Buck, I like you but you need to put your sh*t into perspective. You have money from your real-estate ventures. You've had sex with beautiful women even if they are not accessible to you anymore and you let them trample you like a b**ch back in the day. You're reasonably good-looking even with bad hair, judging from what you've posted about your recent encounters with women.
Could you even imagine what it's like to have no money, to never have had sex, to be so ugly that no normal woman would ever give you their time of the day? Because that's the reality lived by some of the forum members here.
It's like the women here and NW2s like DoctorHouse talking about their BDD or whatever and saying that's equivalent to what DBW or Exodus are going through. Well, I'm here to say it's not. I feel depressed about hair loss a lot but I would never pretend my problems are even comparable in magnitude to some of the members here.
To each there own. there are many different types of perspective, and while I understand yours, there's much more to it. Every one abides by the old saying, "it;s better to have love and lost, then to have never loved at all". it's not true. at all. You become bitter, jaded and start hating women. No money? I lived my twenties poor as f***. Even now all my money is tied up in homes and I don't see much of it.
I don't have BDD. I am straight up disfigured. 100% my fault yes, but it's the truth. If you saw my left hair line in person, you would distinctly see 3-4 hair grafts poking up in every direction. I have lived like this for almost three years, but now, the thinning is so bad, it looks horrendous.
I don't feel bad for myself man. that's where you are mistaking. Every fault and flaw was created by me. I just feel bad in general.
I am in no way writing these things for sympathy. I write them, because I was labeled by Dante. He has absolutely no perspective or real information on the way my life has been. He jumps to conclusions and judges people that are NOT in the EXACT SAME SITUATION HE IS.
Well, dante, there are a BILLION different situations. multiply that by a BILLION different individual human mind conditions, and you will realize, your situation is not the only one.
Dante hates people because he's been battered and verbally abused by them. I hate women because the same has happened to me. So, first off, this is my fault? No. I didn't chose to stay with these women after I realized who they were. Like I said, they were manipulative parasites that concealed their true selves like a chameleon in a tree.
There is no perspective here man. There is nothing to alter. I am the lowest of the low because I have no feeling anymore. I have lived in complete apathy for years, and that will never change.
So, should I think, "some people have cancer" or "there are kids starving to death with intestines full of parasites"
No... why doesn't Dante say that to himself? Why don't you? are you all lacking perspective?
No, he thinks his burden is greater than all those around him, and none of us have the right to vent or complain, even on a hair loss forum, unless we are 20 year old ectomorph incels.
If Dante cannot see the own hypocrisy in his own view, then no one can reveal this to him.
