Just Get Ripped. Become A Firefighter.

[SmoothSailing]

Yes, I can say it is the absolute truth

My statement is just that more women than you would think are not that just about good-looking.

Where do they hang out? I'd love to find one

 

[tellersquill]

There is one point this whole discussion is missing. That is the age of the girl.


Fred is talking about girls in his age. They are more superficial as they are still experimenting.

Once a bit older they realize that you choose a lifestyle along with you partner. This is where wits, power, creativity and so on come in, as they affect you everyday lifestyle quite a lot. Sex is nice, but eventually it becomes just one part of the puzzle that is your life.
This is Blackg's and petitebrunette's perspective.


This is why all the distressed guys are under 30 here. In our age the difference between baldness and castration may be actually debatable.

Could be truth in that.

Although a lot of people, no matter that age, seem impressed that I'm working on a book - I think it has some form of status attached to it.

You do get a point as you age (I'm 30) where you realised that after the sex is over - you still need a person who is enjoyable to be around.

 

[Dench57]

Could be truth in that.

Although a lot of people, no matter that age, seem impressed that I'm working on a book - I think it has some form of status attached to it.

You do get a point as you age (I'm 30) where you realised that after the sex is over - you still need a person who is enjoyable to be around.

"I'm writing my novel"

panty dropper

 

[blackg]

"I'm writing my novel"

panty dropper

Dench is back!

 

[tellersquill]

I'm working on two right now.

One is a collection of modern fairy tales written for adults. I've sold two of the short stories previously (and I get the publishing rights back in 8 months), and the rest of the tales need to be written (I've written one other so far - which leaves eight more to write). The other book is a novel about love and crime, and the maddening things we do when we are in caught between the two.

 

[tellersquill]

You're not with any of those women you supposedly found super interesting.

It seems to me that you still want to f*** hot women, and sometimes interesting average women you'll dump eventually.

Not how human mating works.

I genuinely think that one day I will have to 'settle' otherwise it will be game over for me.

But honestly, you are right with regards to me.

I have broken up with women with fantastic personalities who I found somewhat attractive.

And the reason I haven't found a '7' or an '8' who is talented and interesting is because they will tend to be dating men who are more successful than me (I'm quite poor for a 30 year old).

So eventually I'll have to settle or up my game to make myself more appealing to the high standard women - otherwise I'll find myself at 40 with no partner, without children, and ultimately alone.

 

[Giiizmo]

How do you define "hold them in such high esteem"? Yes, 30+ women who are looking for a beta provider are very "attracted" to lawyers. Who else?

When people notice change happening around them, they look for a cause. When that cause is personified, whoever made that change happen is granted part of the impact from said change.

I'm in a privileged position where I can make change happen just by writing a couple of letters and uttering a few words.

When I'm able to reconcile two opposing parties instead of them having go to court, their success is mine. When I prove that an employee was unjustly fired from her job, her vindication is mine. And when I get a person out of prison just in time for him to see his family for Christmas, their joy is mine.

All these people look up to me, as someone who changed their life a little. I'm no longer just the sum of my physical appearance, my academic titles and my reputation. I have a name, a history with these people, they feel something about me because I'm a small part of their lives now.

For me, this holds true for everyone, not just romantic interests. I find being able to touch someone's life - preferably by inducing positive change - far more powerful than trying to impress people with how you look, what you own or even how you act.

 

[blackg]

Too bad women just don't care about such things.
You might get a "good for you!" out of one of them though.
I know a lot of women who literally worship their good-looking boyfriend/husband.

Time to book another appointment with your psychologist.

 

[blackg]

Actually, I have an appointment with her in 2 hours.

Anything I should mention?

I'll get back to ya.

 

[blackg]

No.
You are a sane temperate individual Fred.

That's for his psychologist to decide.

 

[EvilLocks]

New signature: "It's not what's on your head that's counts, it's what inside!"

I still remember this one: "Just imagine you have hair!"

 

[EvilLocks]

Actually, I have an appointment with her in 2 hours.

Anything I should mention?

You still see a shrink? I thought you hated mental health professionals?

 

[blackg]

And referred me to a psychiatrist who would have prescribed me a crapload of mind-numbing drugs that would make me write blue-pilled posts here.

Sounds fine to me!

 

[blackg]

I was being ironical.

So was I. Being ironical.

 

[EvilLocks]

Only the ones who prescribe drugs.

This one is awesome, very professional.

I haven't seen her since May, but I started getting quite anxious about my future with my girlfriend recently.

We've talked about moving in together (only in 9 months or so though) and it's getting more and more "real".

I'm in this "Am I making the right choice? Will I get fucked over?" moment.

Hard to be FredtheBelgian.

Edit: Damn, I've just realized I'm having fullheads' problems! Good sign.

Fullhead problems is a good sign, indeed! You've come a long way.

 

[blackg]

Hard to be FredtheBelgian.

Ah, come on..... life must be rosy with your good looks.
(I'm not being ironical)

 

[SmoothSailing]

But they get the respect of other men or women who don't want anything to do with them sexually.

This is very true. I have found that some of my friends who are girls take such a liking to me as soon as they are in a relationship.

They praise me and wonder why I'm single. Yet I know none of them would have given me any real consideration. Once they're in a relationship they don't have to give any consideration or worry about me trying something, suddenly they aren't judging me as much based on my looks and they tell me how "funny, smart and nice" I am.

It's frustrating because they're not even aware of it themselves really.

 

[Giiizmo]

Where do you hang out?

Touché. Well played.

 

[kj6723]

Ay I got a question

I have seen quite a few chicks with NW2s, and I was wondering they were trannies?

literally with bald temples.

There's a chick in my class who's got a very similar hairline to my own

I don't think she realizes what's going on because she always wears it pulled back

She's actually a really nice person, so I hope her hair isn't headed in the direction I fear it may be

 

[buckthorn]

Only the ones who prescribe drugs.

This one is awesome, very professional.

I haven't seen her since May, but I started getting quite anxious about my future with my girlfriend recently.

We've talked about moving in together (only in 9 months or so though) and it's getting more and more "real".

I'm in this "Am I making the right choice? Will I get fucked over?" moment.

Hard to be FredtheBelgian.

Edit: Damn, I've just realized I'm having fullheads' problems! Good sign.

good luck with it brother. I am considering going back to a psychologist.