picking up women - what have we got to lose?

[s.a.f]

'Picking up women - what have we got to lose'?

In the case of many on here - virginity.

Yeah it's easy to say as someone who has hairloss as his ONLY flaw. Try being a total freak even without hairloss and scoring...

Oh yeah what exactly about you makes you such a freak because judging by the avatar pic you just look like a normal dude.
I know you've got the missing thumb but thats hardly elephant man territory.

According to most on here being 5'9" I should be limited to the dregs because I'm not the ideal height.

 

[ghg]

[quote="s.a.f":31rxua3w]'Picking up women - what have we got to lose'?

In the case of many on here - virginity.

Yeah it's easy to say as someone who has hairloss as his ONLY flaw. Try being a total freak even without hairloss and scoring...

Oh yeah what exactly about you makes you such a freak because judging by the avatar pic you just look like a normal dude.
I know you've got the missing thumb but thats hardly elephant man territory.

According to most on here being 5'9" I should be limited to the dregs because I'm not the ideal height.[/quote:31rxua3w]

Having a speech impediment does set its limitations too along with horrible dandruff and seborrhea on face and thin scalp. It's like christmas all the time with the flaking. And yeah, I'm missing a "thumb" but in honesty I have my index finger as my make-shift thumb and the hand looks pretty f*****g gross for someone who hasn't seen it before.

 

[CaptainForehead]

the hand looks pretty f****ing gross for someone who hasn't seen it before.

Have you been told this?

 

[ghg]

the hand looks pretty f****ing gross for someone who hasn't seen it before.

Have you been told this?

Only judging by the stares my hand gets when ppl notice it... I think it's a bit of a tabu to say something about a physical deformity like that.

 

[TravisB]

Could you post picture of your hand? I'm curious how it looks

 

[ghg]

Could you post picture of your hand? I'm curious how it looks

PM'ed.

 

[LooseItAll]

Yes she would, after a very short period of time. You think a woman is going to want spend her life with a man who is a miserable reclusive who never has any fun and therefore drags her down to his miserable level?

Once she's had 'robert pattison' for his looks she would try to turn him into an ideal B/F outgoing, and fun to be around if this did'nt work she would'nt hang about very long.
Why would she want to me sat indoors with a miserable guy just because he looked good? Whats the point if she's not enjoying herself.

Being boring, shallow, refusing to go on outdoor activies or being super weird in social situations is another thing.[/quote]


That's me. But it's not about not wanting, it's about being afraid of trying because I know I would end up as the major weirdo. I guess if you are over 25 there is little you can do to change yourself

 

[seb]

In some ways I have been nudged into being a hermit,as I seem too attract people I have I nothing in common with.The people who I offer the hand of friendship to,reject it....I suppose they are ashamed too be associated with me.

 

[LooseItAll]

In some ways I have been nudged into being a hermit,as I seem too attract people I have I nothing in common with.The people who I offer the hand of friendship to,reject it....I suppose they are ashamed too be associated with me.

I think there is always a reason why things are the way they are. I was always the different one so it didn't help at all to socialize. Once you pass a certain age the difference in life experience between normal people and weirdos increase making it impossible to catch up.

I don't understand them, I ahve nothing to say among them and they don't understand me as I am still that little shy kid in his early teens in my head with no life expreience(I have a pretty good job in IT, but I don't count it as life experience, it's actually comparable to attending school).

But as for you I think you are normal. At least you have a bit of confidence nad life experience making it easier in the girl department.

 

[seb]

Thanks,but define "normal".I was/am alot like you.I have always been a lone ranger,and now,at 34,will always be.There must be a reason why I largely attract retards......perhaps there is so many about,or/and the environment I frequent.

 

[ghg]

Thanks,but define "normal".I was/am alot like you.I have always been a lone ranger,and now,at 34,will always be.There must be a reason why I largely attract retards......perhaps there is so many about,or/and the environment I frequent.

I have friends but I f*****g hate them. They always shut me out of everything. Yesterday they were at other friends' place watching the Barca-Real el clasico and no one bothered to inform me so I watched it home alone. It's embarrassing to have to ask if I can come so I didn't ring anyone. Besides I knew nothing about this so I wasn't really even knowledged to ask. They always keep shutting me out from this kind of events and I think it speaks in volumes about their respect and appreciation towards me. I'm good enough when they need something from me, though, f*****g leeches. Usually their excuse is "I thought you were at work". Yeah I was at f*****g work earlier but does that somehow prevent me from sitting down watching a game and having a good time?

 

[seb]

Thanks,but define "normal".I was/am alot like you.I have always been a lone ranger,and now,at 34,will always be.There must be a reason why I largely attract retards......perhaps there is so many about,or/and the environment I frequent.

