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Rudiger said:
Well not to be homophobic as not ALL gay guys are like this, just about maybe 98.5%.
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Again... Because that's the common stereotype portrayed in media.
Also, these types of gay men are also the most vocal and visible on social media.

You'd be surprised how many "straight" looking men walking around out there are really gay.
I believe these guys are the majority. The so called "normal" looking gay man.

I reckon you could put 100 "real men" in a room together and 10 out of these men would be gay or have tendencies.
 
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A girl I know who actually kinda hates the gays, started befriending one she knows at work, and at first I thought he was actually pretty cool, not the typical type, and this lasted for a few months, I only really saw them/him at parties and stuff.

Then me and her both started realising, he actually does say some douchey snidey things, like real cutting, not even funny, but with him being in the Homofilter, we kinda forgave it, without even realising it.

Basically he was a decent guy over all but if he was straight his bad moments would definitely outweigh the good, no point having someone around who is fine 90% of the time but you have to watch out for when he feels like being an absolute dick for no reason.

Also while I'm on this rant, another thing about the gays (yes I'll continue calling them that in this context) they are hellbent on prying into other people's secrets, or discovering the secret inner workings of what's happening. They often discuss pasts, childhood, high school, whether you were bullied, had mother issues, etc. etc. real pseudopsychology. The reason? They had a secret for their adolescence that they held in for at least a few years, maybe several, and that makes them want to believe everyone has these secretly dark thoughts and feelings.

I suppose it's not their fault if society and school kids stopped them from coming out, but a lot of them don't deal with this well as adults in moving on from it.

The gays. Ey?
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You and your female friend are acting as if by be-friending him, you guys actually did this 'subhuman' a favor.

A lot of gay men have depressed pasts. and for you to dismiss it as 'pseudo-psychology' is so insensitive. Just because you were straight and were never bullied in school, that does not mean every one's life is so privileged.

Look at me. I am balding just like you guys. And I am on this forum because it makes me feel less alone and for me to remain on this forum, I need to tolerate homophobia so that I can still have a place to go to for my hair loss worries.

In one of the threads before, I saw a lot of people pretty upset about bald shaming and another straight woman on this forum upset about vagina jokes. Funny how that works. You guys are pretty sensitive about your own stuff but do not give a flying crap about others.
 
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karankaran said:
You and your female friend are acting as if by be-friending him, you guys actually did this 'subhuman' a favor.
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Thats a huge leap in logic, how did you come to that? She naturally got on well with him, there would be no reason to be charitable, she simply wouldn't hang out with him if she thought he was subhuman. I knew her and got on fine with him for the most part, I didn't know him that well but I'd talk to him/them if I saw them for sure, same way as I talk to anyone, I didn't consciously think "oh better clock up gay time, get this sh*t over with..."

I don't know how from a few sentences you painted such a presumptuous picture and it really makes me want to discard any other points you make, to be honest, but I'll at least respect this one post anyway.

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A lot of gay men have depressed pasts. and for you to dismiss it as 'pseudo-psychology' is so insensitive. Just because you were straight and were never bullied in school, that does not mean every one's life is so privileged.

Look at me. I am balding just like you guys. And I am on this forum because it makes me feel less alone and for me to remain on this forum, I need to tolerate homophobia so that I can still have a place to go to for my hair loss worries.

In one of the threads before, I saw a lot of people pretty upset about bald shaming and another straight woman on this forum upset about vagina jokes. Funny how that works. You guys are pretty sensitive about your own stuff but do not give a flying crap about others.
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Congratulations on lasting a whole 30 seconds before wheeling out the P word. I guess everything I say is outrightly undermined now because of my status, that's really what people mean when they talk about "privilege".

I'm not dismissing bullying or psychological issues as "pseudopsychological" because that doesn't make any sense. What's pseudopsychological is their dissection of other people's issues, because they were treated badly they want to see what other people's issues were.

I wasn't upset about the bald shaming, and only annoyed by the ageism jokes once it became insistent and crossed the line into bullying. I won't follow you around being homophobic, if you don't like the odd post of my generalisations then sorry, but it's not going away, I don't see why you may feel the need to jump on them and just upset yourself.

These have been my genuine experiences of a considerable amount of the gay men I have met, blame them, not me. I don't have any reason to want to dislike someone because of their sexuality.

