picking up women - what have we got to lose?

[Captain Obvious]

Honestly, what do you think would really happened if you started hitting on all the girls you like? Maybe they would reject you, ok.

But here's a thought: we are already rejecting ourselves for them, we're not making the females do any work! Now is that really fair to ourselves? Wouldn't it be more appropriate to make them reject us? That way they are forced to confront their on superficiality and burden some of the guilt of rejectig another human being.

I'm not saying I have the balls to do this.... yet. But it is entirely logical. Many men of all types of flaws and disabilities, after hitting rock bottom, have come to the same conclusion.

Don't just assume they'll reject you. MAKE them reject you.

Or maybe they wont reject you, there's a thought!

What have we got to lose?

 

[seb]

Honestly, what do you think would really happened if you started hitting on all the girls you like? Maybe they would reject you, ok.

But here's a thought: we are already rejecting ourselves for them, we're not making the females do any work! Now is that really fair to ourselves? Wouldn't it be more appropriate to make them reject us? That way they are forced to confront their on superficiality and burden some of the guilt of rejectig another human being.

I'm not saying I have the balls to do this.... yet. But it is entirely logical. Many men of all types of flaws and disabilities, after hitting rock bottom, have come to the same conclusion.

Don't just assume they'll reject you. MAKE them reject you.

Or maybe they wont reject you, tI couldhere's a thought!
couldnt pick u
What have we got to lose?

I couldnt pick up a newspaper,Im finished.

 

[LooseItAll]

Rejection hurts. I am so antisocial that I couldn't even arrange a date or anything so for me there is no point in hitting girls. But if I was a social guy with lots of friends that knows many places he can take a girl to and feels comfortable there I wouldn't think twice

Girls instantly reject social hermits. It is one of the most major flaws a man can have.

 

[seb]

Rejection hurts. I am so antisocial that I couldn't even arrange a date or anything so for me there is no point in hitting girls. But if I was a social guy with lots of friends that knows many places he can take a girl to and feels comfortable there I wouldn't think twice

Girls instantly reject social hermits. It is one of the most major flaws a man can have.

I am a social hermit,and the women I have pulled have known this,it adds a mysterious vibe too ones persona.
"so for me there is no point in hitting girls"....there is always a point in hitting girls(preferably with a baseball bat),especially when they havent made my dinner.

 

[TravisB]

"so for me there is no point in hitting girls"....there is always a point in hitting girls(preferably with a baseball bat),especially when they havent made my dinner.

I gotta say I actually laughed :mrgreen:

 

[2020]

you are all pathetic/insecure losers... that's why women aren't attracted to you

 

[seb]

you are all pathetic/insecure losers... that's why women aren't attracted to you

Written with such conviction from one with such experience and foresight,that thus, should be taken as gospel.

 

[seb]

Well you just gave the idiot what he craves

Well I like too fuel the fire,lets see if he can beat the master of wit. unk:

 

[2020]

Well you just gave the idiot what he craves

not an idiot... I just explained why all of you are struggling in the society. Insecurity is a very ugly trait. I'M HELPING YOU PEOPLE

 

[seb]

you are all pathetic/insecure losers... that's why women aren't attracted to you

Thanks for helping us,poor lonely souls that we are....obviously the aforementioned comment dosent apply/affect you,going by your obseesion with vin diesel.

 

[2020]

you are all pathetic/insecure losers... that's why women aren't attracted to you

Thanks for helping us,poor lonely souls that we are....obviously the aforementioned comment dosent apply/affect you,going by your obseesion with vin diesel.

what are you talking about..... all you baldies are insecure for some reason. f***'s sake, this forum has 41K posts. WHY??? Treat the condition and then just live your life...

 

[Captain Obvious]

Unfortunately I don't think many people do or can adopt this logic, the ones that have it, do so inheritantly and likely end up all of the above. there are also ususally ignorant tosser, salesman types!

Yeah I failed miserably as a salesman, too. I did realize, however, that despite my crippling insecurities and lack of experience, people always reacted in a somewhat guarded manner and had a difficult time dealing with me. In other words, I made them feel insecure as well. I guess they thought there was an off chance I might actually sell them something.

I think it's probably the same with females, even the more jaded ones who get approached a lot still probably don't always know how to react when a man comes on strong. I bet a good percentage of them will buckle under pressure and give up their phone number or whatever because they don't have the guts to turn you down flat just like lots of people don't have the guts to turn down a salesman point blank.

 

[theangryone]

Honestly, what do you think would really happened if you started hitting on all the girls you like? Maybe they would reject you, ok.

But here's a thought: we are already rejecting ourselves for them, we're not making the females do any work! Now is that really fair to ourselves? Wouldn't it be more appropriate to make them reject us? That way they are forced to confront their on superficiality and burden some of the guilt of rejectig another human being.

I'm not saying I have the balls to do this.... yet. But it is entirely logical. Many men of all types of flaws and disabilities, after hitting rock bottom, have come to the same conclusion.

Don't just assume they'll reject you. MAKE them reject you.

For years this is what I HAVE done. I've approached hundreds upon hundreds of women over the years. Every last one of them has rejected me, even the fatties, even the ugly ones.

