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Well, I'm not going to try and convince you otherwise. I do disagree but the important thing is to find things that improve your look and if its not something you like then there is no point In trying to make it work. Besides, I do think the all black look for men suits only bikers, young and beautiful men with the indy/rock lock, or those in the arts industry.Those aren't all black. The white is an important element there, adds contrast. The guy's wearing a beige-grey scarf as well. But it might just work better for women. I know I like black skirts on a woman personally lol.
I went shopping yesterday, just browsing really, I saw three different stores, J-Crew, Brooks Brothers, and Allen Edmunds, where I ranked them in order of increasing class. Those are just the places that were in the area. None of the salesmen or manequins were wearing all black. The in-colours were white, beige, various shades of blue, and to my surprise, some yellow , also some green that I don't like.
I did see all-black when I went to the restaurant for lunch after -- it was the uniform for the waiters.
I had a friend from the movie club I joined in Australia who were all black. She's the only person I know who did that look. She was very depressed, she hadn't had a job in over 2 years, nor a romantic partner in over 4 years. She bought some brown-coloured shoes, but said she wouldn't wear them prior to spray painting them black. I looked up some old pictures of her on facebook, back in the day when she was happier, when she had a job and a boyfriend, she wore more colours.
As for you, I would say you are better off looking at smart casual styles. You are an academic, on a decent income, and are very intelligent. If you dressed like an edgy rock star it just wouldn't be congruent. I'll post some fashion ideas for you below and you can see if any of them work for you.
I know they aren't super complex style or fashions but I think these would suit you - especially as a man in his thirties (like me). We cant do the same styles as a 21 year old guy - we'd look like idiots.