(LifeFuel) my friend has gotten herself a boyfriend and he is bald

[justinbieberscombover]

You talking about me? I made this thread so people stop believing this nonsense that if bald, no one will want you lmao, had I read threads like these I would not be an emotional b**ch like in July when I made an acccount here

No I'm talking in general, I know your personal life experience contradicts what this forum is preaching.

We can try to understand it though. We have consciousness. Which with we created science to understand reality, psychology/sociology to understand life, and art to give meaningful expression to both. Sexual frustration doesn't really come into the picture I think

Except science still can't provide all the answers and most likely never will

And human connection can't be simplified to a couple of paragraphs about looks, height and norwood levels

 

[justinbieberscombover]

Everyone who has read this forum for more than a week already knows that looks play a major role in mating and hair is often the key to having them

This forum has been dry as hell lately, it's rare to come across a post that is practical or profound

 

[DyingOfTheLight]

No I'm talking in general, I know your personal life experience contradicts what this forum is preaching.


Except science still doesn't have all the answers and most likely never will

And human connection can't be simplified to a couple of paragraphs about looks, height and norwood levels

Of course science is an ever ongoing project, that doesn't devalue our current knowledge though. And while, yes, describing life is inherently reductive, neither does that mean you shouldn't bother with it imo. There are clear and obvious cultural patterns that limit and define our behaviour. Of course we shouldn't hold on to them like the rule of law. It's more nuanced, but we can't entirely ignore them as well

 

[DyingOfTheLight]

Everyone who has read this forum for more than a week already knows that looks play a major role in mating and hair is often the key to having them

This forum has been dry as hell lately, it's rare to come across a post that is practical or profound

Because they banned all controversial posters

 

[justinbieberscombover]

Because they banned all controversial posters

Those posters were the worst

And nothing really changed since they got banned, still a bunch of incel crybaby sh*t

 

[justinbieberscombover]

1. It's ironic how on every obscure Internet forum regular posters have a tendency to crown the loudest, most toxic and redundant trolls who contribute absolutely nothing but cheap "lulz" (spamming the same 2-3 stupid things everyday for months/years)

Feelsbadman was barely about to break out of his shell and connect with people on a human level

His interactions on this site always came from a distant/aloof place

He obviously had poor communication/social skills @Wolf Pack

Yet you see some clowns talking about "I miss him, the forum was so great with that guy" lol I'll never get it. Nerd/meme/gamer culture I suppose.

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2. People on this forum rarely take steps to improve their lives

There is so much you can do but most people in general are just stuck in a limbo wasting their entire life away

For example: "Being bald is not a problem in Russia or Poland"? Take a vacation in one of those countries and try your luck, see how it works for you and if it actually does, come up with a plan to relocate in the future.

 

[DyingOfTheLight]

Those posters were the worst

And nothing really changed since they got banned, still a bunch of incel crybaby sh*t

They sure were characters that's true. I don't think they contributed much of value directly, content wise, but for better or worse, they kept the place alive

But tbh, this sub wil always be a little whiny in nature. It's the impact section — people come here to let off steam. It's still diffent to the unfiltered hate and misogyny you'd find on real incel boards imo. I don't think there are many real toxic incels here

I agree with you though; you have to move in life. You have to do something. Move, fight. Try to improve little by little. You only have so much time. And no pain is worse than the pain of regret

 

[KevinEdEddEddy]

1. It's ironic how on every obscure Internet forum regular posters have a tendency to crown the loudest, most toxic and redundant trolls who contribute absolutely nothing but cheap "lulz" (spamming the same 2-3 stupid things everyday for months/years)

Feelsbadman was barely about to break out of his shell and connect with people on a human level

Tbh tbh I think that although trolls should be banned from here, I think that Feelsbadman should be here to stay to show people what will happen if they do nothing with their life. Either do something and go for a system/transplant/whatever, just stop whining.

 

[UnLuckyLuciano]

there certainly are countries that got a harsher view on balding than others, but those are usually a few asian countries and thats it...