Over time, rejections take a serious toll on you when you are having no success in between. Constant rejection takes a toll on your confidence, especially when a lot of those rejections some from women on your level or lower.

For me, my lack of confidence is not why I can't get women. I used to have tons of confidence until women started rejecting me every single time.

 

[TravisB]

For years this is what I HAVE done. I've approached hundreds upon hundreds of women over the years. Every last one of them has rejected me, even the fatties, even the ugly ones.

Hmm, so are you sure hairloss is your ONLY aesthetic problem?

 

[theangryone]

For years this is what I HAVE done. I've approached hundreds upon hundreds of women over the years. Every last one of them has rejected me, even the fatties, even the ugly ones.

Hmm, so are you sure hairloss is your ONLY aesthetic problem?

It's not my only aesthetic problem. My nose is big and I generally don't have a handsome face and have aged badly, but back when I was young and had hair, I was average. Even back then I struggled and often had to settle for women who were very fat, ugly, etc. But now I get nothing at all.

 

[Captain Obvious]

For years this is what I HAVE done. I've approached hundreds upon hundreds of women over the years. Every last one of them has rejected me, even the fatties, even the ugly ones.

Over time, rejections take a serious toll on you when you are having no success in between. Constant rejection takes a toll on your confidence, especially when a lot of those rejections some from women on your level or lower.

For me, my lack of confidence is not why I can't get women. I used to have tons of confidence until women started rejecting me every single time.

That sucks, but I respect that.

What do they say about your hairloss specifically?

 

[theangryone]

For years this is what I HAVE done. I've approached hundreds upon hundreds of women over the years. Every last one of them has rejected me, even the fatties, even the ugly ones.

Over time, rejections take a serious toll on you when you are having no success in between. Constant rejection takes a toll on your confidence, especially when a lot of those rejections some from women on your level or lower.

For me, my lack of confidence is not why I can't get women. I used to have tons of confidence until women started rejecting me every single time.

That sucks, but I respect that.

What do they say about your hairloss specifically?

Well every once in a while a woman I approach will make an insult related to my baldness. One woman I approached at a club said "f*** off baldie". An obese woman I approached a couple months ago harshly said "go get some raygaine" (note: thats actually how she pronounced it).

Most of the time they don't comment directly on my hairloss though. They just reject me with some cop out excuse (too busy, not looking for a boyfriend, you're not my type, etc.).

Sometimes a woman, who's in my age range, will reject me saying she prefers to date men her own age (or something else implying I am too old for her because she thinks I am much older than I actually am). Not too long ago I approached a girl who rejected me saying she likes to stick to guys her own age. I asked her how old she was and she said she was 27. I told her I was 28 and she had a repulsed look on her face and said "well then I guess you're not my type then" and walked away from me.

I'm certain these comments are related to my hair loss because it's one of the reasons I look much older than my actual age.

 

[Jacob]

you are all pathetic/insecure losers... that's why women aren't attracted to you

Thanks for helping us,poor lonely souls that we are....obviously the aforementioned comment dosent apply/affect you,going by your obseesion with vin diesel.

what are you talking about..... all you baldies are insecure for some reason. f*ck's sake, this forum has 41K posts. WHY??? Treat the condition and then just live your life...

This must be one of those examples of you falling off your high horse. Which of course is impossible..because you're above it all! :shakehead:

 

[2020]

For years this is what I HAVE done. I've approached hundreds upon hundreds of women over the years. Every last one of them has rejected me, even the fatties, even the ugly ones.

Over time, rejections take a serious toll on you when you are having no success in between. Constant rejection takes a toll on your confidence, especially when a lot of those rejections some from women on your level or lower.

For me, my lack of confidence is not why I can't get women. I used to have tons of confidence until women started rejecting me every single time.

That sucks, but I respect that.

What do they say about your hairloss specifically?

Well every once in a while a woman I approach will make an insult related to my baldness. One woman I approached at a club said "f*ck off baldie". An obese woman I approached a couple months ago harshly said "go get some raygaine" (note: thats actually how she pronounced it).

Most of the time they don't comment directly on my hairloss though. They just reject me with some cop out excuse (too busy, not looking for a boyfriend, you're not my type, etc.).

Sometimes a woman, who's in my age range, will reject me saying she prefers to date men her own age (or something else implying I am too old for her because she thinks I am much older than I actually am). Not too long ago I approached a girl who rejected me saying she likes to stick to guys her own age. I asked her how old she was and she said she was 27. I told her I was 28 and she had a repulsed look on her face and said "well then I guess you're not my type then" and walked away from me.

I'm certain these comments are related to my hair loss because it's one of the reasons I look much older than my actual age.

post a picture of yourself. We'll make you feel better....

 

[slipy]

you are all pathetic/insecure losers... that's why women aren't attracted to you

Thanks for helping us,poor lonely souls that we are....obviously the aforementioned comment dosent apply/affect you,going by your obseesion with vin diesel.

what are you talking about..... all you baldies are insecure for some reason. f*ck's sake, this forum has 41K posts. WHY??? Treat the condition and then just live your life...

why don't you take your own advice? surely a super masculine confident vin diesel loving hunk such as yourself has no reason to be here.