If you want I can keep dressing it up as non-generalisations and consistently get all politically correct and constantly write "in my experience of.." "in my opinion, these particular gay people.." but why be so patronising, you know what I'm saying.

Am I saying every gay person is like this? Well no, but in my experience damn has there been quite a lot of coincidences.
 
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Rudiger said:
Oh f***, for a second I thought you meant put 100 gay guys in a room.

The horror...

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would it be horror if it was 100 lesbians?

and @karankaran we aren't being discriminatory we're just being honest. i have like 5 LGBT friends and was called and asked if i was gay my whole life (i'm not your typical man). i would never discriminate based on sexuality.
 
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Exodus2011 said:
Lol this is true for the gays i know too. A lot are also just nerdy incels using supposed gayness to hang out with hot girls. Also ofc the drama queen types you mentioned who do it for attention
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it is funny i was in a nail salon other day (same day I wanted to stab a woman even older than me with the thickest most beuaitufl hair God ever bestowed on anyone)

But I noticed these two young woman (could not tell if teen or early 20) come in...one was dressed down normal looking, the other was dressed up slightly chuncky/curvy and her face was ALL makeup and kind of like 'blah' BUT she gave off a 'hot' aura--basically the kind of girl you guys talk and complain aobut if take away makeup, take away clothes not hot at all and drops down a few points in looks...well they came in like 'hot sh*t' and the guy came in with them early 20s..and he looked pathetic he was trailing behind them like a servant...he was dressed nice, stylish, he was like a 5-6 hard to tell from my perspective because he was so young...ALSO he looked physically dejected.
the women were ignoring him and all about themselves..I swear--it felt like 'is he a servant wtf?"
then they sat down together to get nails done side by side...the guy shuffled over head down--he sat on this sad bench that was next to the 'wannabe snooty not so hot girl" like her lap dog...and his whole posture was kind of pathetic...and one of the nail technicians offered for him to come sit in a full back seat a few feet away and he shook head...and i felt like 'what is she going to get mad if he is not within barking distance?"

Anyway I dont notice these kinds of couples often but it really was like 'OHHH this is hat the guys are talking about"...

I only mention it because part of me was at first confused "is this her BF or her gay friend tagging along" and i realized he had to be a BF because a gay friend I do not think would be ignored..I swear they did not talk or look at him once it was so odd.
I physically felt uncomfortable for him.
sorry if this is sloppy I am at work.
Exodus2011 said:
would it be horror if it was 100 lesbians?

and @karankaran we aren't being discriminatory we're just being honest. i have like 5 LGBT friends and was called and asked if i was gay my whole life (i'm not your typical man). i would never discriminate based on sexuality.
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hairblues said:
it is funny i was in a nail salon other day (same day I wanted to stab a woman even older than me with the thickest most beuaitufl hair God ever bestowed on anyone)

But I noticed these two young woman (could not tell if teen or early 20) come in...one was dressed down normal looking, the other was dressed up slightly chuncky/curvy and her face was ALL makeup and kind of like 'blah' BUT she gave off a 'hot' aura--basically the kind of girl you guys talk and complain aobut if take away makeup, take away clothes not hot at all and drops down a few points in looks...well they came in like 'hot sh*t' and the guy came in with them early 20s..and he looked pathetic he was trailing behind them like a servant...he was dressed nice, stylish, he was like a 5-6 hard to tell from my perspective because he was so young...ALSO he looked physically dejected.
the women were ignoring him and all about themselves..I swear--it felt like 'is he a servant wtf?"
then they sat down together to get nails done side by side...the guy shuffled over head down--he sat on this sad bench that was next to the 'wannabe snooty not so hot girl" like her lap dog...and his whole posture was kind of pathetic...and one of the nail technicians offered for him to come sit in a full back seat a few feet away and he shook head...and i felt like 'what is she going to get mad if he is not within barking distance?"

Anyway I dont notice these kinds of couples often but it really was like 'OHHH this is hat the guys are talking about"...

I only mention it because part of me was at first confused "is this her BF or her gay friend tagging along" and i realized he had to be a BF because a gay friend I do not think would be ignored..I swear they did not talk or look at him once it was so odd.
I physically felt uncomfortable for him.
sorry if this is sloppy I am at work.
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What the hell are you talking about?
 
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