someone just told me my hairloss does not have to hold me back. i'm not so sure. this is what I wrote back to him. and even if i can get dates now, i'm sure my hair before my grafts would have held me back.
i'm interested in your story. i also responded to your post. i agree i'm on here too much. partially it is too help other, but i must say i feel unloved when i look on the board and don't see any new posts for me to respond to.
you're info may benifit me. I know my hair loss does not have to stop me from getting good grades or a job, but it is hard to focus when i can never have the joy of having sex or kissing a pretty woman.
i'm sure you will also say hairloss should not stop me from dating. but while that may be true for me or may not be, you can't know that. Hair is 20% of the picture. i can compensate with other stuff, but I still have a handicap, and depending on how fit I am and finances and other qualities, it is possible the hairloss can be the last straw that keeps me from getting a pretty girlfriend, or I may be able to get one now and just not know it.
of course i can get one just by settling for some less attractive, but if she is not at least average looking, then there is no joy in it.
Also, i don't have many friends in college. too many people like to drink and smoke all the time. It must be 90% of students. And as an out of state student trying to mingle with senior who already have friends (i'm 26 and trying to hange out with the older students), have have problems when the seniors keep graduating and leaving town. Also, I'm not in any of there classes because I'm just a sophomore who started late for financial reasons. I'm trying to get to know the sophomores in my chemE classes, but there are the Honors students and the drinkers and few in between.
i'm interested in your story. i also responded to your post. i agree i'm on here too much. partially it is too help other, but i must say i feel unloved when i look on the board and don't see any new posts for me to respond to.
you're info may benifit me. I know my hair loss does not have to stop me from getting good grades or a job, but it is hard to focus when i can never have the joy of having sex or kissing a pretty woman.
i'm sure you will also say hairloss should not stop me from dating. but while that may be true for me or may not be, you can't know that. Hair is 20% of the picture. i can compensate with other stuff, but I still have a handicap, and depending on how fit I am and finances and other qualities, it is possible the hairloss can be the last straw that keeps me from getting a pretty girlfriend, or I may be able to get one now and just not know it.
of course i can get one just by settling for some less attractive, but if she is not at least average looking, then there is no joy in it.
Also, i don't have many friends in college. too many people like to drink and smoke all the time. It must be 90% of students. And as an out of state student trying to mingle with senior who already have friends (i'm 26 and trying to hange out with the older students), have have problems when the seniors keep graduating and leaving town. Also, I'm not in any of there classes because I'm just a sophomore who started late for financial reasons. I'm trying to get to know the sophomores in my chemE classes, but there are the Honors students and the drinkers and few in between.