You ever heard of Romania, my dude ?
Where women look russian and have american standards in men ?

 

[vondoom]

You ever heard of Romania, my dude ?
Where women look russian and have american standards in men ?

yeah i heard of romania^^

what is american standards? wanting the best possible? good looking guy with cash? that is everywhere...

 

[Caillou]

Another shitty "look at that outlier" thread

 

[Caillou]

Understand this: Life is complex and random at times

Life is simple, just serve God and you're all set

Humans, ESPECIALLY women, are generally shitty. But God is always there to give you love

 

[KevinEdEddEddy]

Another shitty "look at that outlier" thread

Threads like this are needed so people here don't kill themselves when they get into hardcore situations like severe balding at 20

 

[Caillou]

Threads like this are needed so people here don't kill themselves when they get into hardcore situations like severe balding at 20

An optimistic, hopeful outlook will never have any effect anyway, your mindset doesn't change how the world works. Best thing to do for the unfortunate is accepting how things are, accepting that nothing will ever change and working on finding a new purpose in life to fight and live for. I've already accepted my inceldom and it has helped me finding peace. My purpose right now is to fight for and serve God until my last breath

 

[20YearsOnFin]

Humans, ESPECIALLY women, are generally shitty. But God is always there to give you love

I'll take my chances with the women thanks........God doesn't give good head.

 

[Caillou]

I'll take my chances with the women thanks........God doesn't give good head.

Off yourself

 

[KevinEdEddEddy]

An optimistic, hopeful outlook will never have any effect anyway, your mindset doesn't change how the world works. Best thing to do for the unfortunate is accepting how things are, accepting that nothing will ever change and working on finding a new purpose in life to fight and live for. I've already accepted my inceldom and it has helped me finding peace. My purpose right now is to fight for and serve God until my last breath

If you are pessimistic you will meet only failures in life. Literally, you believe your life will be shitty so it will be anyway because you do nothing with it

 

[UnLuckyLuciano]

I'll take my chances with the women thanks........God doesn't give good head.

But if you're on this forum, that usually means women dont take their chances with you.

 

[Wolf Pack]

1. It's ironic how on every obscure Internet forum regular posters have a tendency to crown the loudest, most toxic and redundant trolls who contribute absolutely nothing but cheap "lulz" (spamming the same 2-3 stupid things everyday for months/years)

Feelsbadman was barely about to break out of his shell and connect with people on a human level

His interactions on this site always came from a distant/aloof place

He obviously had poor communication/social skills @Wolf Pack

Yet you see some clowns talking about "I miss him, the forum was so great with that guy" lol I'll never get it. Nerd/meme/gamer culture I suppose.

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2. People on this forum rarely take steps to improve their lives

There is so much you can do but most people in general are just stuck in a limbo wasting their entire life away

For example: "Being bald is not a problem in Russia or Poland"? Take a vacation in one of those countries and try your luck, see how it works for you and if it actually does, come up with a plan to relocate in the future.

I've noticed that. If you go on the mainstream section or other forums people do tend to take action and they rarely are vocal in a negative way so slip under the radar, taking action = positivity long term in most cases. Take the transplant forum or people you know in real life that are adjusted, they just get it done like the hundreds of thousands that have gone to Turkey. I find in the impact subsection quite a few people do nothing and usually it's the recluse types without social support or normality in their lives. Log in 20 years later and you'll see the same post, should I start finasteride, can I take it 3 times a week? Shall I finally get a transplant (after watching them for 3 decades)? Shall I restart minoxidil, it's giving me flakes. And so it continues and they just rack up the negatives mentally and physically and simply stop and start things to no avail. The problem for them at times is it isn't just hair but other factors.

About feelsbadman I think some users may miss him because they identify with that feeling of serious depression, lookism, struggling to blend in and reach definitive goals. It's definitely true, misery loves company but it doesn't help anyone in the long run, better to learn from people who are successful or others who overcame obstacles before it was too late.

 

[vondoom]

But if you're on this forum, that usually means women dont take their chances with you.

that goes for about nearly every forum/board. z