Oknow guide to online dating , and become a stud

[DyingOfTheLight]

Fair point, but you can apply that principle in any other area of life when someone has extreme value. For example, if someone was famous, they are probably more likely to pull a stunner than the average man.

The problem people have on here, they think too much in terms of extremes - unless you do not have an extreme amount of materialistic value you are not dateable, which is an absolutely ridiculous way of looking at things.

Many, many average people have partners.

Statistically, the majority of the population are 'average'

This is true. I don't think incels even want to be attractive in order to date women, they want it in order to feel powerful. They want to dominate and humiliate, most likely because they themselves have been bullied and slighted by women in the past.

So yes they think in extremes because they desire the extreme.

I agree that many average people are in relationships. That's self-evident.

But I'm not entirely sure if the average man can elicit genuine lust in women. And I mean like the irrational, overpowering lust that we men feel, not simply a little arousal.

 

[Oknow]

This is true. I don't think incels even want to be attractive in order to date women, they want it in order to feel powerful. They want to dominate and humiliate, most likely because they themselves have been bullied and slighted by women in the past.

So yes they think in extremes because they desire the extreme.

I agree that many average people are in relationships. That's self-evident.

But I'm not entirely sure if the average man can elicit genuine lust in women. And I mean like the irrational, overpowering lust that we men feel, not simply a little arousal.

Well, probably not, but who cares if they have a partner , and are getting laid , they are in a better position than a lot of these guys on here.

I also find attraction very random, met women so into me, and would tell me directly, where others are not so much.

 

[losingbattle88]

Can someone just ban this disgusting pedo indian guy already? Dr house?

 

[UnLuckyLuciano]

Dating advices on a bald forum.
Lol
This is like giving flying advices to elephants.

 

[KevinEdEddEddy]

Step 1.
Find someone who is physically attracted to you
There are billions of people in the world, the odds are in your favour

This is extremely important

I filter women out by having a mixture of attractive and unattractive photos on my profile , so there are no surprises when they meet up with me

one complaint I have heard women say about other dates, ‘his photos were nice but he didn’t look like them’

DONT be that guy!

2. set up a date, and go into the date with low expectations, but and here is the key, try to have fun

Women love relaxed, fun guys as opposed to guys who smell of desperation and are insecure

Some ways to do this :

3. don’t overthink how to communicate, but have some awareness of how you are communicating with them

4. adapt to her behaviour, if you are communicating and you can sense she is not positively responding, change the conversation to something more positive

Women want to feel comfortable and good around you, and it starts with putting them into a positive mindset

5. compliment

6. talk about the future , ‘I really enjoyed tonight, would love to spend more time with you’

7. be confident over your shortfalls , I live with my folks in my 30s , so when I tell my dates I do, I act as if it doesn’t bother me.

If you are acting as if it doesn’t bother you, chances are they won’t care.


8. don’t overshare too early on, women are more forgiving of shortfalls once they get to know you

9. look for social cues to determine interest levels , how they look at you, touch you , proximity , where when you can feel their vibe is positive in a sexual way , make the move and kiss them

10. try to figure out what they are looking for and adapt accordingly

fundamentally dating is like any form of negotiation, people have an idea of what they are looking for and are trying to find someone who meets expectations.

As a guy, with every interaction you need to figure out what the woman you are interacting with makes and dealbreakers are, where as long as the makes are greater than the dealbreakers, you will get some action. Gaurentee it.

I hope this helps people

you see there’s more to it than hair

it’s an art


CC @vondoom @justinbieberscombover @DoctorHouse

1. Yeah have in mind that having recent photos is important, my ex gf was frauding and she was fatter than in photos, was very disappointed
2. True, worst you can do is go with expectations ,,SHE WILL CERTAINLY LET ME f*** HER", I know a guy who thinking he is entitled, raped a girl. No, he is not bald, he is NW1 lmao
3. idk I am autistic
4. idk I am autistic
5. Sometimes an opposite works, idk why, there are girls attracted to guys who DON'T compliment them lol
6. Only if date was good tho
7. Since it's hairlosstalk, I discourage people here to think 'YEAH I AGE LIKE A FINE WINE I AM SO GREAT'. 30s are the age where you have/plan a family with someone close to you. Not talking about balding only, but wrinkles and other factors as well.
8. Yeah only if you don't have a child or you are not schizophrenic. One girl rejected me after I confessed I am not a virgin so idk
9. idk I am autistic
10. Yeah, don't be afraid to reject them tho

Quite good tips tho, it only reinforces the thought in me that being an aspie is a death sentence (and I am very high functioning)

1 is the important part. The rest follows naturally. The odds are way against a bald guy. Many a bald guy on here put his best photos and ran out of people to swipe. It's going to be even worse with a mix of average and good photos.

The guide should be renamed to "guide to online dating with hair".

Online dating is a b**ch, sorry but it rapes average looking guys with hair or not to death

As for dating for baldies, I have few tips
1. don't be ashamed of balding, although it's bad, it's not a dealbreaker always
2. don't get mad when someone asks you why are you bald, I got asked this question a couple of times and it was because people were genuinely curious why I shaved it. Well, if you cry like a b**ch about it, then a chick will go away. Just tell that you have male pattern baldness or like I said few times that 'I lost them due to illness'
3. DON'T HATFISH, PLEASE
4. I recommend shaving your head for a date, it looks clean. Buzzcut is not considered to be clean
5. don't be that nervous. If she swiped right and met with you, then you do not repulse her, but don't spend too much money on her and if possible, make her pay for you

 

[vondoom]

well then they are not passing 1.

it starts with 1.

and to be fair bald men do get action too, but they really suit it

he still doesnt understand that hair isnt everything...
now even with system things dont go as planned (according to himself), but he still believes it...

 

[vondoom]

well nothing to add... online dating was always *** for me... complete opposite from real life...

 

[doubleindemnity]

well nothing to add... online dating was always *** for me... complete opposite from real life...

But wasn't your real life methodology to go out and wait to be approached? Or was it something different?

 

[vondoom]

yeah more or less...
worked quite fine...
approaching worked fine, too...
online? didnt work at all^^