Psa: Don't Settle With Mentally Ill/asian Women

[Dante92]

Well it seems the love is not reciprocated as of lately

Touchè

 

[blackg]

it is not a cartoon is a painting quite famous lol

made after a second world war

Well, you can shove it up your ***!

 

[buckthorn]

or.. you can marry an Asian woman and simply not have kids, or adopt children. that's an option as well.

I am sorry you've had such a rough life so far Exodus. You're a kind hearted person. I would MUCH MUCH rather have a world filled with ugly kind people, than one filled with stupid, mean good looking people.

 

[buckthorn]

Well, you can shove it up your ***!

hahahaha!!!! Blackg, I've watched an evolution of you on this forum. Watching your anger come out at the appropriate moments makes me smile.

 

[hairblues]

I only saw the painting i did not see what CFL actually wrote.

Im curious if people are mad at the image or what he wrote with image.

 

[CaptainForehead]

just lawl at the possible alternate world where i'm not f*****g in poverty, scrawny and bald (well adjusted mom more likely to be red pill and help prevent it from happening, and not mentally ill.

The thing is, if your dad had not gotten with your mom, you would not exist. That sperm and that egg had to meet for you to exist.

Height and baldness are out of your hands. You can do something about the poverty though. Do a Dante, bury yourself in your career.

 

[Exodus2011]

The thing is, if your dad had not gotten with your mom, you would not exist. That sperm and that egg had to meet for you to exist.

Height and baldness are out of your hands. You can do something about the poverty though. Do a Dante, bury yourself in your career.

thats whats so depressing though. my moms style of raising + passed on mental illness makes it feel basically impossible to succeed. i'm thinking of getting on disability or something because its been years that social anxiety has prevented me from doing anything

as long as a doctor confirms it then i could get it

 

[CaptainForehead]

thats whats so depressing though. my moms style of raising + passed on mental illness makes it feel basically impossible to succeed. i'm thinking of getting on disability or something because its been years that social anxiety has prevented me from doing anything

as long as a doctor confirms it then i could get it

Social anxiety can be managed. Especially now that you know the privileged lives people have because of their genes, it should be easier to ignore what they think, and in the process manage anxiety. That's what I do.

Life won't be easy for you, but you CAN change professionally. Acquire skills. It will take time, years, but you are young. Plan for your 30s. Once you start making decent income, your life will get better.

Also, oftentimes it's easy to conflate mental illness and garden variety laziness. I did it in my 20s. Don't let the mental issues stop you. Don't be like me and waste your 20s.

Zircon changed his life. Fred was emotionally abused by his father. Dante is depressed but doing well professionally, and learning other skills.

 

[hairblues]

thats whats so depressing though. my moms style of raising + passed on mental illness makes it feel basically impossible to succeed. i'm thinking of getting on disability or something because its been years that social anxiety has prevented me from doing anything

as long as a doctor confirms it then i could get it

You definitely have to break away from her if that is how you feel/think.

Even if you get a basement apartment or a small studio with a hot plate--for now you need to break away from her.

Nothing can make you feel crazier then living with someone you have bad relations with no matter who it is.

A lot of your problems may improve if you move.

 

[Exodus2011]

Social anxiety can be managed. Especially now that you know the privileged lives people have because of their genes, it should be easier to ignore what they think, and in the process manage anxiety. That's what I do.

Life won't be easy for you, but you CAN change professionally. Acquire skills. It will take time, years, but you are young. Plan for your 30s. Once you start making decent income, your life will get better.

Also, oftentimes it's easy to conflate mental illness and garden variety laziness. I did it in my 20s. Don't let the mental issues stop you. Don't be like me and waste your 20s.

Zircon changed his life. Fred was emotionally abused by his father. Dante is depressed but doing well professionally, and learning other skills.

well zircon reminds me of what i would have been without hair loss. (likely) mental issues that kept him from becoming independent, but no tangible issue so eventually he "got over it". maybe it was just the standard full maturation of the brain that happens mid 20s.

i wouldn't say i'm lazy though, i'm now helping my mom with her slave-like jobs about 15 hours a week, plus school and i have no issue with it, i just hate being there doing the job with her. being reminded of the consequences of her shitty life choices. that wud definitely be me if i was irresponsible and had a family on a poverty income and was cheated on for baldness

at the very least i can say i contain the effects of my life choices, mental issues, whatever you wanna call it to just myself. thats what i hate most, pushing it onto someone else.

its getting really annoying you calling me lazy though. its probably just because its easier thinking that someone's situation is their choice rather than out of their control.

i think we are just far different people at the end of the day. the years i spent in my late teens and early 20s just playing video games and watching shows and such i definitely do not feel like were a waste of time. I'd say those are my favorite times. why in the hell would i prefer busting my *** just to survive over having fun? lol. i only want to work enough to get what i want

the meaning of life is not working for me. I don't get why it would be. i think people just feel too guilty to admit that it isn't. they don't want to admit they hate work and would prefer just doing what they want.

