"over 14 Million Youtube Subs And 0 Tinder Matches"
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Bald man should never never discuss impact of hairloss in public.
It's emasculating...beta behavior.
Even if a guy is bald..he can get gf..depending on whether a girl is ready to accept that based on guy's confidence..
But if someone project their inferiority in front of others..he is destined to be single.
This guy killed his chances...
Confidence matters and it's not a joke.
It's emasculating...beta behavior.
Even if a guy is bald..he can get gf..depending on whether a girl is ready to accept that based on guy's confidence..
But if someone project their inferiority in front of others..he is destined to be single.
This guy killed his chances...
Confidence matters and it's not a joke.
doubleindemnity
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Do you actually believe this balderdash (about a bald guy being able to get a gf)? Wake up. This guy here is another piece of evidence.
Bald men can not get a gf. If they're lucky, they can get into the friend zone or get a hook up with somebody who's in the mood/desperate. But a serious relationship? Not a chance. The only way for him to get matches would be to grow the hair out and take photos in dim lighting to make it look like he has hair (maybe also with concealer). But that would just allow him a chance to get a bunch of dates. He wouldn't be able to convert any of those dates into a gf. Not in a million years. Bald men like us need to accept that we're bald and that we have no chance to get married or get a gf. It's completely insolent of a bald man to even try to go on a date with a sophisticated person who has their life in order. Our mistake was believing otherwise. Do whatever you want to get matches - as he might - but you'll be found out eventually. Once somebody sees that you're a NW6, it's over, no matter how excited they were to meet you on an app.
How many times have you walked out of your basement into real life and got out of your delusional fairy tale land... IF you'd be a little more mindful of your surroundings you wouldnt spew such dumb bullshit.
I see bald guys with good looking women every single day... sometimes i see more bald guys with hot girls than fullheads. This personally doesnt put my mind at ease, i just dont wanna be a bald guy, i really dont give a f*** whether bald men get hot woman or not.
doubleindemnity
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I do that every day and very rarely see a bald man with a partner. When I do see it, it's almost always going to be the case that they were together and serious before he lost his hair. That's obviously a different case. I stand by that post.
I think your position is a bit extreme. I have known bald men who got long term and decent looking girl friends. They met the women when they were bald. I don't mean to say it's easy for them to do it. It's tough, but it's not as extreme as you make it sound. Your statement "bald men can't get gf" ignores various variables such as height, head shape, face structure that can make a big difference. You wouldn't know until you try. As far as Tinder matches are concerned, there are people with full head of hair who don't have matches as well. Don't use online dating to make generalizations about real life.
Other users, don't take doubleindemnity's post seriously and get discouraged. Giving up on womem because you read some discouraging posts on an internet forum will be a real shame. Maximize your looks, put yourself out there and see what happens. I remember @WhitePolarBear once saying when his baldness hit him he thought he will never get a women. But once he put himself out there, he was easily able to date.
Now that's a different statement and I agree with it. In fact, I have yet to see a guy who looks better NW2 than NW1.
doubleindemnity
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As far as I remember, @WhitePolarBear found it challenging, but not impossible, to date as a slick NW5 and found it quite a bit easier with his transplant. But he attributed most of the success to his height.
I think that others should really consider my post seriously. Don't let yourself get to NW6. If you ever find yourself approaching NW6, marry the first person you can find (before you get to NW6) or risk being alone forever. When you put yourself out there as a NW6 you really will see what happens - nothing. Nothing but disappointment. You can use my advice before on using dim lighting and concealers to get yourself dates. But don't expect anything more than single dates. Understand that, as a NW6, you're considered a lesser human and the perception is that you don't deserve a partner. Whether you believe that you deserve a partner (confidence) or not is quite irrelevant.
Even @Saurabhaj , whose post induced me to start this whole thing, is extremely confident and extremely bald. Guess what, he can't get a partner either. I'm reassuring him that there's nothing wrong with his personality or confidence; it was his baldness all along.
