p**rn-Induced Sexual Dysfunction Is a Growing Problem

EasyEd

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Man in Space said:
Your a funny man Monty :laugh:

EasyEd said:
The young teenagers of the world don't know how good they have it with p**rn. Top quality, awesome, free p**rn is just the click of a button away on the computer - you just type in "Huge tits c*m face donkey teenager milf huge c*** doggy a*** rape awesome Peter North" into the search bar of a p**rn site, and watch the magic take place. When I started out, it was either magazines, borrowing VHS tapes from friends, or going to the Spice Channel and watching scrambled grayed-out p**rn with no sound at the hopes of maybe seeing a boob, which was likely a knee - and I was grateful for that!

I once got given a stash of around 30 VHS tapes that I had stored under the bed throughout my teenage years! All it would have taken would have been an over zealous hoovering from mum to have been rumbled as the perv of the house, every day on the edge, thats how i roll.

Haha nice - old school VHS p**rn was the sh*t! I have a buddy who got caught red-handed by his old man. He said literally in the act, totally naked with pecker in hand. When he told my group of friends, we all almost simultaneously said "At least it wasn't your mom."
 

Man in Space

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Haha busted!!

I got caught in the act of having sex by my mum once, but fortunately I think the image of my (ex) girlfriend reverse cowgirling me with gusto would have the been the more indelible image burnt upon my mothers retinas
 

HughJass

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Man in Space said:
:smack:

Totally out of context.

this is a thread about p**rn!

Im not talking about p**rn ladies here, im talking about the reason your a misogynist, if a woman has had many lovers thats a threat to you cos you know you wont measure up!! Thats why you want to control them, you know if left to their own accord they roam from you


Oh god a male feminist. Just what the world needs more of.
 

Man in Space

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I thought you were funny at first but now Im bored. Your right, the thread is about p**rn, that doesnt mean every comment will be and the one you took out of context was.

As I explained earlier Im not a feminist, I would have absolutely no problem saying i was one, I just believe in individual liberty, for everyone, any gender, class, race, whatever background, the liberty for people to watch p**rn, I even believe in you and your right to be a plonker!.
 

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Man in Space said:
I thought you were funny at first but now Im bored. Your right, the thread is about p**rn, that doesnt mean every comment will be and the one you took out of context was.

As I explained earlier Im not a feminist, I would have absolutely no problem saying i was one, I just believe in individual liberty, for everyone, any gender, class, race, whatever background, the liberty for people to watch p**rn, I even believe in you and your right to be a plonker!.


big hugs? :)
 

Man in Space

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Not sure what the insinuation is there finasteride??!! :dunno:

'haha why not Auusie im a lover not a hater, I might disagree with about everything you say but I enjoy your banter! :)
 

Man in Space

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You talking to Aussie Cassin? Im assuming you are as you quoted him but I only ask as I never got a reply to my last pm i sent you... (really need a wink smilie!!)
 

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Man in Space said:
You talking to Aussie Cassin? Im assuming you are as you quoted him but I only ask as I never got a reply to my last pm i sent you... (really need a wink smilie!!)

That was for Aussie...

But I just replied to your PM as well.
 

Bald Dave

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Everyone is different when it comes to p**rn. I like amature style p**rn of British bored housewives rather than the Playboy style p**rn. Playboy style just seems so fake and at least the British bored housewives seem very realistic. I also don't like seeing another man in a porno but would rather watch lesbians go at it. Like I said everyone is different.

Ive got a mate and he is into scat p**rn. He loves watching guys drop a turd into a girls mouth and he finds it a turn on :puke:
 

Man in Space

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Monty it doesnt have to be vomit inducing, that it is all dependent on whether you are the luncher or lunchee!
 

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cassin said:
A growing number of young, healthy Internet pornography users are complaining of delayed ejaculation, inability to be turned on by real partners, and sluggish erections.

Lots of guys, 20s or so, can't get it up anymore with a real girl, and they all relate having a serious p**rn/masturbation habit. Guys will never openly discuss this with friends or co-workers, for fear of getting laughed out of town. But when someone tells their story on a health forum, and there are 50-100 replies from other guys who struggle with the same thing. This is for real.

Threads relating to this issue are springing up all over the Web on bodybuilding, medical help, and pick-up artist forums, in at least twenty countries. Notice from one such forum:

Due to the overwhelming emails and requests we have received concerning pornography addiction and erectile dysfunction, we decided to create an entirely different thread. ED due to p**rn is becoming rapidly common, especially for young men.

Desperate young men from various cultures, with different levels of education, religiosity, attitudes, values, diets, marijuana use, and personalities are seeking help. They have only two things in common: heavy use of today's Internet p**rn and increasing need for more extreme material.

Many have previously been to doctors, undergone various tests, and been declared "just fine" physically. Neither they nor their health care providers considered excessive p**rn use as a potential cause of their continued performance problems. Most were assured that "masturbation cannot cause erectile dysfunction." (Probably true, but unfortunately Internet p**rn use can.) The final diagnosis was generally "performance anxiety." Desperate, many also looked online. See this 900-post thread and this 300-post one.

