Let's All Be Honest With Ourselves.

[nameless]

It seems to me that some of the single posters here want to get into relationships.

If I got into a relationship today what are the chances I would still want to be with that person in say 18 months if I got my hair back? Could I get someone into my life today that I would be happy with in say 18 months if I got my hair back? Of course not.

Sidebar:

* I know that Tsuji is talking about releasing its' technology in 3 years but they may be referring to widespread marketing after all studies. Remember, that Tsuji is in Japan and cell-based therapies in Japan can be released after successful phase 1 studies so Tsuji's technology might hit the market in 2018 for those of us who would fly there to get the treatment. I for one would.

* Also, Kerastem could hit the market in <2 years and it might produce satisfying results even if it doesn't give us a full head of hair.

* And it's always possible that some other revolutionary wildcard treatment might come to market in the next year or two.

Back to the main point:

I have a few women trying to get into my life but I'm better off staying single and waiting for treatment before getting romantically involved again. I don't want a disfigurement to force me to get into a relationship with someone I would not have gotten together with if I had my hair. If I did do that then what happens after I get my hair back in say 18 months. Do we breakup?

I think about how emotionally messy breakups can be and ask myself if it's really a good idea to put myself and someone else through that by getting together with someone that I know I might not want to be with if I got my hair back. Isn't it morally wrong to get together with someone I know I might breakup with if I get my hair back soon? Even if I would stay with her after I got my hair back, but I didn't really want to, wouldn't it still be wrong to get together with her?

 

[pjhair]

Aren't we all better off staying single and just waiting for treatment before getting romantically involved again rather than allowing hair loss to force us to get into relationships with people we would likely not stay with if we get our hair back in a year or two? Think about how emotionally messy breakups can be and ask yourself if it's really a good idea to put yourself and someone else through that by getting together with someone now that you know you might not want to be with if and when you get your hair back in maybe a year or two. Is it even morally right to use someone like that if you know you're likely to dump that person if you get your hair back soon?

We should NEVER get involved with someone we are not sure about. Hair loss or not. Compromising because of your own insecurity usually leads to heartache for both parties involved. I consider it immoral to lead your partner on with plans of abandoning him/her in future when better option comes along. I don't know about others, but I will NEVER be with someone I am not attracted to, even if it means staying single all my life.

 

[nameless]

We should NEVER get involved with someone we are not sure about. Hair loss or not. Compromising because of your own insecurity usually leads to heartache for both parties involved. I consider it immoral to lead your partner on with plans of abandoning him/her in future when better option comes along. I don't know about others, but I will NEVER be with someone I am not attracted to, even if it means staying single all my life.

You are absolutely right. Thanks for confirming that because sometimes I think that it's silly for me
not to get together with someone if it could possibly bring me a little happiness. But if I had my hair
I would not get together with the few women who are interested in me so I've been unwilling to do so.
I just needed to know I'm not being silly.

And I'm also willing to stay single for the rest of my life.

 

[tellersquill]

It is like when a fat woman loses loads of weight and dumps their old partner when they finally realise they can do better.

 

[rafiles]

If I got into a relationship today what are the chances I would still want to be with that person in say 18 months if I got my hair back?

This sentence tells us about your character. What if you are married and she has had an accident (cannot walk anymore etc.) would you divorce her. Or she was unattractive at first, now she changes, would you be happy if she dumps you.

 

[nameless]

This sentence tells us about your character. What if you are married and she has had an accident (cannot walk anymore etc.) would you divorce her. Or she was unattractive at first, now she changes, would you be happy if she dumps you.

If you make judgments about people's characters because of one sentence you're too judgmental.
And your "accident" comparison does not compare to the issue I raised. And you did this discordant comparison because you've got the negative sourpuss thing going on and you feel crappy inside so you project crappy.

There was nothing wrong with my post. I come here seeking advice and information like everyone else. I was trying to work something out in my head so I asked for some advice. There really was no need for you to talk crappy sh!t but you feel crappy inside so that's what comes out.

I really don't want to talk to you anymore so I'm going to put you on ignore. It's nothing personal, I just don't like you or your company.

If I ever want to hear some needlessly mean crap I'll take you off ignore and rattle your cage.

 

[nameless]

It is like when a fat woman loses loads of weight and dumps their old partner when they finally realise they can do better.

They likely knew before getting together with those guys that they would dump those guys if they ever lost weight.

Look at like this - at this present time I already know that if I got together with one of those women and then got my hair back I would be a lot less interested in that woman than I was before I got my hair back. I'm no genius. I merely have human intelligence and I can figure this out before making a play for either of those women. Those fat chicks you're talking about - they also have human intelligence and as surely as I realize that I would be a lot less interested in those women if I got my hair back those fat chicks knew in advance that if they lost weight they would be less interested in the men they were settling down with.

 

[nameless]

I've done exactly that before my hair transplant, getting with a girl I was not that attracted to, and then when my grafts grew, I left her and found a better model.

