Ori83
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A random rant i'd like to share,
i've got rejected few days ago by a girl i want nothing new to me, it happens, and i can handle rejection quite well; just forget about the girl and move on to the next one without giving too much thought into this, usually after deleting her phone and everything related to her, the girl told me can still go out as friends, i felt kinda bad when i had to tell her that i dont think i want any type of relations with her although we take the same course in collage, i do this every time, there is no reason to stay around someone you want if they dont want you back, it only can hold you back from moving on to the next one...
yet these girls keep poping that suggestion as if someone needs her so called favor... i can not understand why they think i would like to stay friends with them? why do they even offer this? is this suppose to be some sort of consolation price for not hooking up? are they become that condescending after knowing you want them? and why would i want to just friends to begin with? lets see where it puts me: i want that girl, i think about her constantly, she doesn't want me back, but i have to see her every now and then, and even go out together some times, but i cant touch her! she can flirt with other guys but i have to shut up, and probably would want to hear my advice about men she dates, my friends would want to hook up with her too and maybe she will want them and ill have watch as this all happens infornt of me and think "well, at least im her friend"....
so each time a girl suggests this, behind the fake smile i put, there lays one huge "f*** you but i think ill pass your generous offering"...
How do you guys handle the "just friends" thing when it comes? did it happened that you stayed "just friends" with a girl that you want? and if you did, how did it worked out for you? i cant see any reasoning behind this...
i've got rejected few days ago by a girl i want nothing new to me, it happens, and i can handle rejection quite well; just forget about the girl and move on to the next one without giving too much thought into this, usually after deleting her phone and everything related to her, the girl told me can still go out as friends, i felt kinda bad when i had to tell her that i dont think i want any type of relations with her although we take the same course in collage, i do this every time, there is no reason to stay around someone you want if they dont want you back, it only can hold you back from moving on to the next one...
yet these girls keep poping that suggestion as if someone needs her so called favor... i can not understand why they think i would like to stay friends with them? why do they even offer this? is this suppose to be some sort of consolation price for not hooking up? are they become that condescending after knowing you want them? and why would i want to just friends to begin with? lets see where it puts me: i want that girl, i think about her constantly, she doesn't want me back, but i have to see her every now and then, and even go out together some times, but i cant touch her! she can flirt with other guys but i have to shut up, and probably would want to hear my advice about men she dates, my friends would want to hook up with her too and maybe she will want them and ill have watch as this all happens infornt of me and think "well, at least im her friend"....
so each time a girl suggests this, behind the fake smile i put, there lays one huge "f*** you but i think ill pass your generous offering"...
How do you guys handle the "just friends" thing when it comes? did it happened that you stayed "just friends" with a girl that you want? and if you did, how did it worked out for you? i cant see any reasoning behind this...