I have friends but I f****ing hate them. They always shut me out of everything. Yesterday they were at other friends' place watching the Barca-Real el clasico and no one bothered to inform me so I watched it home alone. It's embarrassing to have to ask if I can come so I didn't ring anyone. Besides I knew nothing about this so I wasn't really even knowledged to ask. They always keep shutting me out from this kind of events and I think it speaks in volumes about their respect and appreciation towards me. I'm good enough when they need something from me, though, f****ing leeches.

They are not real friends then,just people too pass the time away with.
I have spent years socialising people I have absolutely fu**all in common with,and also eventually ending up despising...dont make the same mistakes I have.

 

[LooseItAll]

Thanks,but define "normal".I was/am alot like you.I have always been a lone ranger,and now,at 34,will always be.There must be a reason why I largely attract retards......perhaps there is so many about,or/and the environment I frequent.

Well I guess it's the fact that baldness may very well be your only flaw and you're able to score one night stands and we all know that when it comes to them, women pick the most attractive males.

 

[seb]

Thanks,but define "normal".I was/am alot like you.I have always been a lone ranger,and now,at 34,will always be.There must be a reason why I largely attract retards......perhaps there is so many about,or/and the environment I frequent.

Well I guess it's the fact that baldness may very well be your only flaw and you're able to score one night stands and we all know that when it comes to them, women pick the most attractive males.

Thanks,but,not too be nasty,but what you are saying regarding one-night stands is completely wrong.
The majority of women who have one-night stands do so for a number of reasons.Most,too be blunt,just want to be fu**ed,thus picking up a 6ft+shaven headed bouncer type is more appealing than a good looking man,if for no other reason,than someone like me will "appear" too give them a good fu**,because I look rough.I cant speak for anybody else,but the women I have slept with,there is no touching(its too intimate for a one-night stand),as said,they just want a good lay.

 

[LooseItAll]

Thanks,but define "normal".I was/am alot like you.I have always been a lone ranger,and now,at 34,will always be.There must be a reason why I largely attract retards......perhaps there is so many about,or/and the environment I frequent.

Well I guess it's the fact that baldness may very well be your only flaw and you're able to score one night stands and we all know that when it comes to them, women pick the most attractive males.

Thanks,but,not too be nasty,but what you are saying regarding one-night stands is completely wrong.
The majority of women who have one-night stands do so for a number of reasons.Most,too be blunt,just want to be fu**ed,thus picking up a 6ft+shaven headed bouncer type is more appealing than a good looking man,if for no other reason,than someone like me will "appear" too give them a good fu**,because I look rough.I cant speak for anybody else,but the women I have slept with,there is no touching(its too intimate for a one-night stand),as said,they just want a good lay.

I think you're the one who got it wrong. You may not be a pretty boy, but who on earth said that they are the only type women find attractive?

They want to be fucked by a strong masculine man because they find such features attractive. Not because they think you are disgusting but will give them a good f***.

 

[seb]

Nah,I am the opposite of what they usually go for.Most of them were in relationships,with males that were the total contrast of me.
Also,what the hell does a woman find attractive in a fair-skinned,bald man who most people are scared of...beats me.

 

[LooseItAll]

Nah,I am the opposite of what they usually go for.Most of them were in relationships,with males that were the total contrast of me.
Also,what the hell does a woman find attractive in a fair-skinned,bald man who most people are scared of...beats me.

alpha male, something their partners were not

 

[ghg]

They are not real friends then,just people too pass the time away with.
I have spent years socialising people I have absolutely fu**all in common with,and also eventually ending up despising...dont make the same mistakes I have.

Actually it's my bro who I despise the most (we basically have the same friends). I always inform him when something's going on, but he never informs me. He's a f*****g cockroach, he uses me for my car, loans money, etc but never gives a f*****g thing back in any form. He's also a very unlikeable person but I don't know if it's allowed to say that you hate your own brother?! Well I guess I said it!

 

[LooseItAll]

They are not real friends then,just people too pass the time away with.
I have spent years socialising people I have absolutely fu**all in common with,and also eventually ending up despising...dont make the same mistakes I have.

Actually it's my bro who I despise the most (we basically have the same friends). I always inform him when something's going on, but he never informs me. He's a f****ing cockroach, he uses me for my car, loans money, etc but never gives a f****ing thing back in any form. He's also a very unlikeable person but I don't know if it's allowed to say that you hate your own brother?! Well I guess I said it!

Then stop helping him out the way you're doing it now.

I hate my brother too but for different reasons.

 

[ghg]

Then stop helping him out the way you're doing it now.

I hate my brother too but for different reasons.

Yeah from now on I won't have anything to do with him unless he contacts me. I've done doing sh*t for that leech.

I can't understand how people hate their brother. My brother pisses me off alot but I love him dearly. I'd be lost if anything were to happen to him. He's my only little brother :dunno:

Hate is maybe too strong a word. I dislike the way he behaves, I dislike him for the way he treats himself (lazy, obese, unclean, thin hair grown long, bad clothing, doesn't take responsibility, etc.). But yeah, maybe I don't literally hate him, I just dislike him for his actions.