Prime women about young bald guys

[CopeForLife]

Typically the guys that say that baldness isnt an issue are guys that HAVE HAIR! LOL.

But how the hell do you drill it into their thick skulls that what theyre saying is complete fucking bullshit?

Not really, there are a lot of baldies in denial, look at slybaldguys, thousands of copers.

 

[hellouser]

Not really, there are a lot of baldies in denial, look at slybaldguys, thousands of copers.

Ok, well then include them in the mix too.

 

[CopeForLife]

Like my friend's bald colleague who mocked me for having several girlfriends at the same time.

"I could never do that, I have too much respect for women." These coping strategies are laughable.

As I always tell people, describe your experiences, how many women have you had sex with? That's all I'm interested in.

Yet they always go into "abstract mode" and tell me how one time, this woman smiled at him or rubbed his head. "Man, where do I sign up to take your place?!"

I'm interested in results, not stories about how they have a friend of a friend who is bald and is crushing mad pussy. It's BS in my opinion.

You can tell when someone tells authentic stories, at least I can. If you're bald, average-looking and of average height in your 20's, it's over, there's no way around it.

Forget women, you have to find something else to do with your time. Reading the thread posted by OP would be a good start so you don't start having false hope again.

That is why I posted to be honest. I was in two clubs a while go and was the only balding (NW3), other guys were with NW0-1.

Just LOL at "abstract mode". :laugh:

Balding itself is not the worst thing (if you have a proper skull) but if you are lacking at least in one more field like height/frame/face/voice you are ****ed 100%.

 

[hellouser]

That is why I posted to be honest. I was in two clubs a while go and was the only balding (NW3), other guys were with NW0-1.

Just LOL at "abstract mode". :laugh:

Balding itself is not the worst thing (if you have a proper skull) but if you are lacking at least in one more field like height/frame/face/voice you are ****ed 100%.

I had that experience a few years ago in Toronto. Went out with two guy friends, one is a NW0 borderline model the other is a 6'4" beast albeit balding too (but keeps it shaved and looks like jason statham). I remember we ran into some girls outside that were next to us at a club an hour prior and one of them said 'you two guys' completely ignoring the fact that I even existed. I responded 'Uh, there's three of us here.' But hey, me being non-existent to them CLEARLY had everything to do with confidence.... RIGHT, RIGHT?!

But that's also Toronto for ya, every balding guy's worst nightmare, the women here are terrible.

 

[CopeForLife]

I had that experience a few years ago in Toronto. Went out with two guy friends, one is a NW0 borderline model the other is a 6'4" beast albeit balding too (but keeps it shaved and looks like jason statham). I remember we ran into some girls outside that were next to us at a club an hour prior and one of them said 'you two guys' completely ignoring the fact that I even existed. I responded 'Uh, there's three of us here.' But hey, me being non-existent to them CLEARLY had everything to do with confidence.... RIGHT, RIGHT?!

But that's also Toronto for ya, every balding guy's worst nightmare, the women here are terrible.

What is your height? It is probably hurt to reflect about the moments like this.

I was in a club a few weeks ago (almost first time) with a some friend of mine he is around 30 (and blonde NW0), me is 24 (NW3 from 18). We went outside to smoke and on the way back some girl (7/10) just pulled him by the hand from me while we talked and started to talk with him (with this slutty glance and smile) JUST LOL. I just kept going inside. He is married and very nice guy though. Probably should ask him how to improve my confidence.

 

[hellouser]

What is your height? It is probably hurt to reflect about the moments like this.

I was in a club a few weeks ago (almost first time) with a some friend of mine he is around 30 (and blonde NW0), me is 24 (NW3 from 18). We went outside to smoke and on the way back some girl (7/10) just pulled him by the hand from me while we talked and started to talk with him (with this slutty glance and smile) JUST LOL. I just kept going inside. He is married and very nice guy though. Probably should ask him how to improve my confidence.

I'm about 5'10'' - 5'11'', basically the same height as the fullhead i was with or an inch shorter, but not much. 5'10'' certainly aint short though, its pretty average.

 

[Roberto_72]

It is very hard to admit women can dislike us without taking a second look.

Most of us have been grown by a female who loved us no matter what. Even in the cases when this love was not properly expressed with words or deeds, most men felt, as little kids, that we were at the center of the attentions of a woman.

