Obviously being obese is far worse than being fit and short or bald. But there is still a sliding scale. What if a short guy has 6 pack abs and a tall guy has 5 pounds of fat on his stomach? Then we might not be so sure which is better. But we know there are a lot of guys who just have 5 pounds of fat on their stomach. And if that is still better, then it would seem unfair to the short, fitter guy.
But you guys miss the point. Getting a girlfriend is not that hard if you are able and willing to pay. Lots of guys pay for dinner, movie, and other stuff on a regular basis in hopes of getting sex. If they are good negotiators, they can get it sometimes. Other times they are lead on and ripped off. But any 5 foot tall guy can get it if he has money. I think what we all want is to get that hottie without having to pay. We wish she'd be just as attracted to us as we are to her, and not charge us for her company. That is where being in good shape and such really comes in more.
Average chumps think that it is they that want to take a woman on a date. Women even play hard to get to keep them thinking this. But would you really enjoy that date if you knew for a fact you would not even get a kiss even after 6 months? Some virgins will say yes, but your excitement you feel is wanting, not happiness. Fact is, if you seem safe and nice, not angry and horny, most women will let you buy them stuff. It is they who want the date, and you who wants more. You need to know they want it, and learn how to present yourself and do subtle negotiations in better ways so you are less likely to get nothing. Don't keep chasing someone who is not interested or just leading you on. Your most powerful tool is your ability to walk away. Just act like they just are not keeping your interest. Let them think if they just gave you a small bone you'd stay. Don't let them think they need to give you a bigger bone until later after they've invested a bit first. That is part of the mystery method, explained in common sense.
If you act like an excited puppy, they will sense you think you are about to get a lot, and then they run. They might not see you as a catch, but they would see it as a catch if they could get your unlimited money without having to do much in return. That is bate. You give them increasing hoops to go through in their attempt to get it. Each time, you act like you are deciding if they are the one, rather than acting like you are trying hard to go as far as you can go. That is the strategy used against rip off artists. If she actually is willing to put out but likes money, then it is OK to show your interest and pay, as long as you realize she does not want sex 5x a day like you do with her.