Is anxiety really the cause? Here's a simple test: Try to masturbate (alone) using no p**rn and no fantasy—only sensual touch. Use the same speed and pressure as you would during intercourse. How erect is your penis without p**rn? If your penis is not fully erect, or it takes effort to become erect, then the chances are that anxiety is not the source of your problems. Persistent performance problems can certainly lead to anxiety, however. As one man said after he recovered following three months without masturbation or p**rn,

It's hard to tell where addiction ends and anxiety begins. I think a combination of the two is involved in a lot of situations.

Not long ago, Italian urologists confirmed an erectile dysfunction-p**rn use connection via a large survey. When interviewed about the survey, urologist Carlo Foresta (head of the Italian Society of Andrology and Sexual Medicine and professor at the University of Padua) mentioned that 70 percent of the young men his clinic treated for sexual performance problems had been using Internet pornography heavily.

For them, recovery appears to take 6-12 weeks, and rests primarily on one factor: avoiding the extreme stimulation of Internet erotica. (Many also avoid masturbation for a time, either because at first they cannot masturbate without p**rn fantasy, or because climax triggers binging.)

Among those who recover, progression is surprisingly similar. Men typically report that after a few days of intense sexual cravings, their libido plummets and their penis seems "lifeless," "shrunken," or "cold." These "flatline" symptoms typically continue for up to six weeks on average, dependent upon age and intensity of p**rn use.

Gradually, morning erections return, followed by libido and, perhaps, occasional spontaneous erections. Finally, there is complete recovery of erectile health, sexual desire for real partners, sex becomes extremely pleasurable, and condom use is no longer problematic.

I am a 25-year old male, masturbating a lot from 13 and using p**rn from 14. Gradually, it took more to turn me on: bigger fantasies or harder p**rn, and I stopped getting hard without touching. During sex I would struggle to get an erection or keep it, especially for intercourse. Over the past 7 years I haven't held down a relationship, and the main reason for me has been this problem. Now the good news: When I realized the cause, I immediately gave up p**rn. Over the last 6 weeks I held off masturbating as much as I possibly could. (My best record was 9 days!) It all paid off. I just went away with a girl for the weekend and it was the best ever. I don't think I'm out of the woods yet. I still get pretty anxious from all the bad experiences over the years. But I just wanted to tell you all it can work, and it's well worth it!
Week 12, age 36 - I'm actually totally impressed how HUGE I get. It has been kinda hard to ignore. I mean, my erections are ROCK HARD and ENORMOUS. I remember asking other guys who went before me about when they noticed the return of their full erections. Well, I think I got mine back


for the rest
http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/cup ... ng-problem


BS, spewed by some right wing christian group that just hates pornography.

I look at pornography, and it does not reduce my ability to get erections around real women one bit. It gives me a healthy release when I need it.

If men are having trouble getting erections, it is because of the obesity problem all around the world. Fix that, and erection problems will disappear overnight. Oh no, men don't want to have sex with whales, which must mean that p**rn is bad. Show me a man who will turn down a normal sized woman (1970's normal) and only then can you say we have a problem.
 

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cassin said:
I knew this one girl...gorgeous... we were dating and she told me one fetish she had was every few months she would go to a bar/club and screw a complete stranger. It was the "wrongness" that got her off.

Our relationship ended pretty fast after that btw. :whistle:

It is not the stranger factor that turned her on. She just wanted to sleep with someone better looking than you, but did not want to make you upset by saying that, so she used stranger as the reason. I guarantee had you seen those guys, they looked good.
 

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Bald Dave said:
Everyone is different when it comes to p**rn. I like amature style p**rn of British bored housewives rather than the Playboy style p**rn. Playboy style just seems so fake and at least the British bored housewives seem very realistic. I also don't like seeing another man in a porno but would rather watch lesbians go at it. Like I said everyone is different.

Ive got a mate and he is into scat p**rn. He loves watching guys drop a turd into a girls mouth and he finds it a turn on :puke:


I agree. When I look at p**rn, I want to see naked women, not naked men. I'm not turned on by two women going at it, but at least ever angle will be good. I also like seeing women getting eaten out, whereas most pornos spend the majority of the time zoomed in on a 12 inch penis, showing all the stuff the woman can do to the 12 inch penis. I don't understnad how that can arrouse a straight man.
 

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I agree. When I look at p**rn, I want to see naked women, not naked men. I'm not turned on by two women going at it, but at least ever angle will be good. I also like seeing women getting eaten out, whereas most pornos spend the majority of the time zoomed in on a 12 inch penis, showing all the stuff the woman can do to the 12 inch penis. I don't understnad how that can arrouse a straight man.

Because he also has penis and the visual can help him imagine that penis on the screen is his own.
 
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