meanwhile, life with ugly girls . . . .

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lmfaoooo. theres your 10/10. here's another pic of her perfect beauty

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lol **** girls have it so much easier . . . . .

if there was the reverse i admit it would soften the blow of baldness. i guess in a way there sort of is with the "baldness is sexy" ****
 

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No offence but she probably is quite pretty for an Asian girl (without extensive make-up and surgery)
 

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No offence but she probably is quite pretty for an Asian girl (without extensive make-up and surgery)

How can you tell through all that grain and noise from a shitty cell phone camera?
 

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This is one of the many reasons why many bald/balding guys end up settle for scraps. You have all these average women running around thinking that they are 10's and deserve nothing but the best. You have fat women, with 5 kids from 5 different dads walking around like they are gods gift to men. You think they are going to give an average bald dude a chance when they believe they deserve more???

Many of us are part of the problem unfortunately. I cant count how many times I have seen posts where the OP posts a picture of an average girl and says: "OMG, I cant believe this 10 is with this full head loser..."

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On a side note, how could you even rate her? You cant really see her face and she is wearing a sweater in both pics. I guess for desperate dudes, any female that will give them a chance is a 10.
 

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you can't deny though that its also part team effort on women's part. they bring each other up to the point of irrationality while it seems guys are the opposite

we need to take a page from their book and motivate each other instead of constantly bullying, belittling, and denigrating each other
 

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I agree with both of your points. There is a place where bald/balding guys can get motivation, unfortunately we are not going to find it at a place like this. Many of us here are struggling with our hair loss and cannot come to terms with being bald. Slybaldguys is a good place to go if we want positive feedback on being bald.

You are right about the team effort on women's part. So true, but we don't have to add to that and inflate their ego's even more. I am not saying there is anything wrong with telling your GF or wife that they look hot. Nothing wrong with that at all. It becomes a problem when guy's overdo it and make posts like above publicly rating average women as 10's.

I wouldn't go as far as to say the girl in the pic is ugly, but definitely not a 10 like people are writing. You are right about things being easy for women. Now all they have to be is "not fat" and they are considered hot. Men on the other hand have to have full heads of hair, be 6ft tall, be in great shape, have a 6 figure income, just to be average.
 

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Doubt will create tragedy as fast as faith will create miracles.
With that said, the girl in the photo has probably been told numerous times that she's beautiful, so she believes this as a fact. The sad truth about it all is this girl is more confident than most of us on here, were like Pavlovs' dogs when the bell rings, we have a conditioned response to our baldness, we might think we're ugly, when in fact, we're great looking. Societys brainwashing of the balding or bald person and peoples reaction to it is exaggerated but factual. For instance I have an apartment, nice furniture, nice clothes etc. but I think about the things that I don't have like a full head of hair, a wife,a car, kids, etc. To me, life is sweet compared to what it used to be. To others I'm a loser because I wont conform to their standards that were taught to them as children, you got to get in where you fit in, racially, socially, politically etc I guess.
Most of us go outside and see some billboard or some form of commercialism, some of it is trash on the ground, from some slobs who went to a burger joint and was too damn lazy to throw his/her trash in the garbage lol. In This is a conceived thought, now we entertain the thought of wanting some trash burger from a restaurant thats no good for our health,to a homeless guy it might be some good grub, or worse, we see a maxi pad box or a used condom maybe there good to wear,new of course lol, we watch t.v. internet and cant escape people screwing with our minds with commercialism,I remember the good ol days when you could watch a you tube video without a commercial being before you watch the music video, back to the subject norwood 1 = good, baldness equals bad,it's all a bunch of brain fVuck if you think about it. We get brainwahed everyday and dont even give it a second thought. Vin diesel and Bruce Willis get a bald pass, in the womans departmentsinnead oconnor gets a bald pass,how about the rest of us mortals,it's all a popularity vote and sometimes the majority sucks *** or kisses it.
 

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Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and looks are subjective, but shes a 4 at best lol. 10= goddess
she does not look like a goddess lol
 

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Agree, she's ugly. Maybe not even a 4 in real life, could be a 3. Embarrassing she asked to be rated. Agree with Notcool, some people on here post a supposed hottie and all she is is an average girl, like a 5. Average face, normal body, bit of make up and some guys put her up to 8 lol.

Ratings online are inaccurate and even asking your gf/family/friends. Best way for a guy to gauge attractiveness is going to a party/wedding and see if you get any attention from girls, there are some obvious signs. If you do get this, how hot were they? If you don't, you're average at best or below.
 
