Just Be Successful And Have Social Circle Bro

[hairblues]

social circle is much harder to have then a girlfriend.


truth hurts!


look at most people around you, bunch of loners who dont have friends, and solid crews to roll around with. The older you get the less you have.


Meeting a women is not difficult if you put in effort.

It's true and you have to cultivate that in 20s

And those friendships last for life EVEN aquitances.

It's very easy for me to have company whenever I want and it's mostly people I know since when I am 16 to 35.

It's easy for me to make friends because I worked in industries that force socialization.

But most people it's hard to meet people and bond when older--it's easier if you practice being social while young

Hope that makes sense.

 

[hairblues]

Women don't want to be with boring predictable men.


Social circle, toys and having a good job are important if you want to have a solid relationship that lasts outside of that one month honey moon encounter phase.


A lot of dweebs seem to forget that women don't want to have relationships with grown men running high school game. Taking her back to your parents house, borrowing dads car and limiting activities involved that are accessible by transit bus.


Women want to be with grown men, Which is often why you commonly see them dating men equal or in most cases older by a couple years.


Don't get me wrong, inner city activities have there place. The older I become the more I realise that money matters a lot if you want to secure a healthy long term relationship. Looks only get you through the doors, it's everything else that keeps her interested in settling down



Women love being with a guy who has his own rig, hitches on an rv to go camping. Decides to rent a boat out of the blue and go for cruise. Maybe a weekend retreat to Banff to see the mountains and dine within expensive restaurants and spa related packages.


Keep thinking random tinder dates mean anything outside of a date. A relationship with a prime piece takes a lot of the aformentioned.

You know what?

Money matters. period

I do think some of these guys will never have GF
It's just not in cards for all of them

But they stilll should make money get a good life because iver next 20 years it's just going to continue into poor and privlaged.

Poor is going to be really really bad,

 

[Marky]

Yep, and she'll respect you much more if she knows you have others or a crew to swing with.
Otherwise it's just a matter of time that she'll take you for granted.

Don't you get it - people photoshop themselves all over social media.

Breasts, face, hair etc. Then of course their vacation photos are also enhanced, you know sky is bluer, grass and trees greener.

Social media is as illusionist as Harry Houdini. It's all part and parcel with the I'm one up on you game.

 

[hairblues]

So that's why I have like no friends!

You don't have a lot of friends?

I'm sorry

Let me just say this I have 3 incredibly close friends and everyone else is a friend but not a confidante. Friends you can confide in are rare.

 

[hairblues]

Hahaha well I guess I have some friends. The thing is it was always hard for me to keep the friendship going, and there is literally almost no one with who I feel totaly myself and would call to do this or that. I have some people I do really like though. But we don't need to see each other very often.
But if I think about it, if I was to get married I don't know who I would invite... But I don't feel sad about it.

Well by the time you would get married to someone you meet you would be doing a lot socially as a couple and probably seeing some old friends, meeting his friends etc

Or you can elope or have a destination wedding where those weddings are much smaller anyway

Destination weddings are awesome.

 

[hairblues]

This day is super sad.

 

[hairblues]

Why ?

The rally today. Just kind of depressing.
Seeing Nazis, it's like wow.
They killed an innocent girl with car put 19 people in hospital
2 cops died

 

[hairblues]

? There is a rally of Nazis?

Yup nazi and Also kKk
Carryinb flags
Doing the salute
Wearing shirts
Chanting 'blood and soil'
One of them ran his car into a street filled with people killed at least one person

 

[shookwun]

It's true and you have to cultivate that in 20s

And those friendships last for life EVEN aquitances.

It's very easy for me to have company whenever I want and it's mostly people I know since when I am 16 to 35.

It's easy for me to make friends because I worked in industries that force socialization.

But most people it's hard to meet people and bond when older--it's easier if you practice being social while young

Hope that makes sense.

relationships with the opposite sex are not difficult to form. However, if you dont have a standard social circle of friends by mid twenties then in most cases you will never have a true circle of friendship.


A lot of the people after your mid twenties are acquaintances and nothing more.


Most you can hope for is meeting someone at the workplace, which 9/10 never goes anywhere outside of having a few drinks.

 

[Saurabhaj]

This video was sent to me by my close female friend.

This video shows how hard a male fish makes an effort to attract mate.

 

[OldnBald]

relationships with the opposite sex are not difficult to form. However, if you dont have a standard social circle of friends by mid twenties then in most cases you will never have a true circle of friendship.


A lot of the people after your mid twenties are acquaintances and nothing more.


Most you can hope for is meeting someone at the workplace, which 9/10 never goes anywhere outside of having a few drinks.

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