When you grow up and see that, based on the way you look, women are capable of ignoring you, or ridiculing you, or even despising you, you feel you're suffering a terrible betrayal.

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But that's also Toronto for ya, every balding guy's worst nightmare, the women here are terrible.

So the US TV show trope that Canadians are more caring and kinder than "Americans" is - actually - a trope?

 

[Afro_Vacancy]

It is very hard to admit women can dislike us without taking a second look.

Most of us have been grown by a female who loved us no matter what. Even in the cases when this love was not properly expressed with words or deeds, most men felt, as little kids, that we were at the center of the attentions of a woman.

When you grow up and see that, based on the way you look, women are capable of ignoring you, or ridiculing you, or even despising you, you feel you're suffering a terrible betrayal.

I'm well over that betrayal.

But it needs to be understood by more people that how people evaluate you is typically a ~1 second affair. They look at you and pass judgment, maybe they do so subconsciously and they don't even realize it, and they might even deny it.

I first heard of this when I was 12 and was in denial for some time.

IMO it;s not just about our mothers lol. It's also Hollywood and how it presents women largely as being angels, who only look for a man who is nice, whatever that means.

 

[FWIW]

So guys, why dont you try to wear a good hairpiece when going out not in hometown and see what the difference will be? If its just the hair or you are ugly and miserable person anyway. Im not talking about permament wearing, just try it for going out or for some period to see if the attention and looks you get change.

I will definitely try it this summer. I want see if there will be any change or I am ****ed anyway.

This should be the best proof for non-believers (that hairloss matters)

 

[Norwood One]

"Laughter doesn't make me want to have sex with someone."


There we have it. Straight from the horse's mouth. Your youthful appearance and gorgeous locks are a testament to your beautiful genes. THAT is what she wants to bang, your genes. not the humor you picked up from books or whatever.

 

[shookwun]

to be fair though, women are more likely to feel comfortable, laugh and be engaged with someone they are attracted to.

Laughter is a great indicator for subtle interest, and is always a good thing. It's great laughing amongst each other, and helps create connection.


Who says making a chick laugh will get you laid? Nobody.

If you have weak social skills you will never bed a women. 100% sorry if you think otherwise. No chick is going to get naked unless you can converse, engage and entertain.



The more handsome you are the the more forgiving she will be, but it still wont get you laid unless you can cover both bases.

I was out this weekend with a very good looking guy, and to be fair, he was better looking then me, but it wasn't anything marginaly huge. I had a better build, and made the chicks laugh left right, and center. Dances, bounced my chest... and created good vibes. He sat across the table, and listened to me for the most part. His looks got him through the front doors, but his weak demeanor, and social skills made him sit, listen and watch. Women want to be with good looking guys, of course... but at the same time if you are not fun, and engaging especially in a bar scenario where socializing is key then you will go home to your hand. granted, the more drunk & intoxicated a women because the less likely it is to matter.

 

[FWIW]

to be fair though, women are more likely to feel comfortable, laugh and be engaged with someone they are attracted to.

Laughter is a great indicator for subtle interest, and is always a good thing. It's great laughing amongst each other, and helps create connection.


Who says making a chick laugh will get you laid? Nobody.

If you have weak social skills you will never bed a women. 100% sorry if you think otherwise. No chick is going to get naked unless you can converse, engage and entertain.



The more handsome you are the the more forgiving she will be, but it still wont get you laid unless you can cover both bases.

I was out this weekend with a very good looking guy, and to be fair, he was better looking then me, but it wasn't anything marginaly huge. I had a better build, and made the chicks laugh left right, and center. Dances, bounced my chest... and created good vibes. He sat across the table, and listened to me for the most part. His looks got him through the front doors, but his weak demeanor, and social skills made him sit, listen and watch. Women want to be with good looking guys, of course... but at the same time if you are not fun, and engaging especially in a bar scenario where socializing is key then you will go home to your hand. granted, the more drunk & intoxicated a women because the less likely it is to matter.

But we know you are THE slay king shook.unk: You heard new 007 agent to take reign after Daniel Craig is wanted?

 

[shookwun]

I'm honestly not man, I suffer from horrible self-esteem, and BDD. I might be a sociopath and narcissist because I can convey very strong sense of confidence, ambition and suave like movements, all though im burdened with many insecurities (wig being the latest).. Deep down though, hot women are my demise and make me succumb to strong feelings early on... I need rejection, it's the only way to desensitize yourself.