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That might have worked 10 years ago. Now though? No way in hell.
shookwun
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honestly, i never see bald dudes in the club. I go every weekend fri-sat
clubs are typically full of 19-30 year olds.
anyone over 30 is going to bars, and lounges. Maybe that's why I dont see any?
I have seen so many profiles of couple of US or europe where guy is bald on fb..on many pages that are educational.
How old are You?
Need to post pics visiting awesome places or nature..even a flashy waterfall of malls and hotels with Led lighting will work..
shookwun
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Am i the only one who doesn't bother using online dating anymore?
Ever since I came to realization how shitty of a method it is for picking up chicks, I completely got rid of it. people say it's easy, yet dont realise how much mental energy it requires for empty encounters, flakes and dead end texting that goes no where. Sure, some of them pull through.. but most like always never look like there photos, and the ones that do are far from the ideal.
Ever since I started going out every weekend, i flawlessly perfected my game to the point where I have fun and pick up... 100% guaranteed numbers at minimum/ make outs.
Would be surprised at how many chicks actually want to have sex the same night. Last night was a good example of how I was standing in line to grab my coat, and this euro chick opened me up out of no where. After a few minutes, we were making out. She was getting so horny to the point where she begged me to take her home to get fucked. Like clawing, clencing her jaw, and just giving me that horny animal look.
Once you reach that twilight area of picking up chicks in a natural setting, there is no going back to the toying around of being penpals on tinder.
LOL
If I want a relationship, I run daygame in settings of interest. if I like volleyball, join a tournament and sponsered team..... tons of women to meet. it's all about interests, and finding your girl in something you both enjoy.
my .02 for people wasting there time online.
Ever since I came to realization how shitty of a method it is for picking up chicks, I completely got rid of it. people say it's easy, yet dont realise how much mental energy it requires for empty encounters, flakes and dead end texting that goes no where. Sure, some of them pull through.. but most like always never look like there photos, and the ones that do are far from the ideal.
Ever since I started going out every weekend, i flawlessly perfected my game to the point where I have fun and pick up... 100% guaranteed numbers at minimum/ make outs.
Would be surprised at how many chicks actually want to have sex the same night. Last night was a good example of how I was standing in line to grab my coat, and this euro chick opened me up out of no where. After a few minutes, we were making out. She was getting so horny to the point where she begged me to take her home to get fucked. Like clawing, clencing her jaw, and just giving me that horny animal look.
Once you reach that twilight area of picking up chicks in a natural setting, there is no going back to the toying around of being penpals on tinder.
LOL
If I want a relationship, I run daygame in settings of interest. if I like volleyball, join a tournament and sponsered team..... tons of women to meet. it's all about interests, and finding your girl in something you both enjoy.
my .02 for people wasting there time online.
Of course they shouldn't. They should do everything in their power to save hair. But if they are already NW5 or NW6, it doesn't mean they are doomed when it comes to women. They should still put themselves out there. If they still fail, then they can give up on women. I have seen bald guys with decent looking girl friends so I know for fact it can be done. It may be really hard but it's possible. I have seen it first hand.
I disagree with this statement. If you marry someone because you are in a hurry, you may end up with a women who is not right for you. Also, if NW6 is someones inevitable fate, then they should find a women who is comfortable with baldness. In this age when women divorce at the drop of a hat, it's very important to find someone who is genuinely attracted to you. That doesn't guarantee that the divorce wouldn't happen but you do give yourself a better chance of success. In general physical attraction, compatibility, financial stability and communication all are very important in a marriage.
You are not the only one Shook. I prefer clubs too. Although I don't go to them too often now partly because I am currently dating someone and partly because I am in the age group where almost all of my buddies are married. But I did go to clubs every weekend back in 2013-2014. Pretty much every night I got phone numbers, make out, etc. Clubs are not for everyone but if they do work for you, they are incredibly fun.