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they're not all extremist like before. a new forum was made called lookism and many of them moved there. they still acknowledge the important of being a girls type. oftentimes people get with literal looks matches, people who look like them.I pointed before where sluthate was wrong: they think a male model guy could get any woman he wants. They ignore the genetic compatibility component in attraction.
While it is vastly documented and anyone with a minimum of common sense and life experience can observe it in their daily life.
What makes a woman attracted to that particular guy? It's still a mystery for the most part.
But it doesn't change the fact that we can see a woman will go for a specific guy, even though she can't explain why herself.
Sluthate members also make the mistake of not separating looks from beauty.
Some men are not conventionally attractive: some men are not tall, don't have square jaw, don't have the ideal proportions, yet they still "do it" for plenty of women out there.
I've seen a girl being genuinely turned off by men with squared jaw for example. She said it didn't do it for her but one of her friend dated only guys with squared jaws.
Again you can see how each woman has her type. And that's why I truly think even guys like you would have their shot out there Exodus.
But of course, you would have to meet a lot of women to find one who's going to be interested. I don't say that to belittle you, I'm in the same boat.
Of course I have my girlfriend, but even then, you want to see if you can still find women who are interested. And even with my height and other advantages, it's difficult.
Not to seduce a woman (again, after more than 50 first dates, I can say seduction is a myth), but just to find a woman who's interested and available.
About gender roles, I think it's all about doing what feels right. I know it's a very girly thing to say. But I just know in a heartbeat if I should do something or not.
What my experience with women has taught me is that you should never, ever show any sign of weakness to any woman. Because they will all lose respect for you and ridicule you if you do.
and i agree about gender roles. i think we should banish them and let people be the way they want.