Phoney Incels Who Just Think They Are Ugly

Cue Bald

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but yeah i agree with the BDD stuff.
every few months some new guy will post some huge long rambling post about how his life is ruined, he can't go outside without being stared at, can't talk to girls, all because his hairline is a mess; finasteride is giving him sides and he is talking about comitting suicide. he looks rediculous, life ruined.

then he posts a picture and it is a thick justin beiber NW1.

so people rag on him for it and say "you aren't bald, go see a therapist" and he posts the same picture with the temples circled in MS Paint saying "are you guys blind, can't you see the massive bald spots, how can I go out looking like this"

this is the real BDD, not calling a NW6 who is upset about their ugliness BDD.
 

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looking into my eyes saying sh*t like, "don't you feel a real connection here?" No b**ch. Not on a first date.

Classic buckthorn :)
 

JohnsonDDG

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but yeah i agree with the BDD stuff.
every few months some new guy will post some huge long rambling post about how his life is ruined, he can't go outside without being stared at, can't talk to girls, all because his hairline is a mess; finasteride is giving him sides and he is talking about comitting suicide. he looks rediculous, life ruined.

then he posts a picture and it is a thick justin beiber NW1.

so people rag on him for it and say "you aren't bald, go see a therapist" and he posts the same picture with the temples circled in MS Paint saying "are you guys blind, can't you see the massive bald spots, how can I go out looking like this"

this is the real BDD, not calling a NW6 who is upset about their ugliness BDD.
And we keep seeing it again and again. So many members who are virtually full heads who post here complaining that hair loss has ruined their love lives.
 

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Nothing short of rage-inducing for guys like me who aggressively went from fullhead to a slick NW5 between the age of 16 and 22.

When I see those newbies still talking about styling their hair, Jesus... By the age of 18, I already couldn't use that word anymore.

We've said it before, it's people who are still in the process of going bald who can be the most hysterical about the impact of hair loss.

Now don't get me wrong, I was guilty of that too when I was 20, but I wasn't suffering from BDD, my hair loss was real, diffuse and fast-paced.

Once you go bald, it takes you like 6 months to accept your fate, what else can you do anyway? Blow your brains out? That's what some of those young NW1.5 drama queens pretend they will do, but of course, it's all bluff.

And this obsession about f*****g prime hot females, as if they would be able to do that had their hair lines never receded.

Losing your hair sucks big time but it certainly isn't the end of the world in the vast majority of cases. It will be most damaging for people whose hair is their primary quality, like short or average-looking guys.


Well I definitely have bdd but it's also justified because I am actually diffusing . If treatments fail me I will resort to hair piece or sucicide because I really am an extreme case in that regard. Short and look decent because of my hair. However without hair my facial structure is absolute trash.

It's not about dating for me. Even if all women fell dead tommrow I would still care how I appeared to other men. And most importantly myself.
 

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It's the summer of 2003. Buckthorn is in his physical prime. One day a colleague of our beloved hero Buckthorn tells him about her daughter. After talking a bit they find out their both single. Buckthorn asks to see a picture of his colleagues daughter.
"Why would you need a picture? Personality is what counts!" His colleague says.
With a worried smile Buckthorn says: "Y-yes, you're correct. Of course personality is what counts. But I just want to see a picture so I know who to look for when we go on our date."
His colleague shows him a picture from her wallet. And Lord behold, she looks beautiful. Buckthorn asks for her number.

Buckthorn calls her up 2 days after to not seem desperate knowing that her mother talked about him. They have a short and nervous chat and decide to get a coffee the next day.

Buckthorn goes to the coffee shop and spots his date fidgeting around with her hands at a booth. "She looks even more beautiful than the pictures, but not very confident" he thinks to himself while walking up to her. He sits down and introduces himself. They talk casually for a little while. And then she drops the absolute bomb on our beloved Buckthorn.
"This has been such a great date so far, I rarely connect with people like I do with you! I usually feel so insecure talking with people I don't already know. But with you it's so great, because I'm able to be myself!" she says and giggles.
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"Oh my god that's so clingy and desperate!" Buckthorn thinks to himself. He stands up doesn't say a word and walks out.

lol that was a great read, I had an image built up in my head and then it was just reaffirmed by the gif.
 

DHTpolice

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Well I definitely have bdd but it's also justified because I am actually diffusing . If treatments fail me I will resort to hair piece or sucicide because I really am an extreme case in that regard. Short and look decent because of my hair. However without hair my facial structure is absolute trash.

It's not about dating for me. Even if all women fell dead tommrow I would still care how I appeared to other men. And most importantly myself.
Do you have pics of your hair?
 

Baldingat188

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My point was that you can always have a characteristic to "save you", like height, dark skin, a masculine face or a good body.

There will always be a good chance that you have at least one of those.

The bald men who don't are the ones I feel the most sorry for.

I don't have any of those. Not trying to pity party but it's just sad lol. I guess anyone can gymcel in theory though. I plan to have a good body as I age ( not get overweight ) . Good body + a few tattoos + hair piece = maybe I could get laid still. What other choices do short frail baby faced bald men have?
 

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Usually, when they can't blame their looks / height / frame / lack of hair, they'll say they're incel because of their personality make-up.

They're forever alone because they're too neurotic or too introverted.

Until I see their pictures, I won't give my opinion, maybe they're as ugly as they say, maybe not.

@Stanx22 is a good example, not nearly as fucked as he thinks he is.