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She's definitely not ugly. Can't see her face though. If nothing else she's slim, has a cute nose, a perfect hairline (you'd be surprised, lots of girls don't...) and nice hair combined with cute style and body language. A 10? No... But she's easily a 6 or 7.

I see lots of girls with ugly dudes, I see stunners with bald dudes, it happens. Don't ask me how, but it does. Both happen a lot. Handsome guys with mediocre or ugly girls and vice versa,
 

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I see lots of girls with ugly dudes, I see stunners with bald dudes, it happens. Don't ask me how, but it does. Both happen a lot. Handsome guys with mediocre or ugly girls and vice versa,

I always say this on here. Relationships are more than looks for most mature people.
 

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Have to agree there Fred. Realtionships based on lust are bound to fail, looks fade, especially in 40s and 50s. Why do people stay together wihen both are old and wrinkly? Not lust anyway...

Real relationships are based on deep friendship, personality, trust and support. It's great to have that sexual attraction and lust in the early years, but any relationship based on that is weak and will fail.

Do you see yourself being married to your girlfriend Fred? Is she cute now? Will she still be cute when shes 50 or 60? Will you grow to resent her and disslike each other when you're both old and ugly?
 

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Have to agree there Fred. Realtionships based on lust are bound to fail, looks fade, especially in 40s and 50s. Why do people stay together wihen both are old and wrinkly? Not lust anyway...

Real relationships are based on deep friendship, personality, trust and support. It's great to have that sexual attraction and lust in the early years, but any relationship based on that is weak and will fail.

Do you see yourself being married to your girlfriend Fred? Is she cute now? Will she still be cute when shes 50 or 60? Will you grow to resent her and disslike each other when you're both old and ugly?


Yepppp

I am sexually attracted to my gf but I have had hotter ones previously and can find prettier ones easily still. Sex is just physical, only someone dumb would marry on the basis of how good the sex is. That's what a casual girl is for or if you can't pull, prostitutes! I have slept with genuine hot girls (up to 8) but hell no I would date them, no real connection. If they dropped dead the next day I wouldn't feel anything, so why would I marry them? I kept these encounters low key apart from my close friends knowing.

But to find a girl you actually really give a **** for, that means the world to you, that you enjoy spending time with for real is actually harder and worth a million times more. There is nothing I wouldn't do for her and vice versa obviously.

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I think it's the opposite of being mature to settle for someone you're not attracted to.

I never said though, you always twist it a little. I never said a 10/10 going out with a 1/10 girl who has bad teeth, fat, smells e.t.c. Such extreme scenarios are not what I meant. Looks are first thing someone notices of course but a long term relationship is much more than that and always will be. Hence why you see different types of couples.
 

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That's sweet Wolfpack, sounds like you found a keeper!

Fred, there's a big difference between being repulsed by someone and accepting someone with imperfections. Some women may be repulsed by baldness, some may see it as an imperfection, but still find you attractive enough for physical attraction. They may find men with hair more physically attractive, but they may find you reasonably attractive without it and still want a relationship due to trust, personality and friendship.

Of course some men would look awful without hair and may well repulse women. I know for sure, without hair I would lose 4 points. I would go from being reasonably attractive to women to being unattractive due to my head shape and facial features. Many men won't though. Many men still look decent (just not me :( )
 

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I agree Wolf, long-term relationships are more than that. But looks are still the main prerequisite to make it work.

You can't build a healthy relationship with a girl you're repulsed by.

All I'm saying here is especially true for women. As all of you should know by now, they have way higher standards than us men whether it's for casual sex or relationships.

I was also confused when GoldenMane wrote he agrees haha.

That's definitely true: if you're actually repulsed by her, it's going to be very hard work to make the relationship work even if you want it to. She will also find it hard to accept that you're not attracted to her. Those kind of issues will spill over into other areas of your relationship.

They do have higher standards and will often compare their bfs from looks to anything else.

Looks are important as often from that your personality is judged as well.

Thanks GoldenMane.
 
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Lol find it funny how she asks for a rating, yet her face is mostly covered :D
 

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has anyone here logically just thought maybe the 10s are the same as women saying they would date a bald guy online?
I doubt ANYONE thinks that girls a 10, and is more than likely being "nice"
 

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If I compare her to the really hot/pretty/cute/beautiful Asian girls I've encountered in my life, she's a 2. She gets one point for not being obese and another point for not being bald.
 

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If I compare her to the really hot/pretty/cute/beautiful Asian girls I've encountered in my life, she's a 2. She gets one point for not being obese and another point for not being bald.

At least you're judging well. One guy in particular around me has no idea how to actually rate. None of his friends trust his rating! I some times feel he gives 2 points just for being female and alive, another 2 for not being fat, 2 more for saying hi to him.
 
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