Felt good, come to the dark side!

Seriously though, it was a smart move, it allowed me to gain a lot of sexual experience, which made my next relationship better.

So, being machiavelian in your choice of relationships? FredtheBelgian aporoves.

How can you say this stuff without feeling any shame? Guilt? Remorse?

Are you some kind of anti-person?

Are you aware that not feeling shame and/or remorse and/or empathy are signs of psychopathy and sociopathy?

 

[Notcoolanymore]

Seriously though, it was a smart move, it allowed me to gain a lot of sexual experience, which made my next relationship better.

Yes. Why waste 18 months when you could be using that time to hone your skills.

 

[DoctorHouse]

Nameless, if you are lonely and just want some female friends to go out with and have conversation with than go for it. If they are open to "friends with benefits" and you are into that as well than go for it. What is about these women that you still have doubts?

 

[nameless]

Nameless, if you are lonely and just want some female friends to go out with and have conversation with than go for it. If they are open to "friends with benefits" and you are into that as well than go for it. What is about these women that you still have doubts?

I'm not feeling very lonely anymore. I passed through that phase awhile back.
But I do know that sharing your time on earth with a mate can make anyone happier.
The women I know would not go for friends with benefits. I don't know where you guys
find women who want to be fucked without being in a relationship. Even when I had my
hair I never came across women who wanted to be fucked without being in a relationship
with the guy. The women I've always known think of sex as part of a relationship.

 

[nameless]

Lol at someone who supposedly had sex with 2000 women saying that.

LOL at someone who can't read.

I've said many many times that none of those women slept with me because they wanted a f***.
They slept with me because they had crushes on me and they wanted relationships. What's so hard about
digesting this information?

Let me repeat it:

None of those women slept with me because they wanted a f***. They slept with me because they had crushes on me and they wanted a relationship with me.

Any questions? I hope not because it really can't be dumbed down any further.

 

[scorpiolove]

Just a thought,
What if you knocked her up in the 18 month period of dating and she had a baby? She would probably talk about marriage and settling down and all of that crazy stuff.

 

[nameless]

Just a thought,
What if you knocked her up in the 18 month period of dating and she had a baby? She would probably talk about marriage and settling down and all of that crazy stuff.

I didn't even think of that part of the deal. But that's a very good question. All the more reason to wait until we get our hair back to try to get some romance back into our lives.

 

[hairblues]

I've done exactly that before my hair transplant, getting with a girl I was not that attracted to, and then when my grafts grew, I left her and found a better model.

Felt good, come to the dark side!

Seriously though, it was a smart move, it allowed me to gain a lot of sexual experience, which made my next relationship better.

So, being machiavelian in your choice of relationships? FredtheBelgian aporoves.

Funny when i said people have sexual skills you said no such thing

but here you are admitting you practiced.

 

[plisk]

Lol at someone who supposedly had sex with 2000 women saying that.

did he seriously say that hes had sex with 2000 women and expect people to believe him?

he's even more whacked out that i first thought

 

[Notcoolanymore]

Lol at someone who supposedly had sex with 2000 women saying that.

He said that? Bullshit.

 

[blackg]

They all wanted a relationship with nameless!!
How many times do you have to be told, Fred!

 

[DoctorHouse]

They all wanted a relationship with nameless!!
How many times do you have to be told, Fred!

And all those women would like to remain "nameless" to protect their identities.

 

[Roberto_72]

It seems to me that some of the single posters here want to get into relationships.

If I got into a relationship today what are the chances I would still want to be with that person in say 18 months if I got my hair back? Could I get someone into my life today that I would be happy with in say 18 months if I got my hair back? Of course not.

Sidebar:

* I know that Tsuji is talking about releasing its' technology in 3 years but they may be referring to widespread marketing after all studies. Remember, that Tsuji is in Japan and cell-based therapies in Japan can be released after successful phase 1 studies so Tsuji's technology might hit the market in 2018 for those of us who would fly there to get the treatment. I for one would.

* Also, Kerastem could hit the market in <2 years and it might produce satisfying results even if it doesn't give us a full head of hair.

* And it's always possible that some other revolutionary wildcard treatment might come to market in the next year or two.

Back to the main point:

I have a few women trying to get into my life but I'm better off staying single and waiting for treatment before getting romantically involved again. I don't want a disfigurement to force me to get into a relationship with someone I would not have gotten together with if I had my hair. If I did do that then what happens after I get my hair back in say 18 months. Do we breakup?

I think about how emotionally messy breakups can be and ask myself if it's really a good idea to put myself and someone else through that by getting together with someone that I know I might not want to be with if I got my hair back. Isn't it morally wrong to get together with someone I know I might breakup with if I get my hair back soon? Even if I would stay with her after I got my hair back, but I didn't really want to, wouldn't it still be wrong to get together with her?

I thought I would never say this, but I am afraid you are giving too much importance to hair and how it can change your life. Especially because the chances hair regeneration happens before you or I are in our 50s are not that big.