 

[Exodus2011]

i still can't deny though that i use your situation as motivation in dark times though @CaptainForehead , same with fred. dante's hair loss started after he had a career though as far as i know though so it is different with him

i actually think that he can go self pity mode easier BECAUSE of that. like maybe he doesn't feel guilty about it because he is already being responsible. would you say that is accurate @Dante92 ?

i feel too guilty to go into self pity mode so i usually just get mad about things every now and then

 

[rclark]

Don't be a selfish twat. Think about the life the kids will have. Sure you could be lucky and have a girl but do you really want to risk it?

Unfortunately my bald ugly dad had to get with a woman who was both mentally ill AND asian, and i of course was born male. the asian genes made me scrawny, my moms mental illness was passed on to me genetically, her mental illness resulted in a style of being raised that made said mental illness even worse, and last but not least she has to work like 2 slave like minimum wage jobs because her asian degree is worthless. my parents split when i was 7 so i was raised by her, she cheated on him for a guy with hair LOL

i can't help but see the root cause IS my dad being ugly (largely because of BALDNESS). i've discussed this before here but my dad had a Fred happen. he was about to marry (what i guess) an actual adjusted fellow american jewish woman (who chances are as a jew would also have been successful) but she left before they tied the knot. i wonder why?

just lawl at the possible alternate world where i'm not f*****g in poverty, scrawny and bald (well adjusted mom more likely to be red pill and help prevent it from happening, and not mentally ill.

For what's it's worth, I don't think you're mentally ill. You just suffer from lots of self esteem issues.

 

[CaptainForehead]

well zircon reminds me of what i would have been without hair loss. (likely) mental issues that kept him from becoming independent, but no tangible issue so eventually he "got over it". maybe it was just the standard full maturation of the brain that happens mid 20s.

i wouldn't say i'm lazy though, i'm now helping my mom with her slave-like jobs about 15 hours a week, plus school and i have no issue with it, i just hate being there doing the job with her. being reminded of the consequences of her shitty life choices. that wud definitely be me if i was irresponsible and had a family on a poverty income and was cheated on for baldness

at the very least i can say i contain the effects of my life choices, mental issues, whatever you wanna call it to just myself. thats what i hate most, pushing it onto someone else.

its getting really annoying you calling me lazy though. its probably just because its easier thinking that someone's situation is their choice rather than out of their control.

i think we are just far different people at the end of the day. the years i spent in my late teens and early 20s just playing video games and watching shows and such i definitely do not feel like were a waste of time. I'd say those are my favorite times. why in the hell would i prefer busting my *** just to survive over having fun? lol. i only want to work enough to get what i want

the meaning of life is not working for me. I don't get why it would be. i think people just feel too guilty to admit that it isn't. they don't want to admit they hate work and would prefer just doing what they want.

There are degrees of laziness. There is the lazy person who doesn't do any work; you obviously don't fall into this category. Then there is the person who does the minimal amount of work necessary at the moment. Perhaps laziness is the wrong word. A person who does not stretch himself?

I'm not saying you are lazy for hating work. I hate work too. But you are not happy with your financial situation. To get out of that hole, you need to spend extra effort gaining skills. Not because you love work,or because you feel driven, but because that is what is required to go where you want (better financial prospects).

I also escaped real life by burying myself in tv shows in my early 20s. Depression + lack of drive/laziness is a b**ch. I was actually quite lazy/shirked work. I want to bitchslap the early 20s me.

In the end, the deal is that we have to develop skills that we can trade a few years down the road for money. You have to make yourself more valuable to society. There is no other way to improve your life.

I still struggle with driving myself to acquire new skills. But there is no alternative.

 

[DoctorHouse]

hahahaha!!!! Blackg, I've watched an evolution of you on this forum. Watching your anger come out at the appropriate moments makes me smile.

Bucky, great minds think alike. I was thinking the same. Blackg, used to just remain in the background and "like" everyone's posts. Now he has evolved into a proactive poster. I like the "new and improved" version of blackg. By the way, blackg, can you explain your username?

 

[buckthorn]

blackg, can you explain your username?

I've wondered that as well. are you black? if so, you shouldn't be losing your hair. haha

 

[hairblues]

I've wondered that as well. are you black? if so, you shouldn't be losing your hair. haha

LOLOLOL

 

[resu]

I've wondered that as well. are you black?

He does like heavy women.

 

[scorpiolove]

To the OP, I feel your pain, your father left too soon in your life, and it left you with a mother that doesn't know how to socialize good and set a good example for you on how to be a grown man. One day you will live your life the way you want it, your only young once, get with people who have your best interests in mind, marvel comics are good, there's comicons you could go to, some of them have the actual people that are featured, illustrated, in them, and some of the people there share some of your interests too. Your not alone as you think, all you need is a starting point to break out of your shell.
Lou Ferrigno was, is deaf and he's still the incredible hulk to most, Bill Gates was a nerd before he became a billionaire, you just have to do things your way and most importantly, find yourself.