He should come to Europe to run 'cuck effeminate Europeans' game.

At work, two of the girls in my team are dating Arabs, and sometimes I think it's no wonder, their aggressiveness and unapologetic behavior might be a danger to our society, but if they're attractive enough, their attitude is sure to make some pussies wet.

Especially on a field where there is barely any competition when it comes to exhibiting masculine behavior. I mean look at that cuck above, posting a YouTube video in which he whines about how he got rejected. And of course, he just doesn't see why the rejections are totally justified.

I'd say men should try their very best before they claim that they're incel. Looksmax, lift weights, get a hair transplant if you need to, use every venue possible (online dating, social life, university, etc.), cast a huge net, and if you get nowhere despite your best efforts, then you can start being mad at the world.
Never judge a person's looks unless you see them IRL/motion.

I have photos in which i look like 3/10 at best and of course i can never show those photos here because they look too horrible. I only show the best of my best photos on here and i'am not looking directly at the camera in any of them, i also take them from a good angle and i adjust the lighting to make it look as good as possible.

I'm not saying that i'm ugly as sh*t or planning on whining, but many members on here overestimate my looks and they love to blame me for my failure when it comes to women, when not even a single one of them saw me IRL before.

I may be too introverted or lazy to put myself out there, but i know myself more than anyone and what i'm capable of and what i'm not and i'm sure that being introverted or whatever isn't the main reason to why i'm always alone.

I'm trying to improve myself now anyways and for myself, not for women or people or my parents or anyone else, just myself.

Sure i'd be happy to make my parents quite proud, but that's not the main reason or my objective now, i just want to be the best version of myself that i can ever be.
 

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its a very sad process in which a lot of genuinely decent looking males will never realise there true potential.


I have good looking buddies who are incel as f***, because they don't know how to talk to women, and come across as weirdos. this is the sad truth for almost every guy in the club. bunch of dweebs who cant talk to women, and swipe on there tinder account while trying to act cool. Hanging around the bar, and lounging around.


mean while that laid back, child guy with swag is decimating the floor getting numbers, and make outs. While pulling every so often.

How do I know this? Because I was that incel guy in the club who was pondering the idea and defeatist mentality of why I cant get laid. it's because I was weird like most men, and couldn't throw a chill vibe while in a fun environment. I have no turned that around and became that guy who effortlessly gets numbers, make outs and lays every weekend.


truth is, online dating and social awkwardness is to blame for skewed perceptions and never pulling. Ever since I worked on my approaches, and being that fun guy... I have went from a guy who got nothing to multiple numbers, and make outs a night.


of course your argument will be but shook, LOOKS. Looks are only one factor, because I have goofy as looking buddies who still pull, even though they rejected a lot while we are out on the weekend. But who cares, they are making progress, and working on there approaches. Which is success in itself.


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its a very sad process in which a lot of genuinely decent looking males will never realise there true potential.


I have good looking buddies who are incel as f***, because they don't know how to talk to women, and come across as weirdos. this is the sad truth for almost every guy in the club. bunch of dweebs who cant talk to women, and swipe on there tinder account while trying to act cool. Hanging around the bar, and lounging around.


mean while that laid back, child guy with swag is decimating the floor getting numbers, and make outs. While pulling every so often.

How do I know this? Because I was that incel guy in the club who was pondering the idea and defeatist mentality of why I cant get laid. it's because I was weird like most men, and couldn't throw a chill vibe while in a fun environment. I have no turned that around and became that guy who effortlessly gets numbers, make outs and lays every weekend.


truth is, online dating and social awkwardness is to blame for skewed perceptions and never pulling. Ever since I worked on my approaches, and being that fun guy... I have went from a guy who got nothing to multiple numbers, and make outs a night.


of course your argument will be but shook, LOOKS. Looks are only one factor, because I have goofy as looking buddies who still pull, even though they rejected a lot while we are out on the weekend. But who cares, they are making progress, and working on there approaches. Which is success in itself.


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Yes, face alone cant make you a success.

Its like having keys to a Ferrari - you still need to know how to turn the ignition and move the gear stick.

Its simple but some people are idiots
 

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It's the summer of 2003. Buckthorn is in his physical prime. One day a colleague of our beloved hero Buckthorn tells him about her daughter. After talking a bit they find out their both single. Buckthorn asks to see a picture of his colleagues daughter.
"Why would you need a picture? Personality is what counts!" His colleague says.
With a worried smile Buckthorn says: "Y-yes, you're correct. Of course personality is what counts. But I just want to see a picture so I know who to look for when we go on our date."
His colleague shows him a picture from her wallet. And Lord behold, she looks beautiful. Buckthorn asks for her number.

Buckthorn calls her up 2 days after to not seem desperate knowing that her mother talked about him. They have a short and nervous chat and decide to get a coffee the next day.

Buckthorn goes to the coffee shop and spots his date fidgeting around with her hands at a booth. "She looks even more beautiful than the pictures, but not very confident" he thinks to himself while walking up to her. He sits down and introduces himself. They talk casually for a little while. And then she drops the absolute bomb on our beloved Buckthorn.
"This has been such a great date so far, I rarely connect with people like I do with you! I usually feel so insecure talking with people I don't already know. But with you it's so great, because I'm able to be myself!" she says and giggles.
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"Oh my god that's so clingy and desperate!" Buckthorn thinks to himself. He stands up doesn't say a word and walks out.
Hahaha.. the summer of 2003, the year you were born.
 
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