Looks are truly EVERYTHING when it comes to women

[Oknow]

Here's the thing, attractive women kinda assume the intention of a guy chatting them up (especially if sending unsolicited pics) is almost always for more than friendship. Unless you specifically mention you're in a relationship or have a particular girl of interest who's not them and you want advice or something like. If you had said that you wanted her thoughts on that pic before you send it to another girl you're interested in she probably would have continued to respond.

truth in this

girl I started seeing, who is good looking is so paranoid that I am into her for her looks only, even though she thinks I’m good looking

really twisted

 

[DyingOfTheLight]

Here's the thing, attractive women kinda assume the intention of a guy chatting them up (especially if sending unsolicited pics) is almost always for more than friendship. Unless you specifically mention you're in a relationship or have a particular girl of interest who's not them and you want advice or something like. If you had said that you wanted her thoughts on that pic before you send it to another girl you're interested in she probably would have continued to respond.

Right. Attractive women especially, but almost all women at all times expect a man to hit on her, unless it's crystal clear he's not interested. Most of the girls I know say they get flirted with constantly, in any setting. From a disturbingly young age as well. I'm not sure sure whether that's hyperbole

But it seems that many times women are so curt and cold simply because they are afraid

 

[disfiguredyoungman]

Slap head is so CHAD that he even f*** guys not just women....lucky mother f****r.

If you have sex with a tranny you are putting up with the antics of a woman just to have sex with a guy, that'S ULTRA-homosexual. It is NOT based and redpilled. Real men date tomboys.

 

[Oknow]

just dont give a f***... always helps...
same with the hot women...

you do nothing and they become interested, because everybody else annoys them with sh*t...

doesnt apply if you are also lame then, of course...

is that a sustainable way of having a relationship, like when things get serious

 

[Oknow]

Right. Attractive women especially, but almost all women at all times expect a man to hit on her, unless it's crystal clear he's not interested. Most of the girls I know say they get flirted with constantly, in any setting. From a disturbingly young age as well. I'm not sure sure whether that's hyperbole

But it seems that many times women are so curt and cold simply because they are afraid

no - because they want to always get their way

 

[DyingOfTheLight]

no - because they want to always get their way

Sometimes, I guess ? Always, nah.
Many also want to submit and have you lead. When I was younger I used to get sh*t from girls for not being decisive enough and lacking initiative. As I got a little older and grew into that role, I found women tend to be the most happy and stress-free when I'm taking the lead

 

[Caillou]

@Caillou would you be honest and admit it could be a dealbreaker for you too? You can't judge if you are capable of the same crime.

Of course i care about looks, but my standards are kinda normal compared to women. Just be average looking, don't be fat and practice personal hygiene are my standards. Those kind of women though consider themselves out of my league for some reason, and as a result i can only settle with 2/10 landwhales that i'm not attracted to

 

[Oknow]

Of course i care about looks, but my standards are kinda normal compared to women. Just be average looking, don't be fat and practice personal hygiene are my standards. Those kind of women though consider themselves out of my league for some reason, and as a result i can only settle with 2/10 landwhales that i'm not attracted to

Yes looks matter, the quality of women I attract now is much higher than before. But I had to work on it

There is a lot you can do to improve them

- gym
- dressing well
- if hairloss is an issue , hairsystem, meds, hair transplants

One issue a lot of guys have is where they think they are better looking than they are to the point of delusion.

Or they think that they can’t do anything to improve their looks, and don’t do anything to improve it.

 

[Caillou]

Yes looks matter, the quality of women I attract now is much higher than before. But I had to work on it

There is a lot you can do to improve them

- gym
- dressing well
- if hairloss is an issue , hairsystem, meds, hair transplants

One issue a lot of guys have is where they think they are better looking than they are to the point of delusion.

Or they think that they can’t do anything to improve their looks, and don’t do anything to improve it.

I need to dark-triad/sociopath maxx to be able to cope well

 

[KevinEdEddEddy]

- if hairloss is an issue , hairsystem, meds, hair transplants

What do you think about shaving, smp tho

 

[vondoom]

is that a sustainable way of having a relationship, like when things get serious

that is something else anyway... you just have to start somewhere and that is in that case usually easier...
after that its the same as always...

 

[Oknow]

What do you think about shaving, smp tho

If it suits you, why not

 

[DoctorHouse]

You might be right but I wouldn't say all women are like that. @iCloud please chime in and and tell me I am wrong.

 

[Caillou]

You might be right but I wouldn't say all women are like that. @iCloud please chime in and and tell me I am wrong.

Women lie bro

 

[Oknow]

Women lie bro

Not necessary lying, they are emotional and will tell you how they FEEL at any one moment in time.

The problem is that can dramatically change, how they felt and what they said 4 hours ago is not necessarily how they feel about you 4 hours later

So if 4 hours ago they told you they liked you but 4 hours later told you they don’t, it’s truthful, their feelings just changed in that time, but to the guy it looks like they are lying

guys who play women, are just good at manipulating their emotions

Lots of women are full of sh*t tbh

 

[Oknow]

I need to dark-triad/sociopath maxx to be able to cope well

no you don’t
If looks is an issue, you need to figure out what your redeeming traits are and emphasize them

for example, I have a bad jawline, so I grow a stubble to hide it

I have a receding hairline, go to a top notch hairdresser to give me a style that suits me

used to be skinny like this

I went to the gym, now I’m starting to look more like this

learn to play the game bro

 

[Caillou]

no you don’t
If looks is an issue, you need to figure out what your redeeming traits are and emphasize them

for example, I have a bad jawline, so I grow a stubble to hide it

I have a receding hairline, go to a top notch hairdresser to give me a style that suits me

used to be skinny like this

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I went to the gym, now I’m starting to look more like this

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learn to play the game bro

I'm not sociopath-maxxing for women, i just want to move up the social ladder

 

[Oknow]

I'm not sociopath-maxxing for women, i just want to move up the social ladder

Don’t need to be a sociopath to do that either

find something you enjoy and excel in it

 

[Caillou]

Don’t need to be a sociopath to do that either

find something you enjoy and excel in it

I want to try Indian food btw srs, any suggestions?

 

[Oknow]

I want to try Indian food btw srs, any suggestions?

Indian restaurant is a good start

if you have Indian friends that is the best option - home cooked food is the best