when I was in high school, i was convinced that I am a catch. Then one day in class, someone asked me why I am a catch. I could not think of any reasons. I still don't know what makes me different from other people. I don't smoke, drink, or do drugs, or watch much TV, and I do a lot of thinking and inventing. I guess I could list a lot more. But I don't know how many guys are like that, or how many women prefer a guy who drinks and does drugs. Many women on yahoo searches indicate they want a guy who drinks socially, but don't want a guy who does not drink. My professor i work for says I'm smarter than any of his graduate students, though I don't know why that would matter to a woman. If she wants a rich guy, she can find plenty whose parents gave them a car and other gooddies I don't have.