethnic or bald are similar. Non ethnics do not understand how difficult it is for ethnics socially, similarly non bald don’t understand how difficult it is for bald folk.

The point is these are the cards you’ve been dealt and you just need to work harder to get somewhere.

You moaning about being bald is no different to an ethnic wishing they were not.

It’s not all doom and gloom for you, you had opportunities earlier this year but didn’t take them

 

[Caillou]

when I go out and about this is how lots of couples look like

How do you know they're couples though? Maybe they're friends or family. And even if they're couples, how do you know what type of relationship they're in? Maybe they're in an "open relationship" and the guy is a cuck, maybe he's getting cheated on, maybe he's getting denied sex, etc

Too many possibilities and conclusions to draw to the point where seeing a man and a woman together in the street means jackshit

 

[Caillou]

Try to repeat the process without a hairline. My life changed a lot not when I buzzed my head but when my hairline disappeared.



These people all look fine. The 4th guy looks very good and the only one with potentially serious hair loss is the first one, who seems like a regular old guy anyway. I think that we make the mistake on judging attractiveness purely on facial structure. For men, the definition is more broad. You know, for example that ethnic background matters a lot. I know that Norwood level does.

They all look bad to me no offense. You're most likely more attractive than them even without hair

 

[Caillou]

Being ethnic or bald are similar

No they're not and it's disrespectful and racist of you to compare not being white and literally getting disfigured

Stop blaming your race for your lack of looks or social skills

 

[Catagen]

Not a clear enough definition in my opinion. We also can't use a dramatized historical movie character for our definition of masculine because the context is so different. Viewing that scene, I think... does masculine just mean 'winner'?

If you give him a weak chin he will look like a complete autistic retard and unattractive despite his wins.

 

[Oknow]

How do you know they're couples though? Maybe they're friends or family. And even if they're couples, how do you know what type of relationship they're in? Maybe they're in an "open relationship" and the guy is a cuck, maybe he's getting cheated on, maybe he's getting denied sex, etc

Too many possibilities and conclusions to draw to the point where seeing a man and a woman together in the street means jackshit

they are holding hands etc

 

[Oknow]

No they're not and it's disrespectful and racist of you to compare not being white and literally getting disfigured

Stop blaming your race for your lack of looks or social skills

I get women lol
But it is harder , lots of my minority friends the same

again you are white , will never understand

 

[Caillou]

I get women lol
But it is harder , lots of my minority friends the same

again you are white , will never understand

The only white thing in my body is my good heart

 

[Oknow]

The only white thing in my body is my good heart

Romanians are white

 

[Butterbean Head]

Romanians are white

No

 

[Oknow]

No

Would you f*** a Romanian?

 

[Caillou]

Romanians are white

I'm not Romanian

 

[Oknow]

Gingers are hot @Butterbean Head , I’d bang maitland ward

 

[Butterbean Head]

Gingers are hot @Butterbean Head , I’d bang maitland ward

And me.......