Im good at pretending i don't care, but I realy do. I bottle everything up... it's hard sometimes but I have learned to never spill your emotions, and feelings on a women.

I often get quickly worked up when I meet new women, an am readily wanting to see them as soon as I can. I oppress my true desires because I don't want to come off needy.

I need to take these training wheels off, forge a new enlightenment to embracing rejection, and adapting the attitude of not 'caring'

As my boy says... the difference between me and him is I care to much about chicks I barely know, and have the most to loose. Most these women don't care, neither should you.. until things get serious. He on other hand is a true player who exploits women for what they can do for him rather the other way around. He doesn't attach feelings, and doesn't care if she downs or isnt.


I took five months off from dating. Just got back on the pedal a few weeks ago...

 

[jd_uk]

"Laughter doesn't make me want to have sex with someone."


There we have it. Straight from the horse's mouth. Your youthful appearance and gorgeous locks are a testament to your beautiful genes. THAT is what she wants to bang, your genes. not the humor you picked up from books or whatever.

Quite a few responses disagree with that comment. These are 16-21 year old girls replying you have to realise. They barely f'n know what they like until it's in front of them. The only comments anyone here will look at are the negative ones such is the nature of this forum.

 

[Cue Bald]

the thing is, a NW1 and a NW6 could say the exact same thing; the girl will find the NW1's comments to be cute and funny, the NW6 would just be "meh". I have seen it myself, the most handsome guy at the table was also the funniest when all the girls were there; even if in reality he was lame. The wittier but plain guys aren't paid attention to.

Look at all of these stupid youtube videos of idiot NW1's making their voices higher "Fred etc" - they have millions of young girls as followers.

 

[hellouser]

the thing is, a NW1 and a NW6 could say the exact same thing; the girl will find the NW1's comments to be cute and funny, the NW6 would just be "meh". I have seen it myself, the most handsome guy at the table was also the funniest when all the girls were there; even if in reality he was lame. The wittier but plain guys aren't paid attention to.

Look at all of these stupid youtube videos of idiot NW1's making their voices higher "Fred etc" - they have millions of young girls as followers.

Women let stupidity slide real easy if the guy is hot. But men do it too with bimbos.

 

[shookwun]

true, but that attention will not gravitate your way unless you engage and put yourself out there.

Hands down the handsome guy will sweep the room if he is remotely interesting, and can hold a conversation.


but like anything the more intoxicated a women is the less she cares. Ive had situations where I was talking intellectually, and up right carying a conversation, and create good vibes... the chick told me 'you talk to much, let's make out' I lold... OK


At the end of the day it does all root back to your physical attractiveness. Better looking you are, less effort and more forgiving a women will be. Iv'e seen, and experienced this first hand.

Hot chicks are a lot of ****ing effort, it can be sometimes depressing. Can have amazing nights together, and then the next week it feels like pulling teeth to get together. Despite her liking you, it seems like somethings always on the go, and she's busy. it can boggle your mind..... that's life of a pretty women. Sometimes it's better to have a chick who isn't as attractive but actually cares.

 

[hellouser]

Hot chicks are a lot of ****ing effort, it can be sometimes depressing. Can have amazing nights together, and then the next week it feels like pulling teeth to get together. Despite her liking you, it seems like somethings always on the go, and she's busy. it can boggle your mind..... that's life of a pretty women. Sometimes it's better to have a chick who isn't as attractive but actually cares.

Because they've got plenty of other offers. You think they're going to settle for a balding guy? Ha!

 

[Baldie_86]

I'm completely bald.
I have no problem in pulling girls.
My favourite target is the age 20-25.

My advice: don't listen to what a women, of any age, says.

 

[shookwun]

well to be fair, I got together with a chick last weekend. We slept together, had great sex all night, and even in the morning. She texts, I call.. we keep in contact. Had a second date, went again amazing.. and she definitely wanted to see me again.



Well her actions speak louder then words. Always busy, my mind is full of mixed feelings. Frequentely parties.... again a very hot chick.


sometimes it's better settle for less. Tells me i'm good looking, and wanting to see me again.


Right, she's to busy 'online' on her POF account responding to hundreds of guys, getting drunk on the weekend... again 'busy'


Most don't care. It's hard to accept as a man, but it takes a **** load of effort to get them to pull through. to the point where you want to throw in a white towel, and settle for less. As a man this can be hard to accept, but most women don't give a ****..