This is so silly. Everything matters to a degree, but it's the way you are with woman that matters the most by far. I have friends, one in particular, that does just fine and in his early 40s, balding, only in decent shape, and probably thought of as decent looking, but no male model. Around 5'11. And these aren't just old ladies. When we go out, everything's on the table. Early 20's on up. And we're old decrepits. Most of you guys are in your early to late 20's, you should be shredding it, barring any physical deformity, truly terrible looks, or unless you're a nerd, and insecure. That will make it extremely tough.