No one likes me

JayBear

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IBM said:
Read what happened today.

My bosses cames from far far away and they brought with them a women. I think she's older than me. When i saw her i was stunned by her beauty, stillness of her spirit and her shinny

her shinny?

IBM said:
Well we start to have a nice conversation and she was the one to push it. Somehow i felt she found me interesting and very different from others (well i'm very different from other guys). She was laughing to my little jokes and pulling her hair. We found out that we had some things in common.

To my bad luck she went to her meetings inside the building. In the end of the day she came with her boss. Her boss said goodbye to me and also she. My willing was to say to my boss "come here more often but with the condition of bringing her".

But, as tradition says, my mouth was shut and i said nothing flattering to her. Well she's gone so me too.

If your boss knows her, and you clearly know your boss, you can figure out a way to get in touch with her. Come up with an excuse if you have to. If you're that into this girl, you have to at least give it a shot. What do you have to lose?
 

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JayBear said:
If your boss knows her, and you clearly know your boss, you can figure out a way to get in touch with her. Come up with an excuse if you have to. If you're that into this girl, you have to at least give it a shot. What do you have to lose?

Understand that i cant help myself. I wish i had someone to guide me through this. Someone to tell me what to wear, what to behave, what to say. I want to go beyond but i feel lost and alone. The trauma of the past stops me to change my image to much more glamorous/fashioned style like football players.

I cant get help from my hierarchy bosses. In Portugal people are divided by social status and lifestyle. At least where I live. Certainly some would hinder and prejudice my attempts to have something with she.

I need self-esteem and confidence. If i had it i would invite her for lunch or dinner and get rid of those bosses.
 

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IBM said:
JayBear said:
If your boss knows her, and you clearly know your boss, you can figure out a way to get in touch with her. Come up with an excuse if you have to. If you're that into this girl, you have to at least give it a shot. What do you have to lose?

Understand that i cant help myself. I wish i had someone to guide me through this. Someone to tell me what to wear, what to behave, what to say. I want to go beyond but i feel lost and alone. The trauma of the past stops me to change my image to much more glamorous/fashioned style like football players.

I cant get help from my hierarchy bosses. In Portugal people are divided by social status and lifestyle. At least where I live. Certainly some would hinder and prejudice my attempts to have something with she.

I need self-esteem and confidence. If i had it i would invite her for lunch or dinner and get rid of those bosses.
IBM, I think you need a Fairy Godmother to guide you and you need to see the Wizard of Oz so you can get some self esteem and confidence. :innocent:
 

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DoctorHouse said:
IBM said:
JayBear said:
If your boss knows her, and you clearly know your boss, you can figure out a way to get in touch with her. Come up with an excuse if you have to. If you're that into this girl, you have to at least give it a shot. What do you have to lose?

Understand that i cant help myself. I wish i had someone to guide me through this. Someone to tell me what to wear, what to behave, what to say. I want to go beyond but i feel lost and alone. The trauma of the past stops me to change my image to much more glamorous/fashioned style like football players.

I cant get help from my hierarchy bosses. In Portugal people are divided by social status and lifestyle. At least where I live. Certainly some would hinder and prejudice my attempts to have something with she.

I need self-esteem and confidence. If i had it i would invite her for lunch or dinner and get rid of those bosses.
IBM, I think you need a Fairy Godmother to guide you and you need to see the Wizard of Oz so you can get some self esteem and confidence. :innocent:

You're absolutely right.
 
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