Psychiatrits...

[barcafan]

already off.

 

[RaginDemon]

Taug, its very possible you have hormonal imbalances that are basically causing you to feel like $#iT. Did you get your testosterone levels checked? Low levels can really cause severe depression among other problems. I suggest you get a COMPLETE hormone panel done, why feel this way if you dont have to.

he just needs to get laid.

 

[barcafan]

I dont think that's the problem, its certainly something deeper than just having low self esteem or needing a good lay. I do agree though he needs to get laid, be it from a girlfriend or just a hooker. I dont see why he doesnt just hire a good escort or something, it's not that hard and they can be pretty high class im sure, he's got the money for it.

 

[Maxpwr]

I dont see why he doesnt just hire a good escort or something, it's not that hard and they can be pretty high class im sure, he's got the money for it.

Oh sure... the best way to fix your low self esteem is by degrading yourself even further. :shakehead:


Why not add even more shame to the recipe?

 

[barcafan]

If never having sex is bothering you and you can be arsed to get a girlfriend, then either go for a one night stand or hire an escort....instead of holding all that sexual frustration in and like raping someone...isnt that logical?

 

[Maxpwr]

If never having sex is bothering you and you can be arsed to get a girlfriend, then either go for a one night stand or hire an escort....instead of holding all that sexual frustration in and like raping someone...isnt that logical?

No that's not bloody logical at all... What a dumbass thing to say. You can't give suggestions like that to someone whose complexes you don't understand and call it LOGIC. Maybe you should understand the problems a bit more before trying to suggest a cure.

Getting an escort, no matter how "upper class" she is, is a pathetic and degrading way to have your first experience. Taugenichts needs a girl to experience COMPANIONSHIP and AFFECTION and to feel wanted... Or at least a one-night-stand to get things moving and raise the confidence levels and self-image a bit. Not some cheap-*** sl*t who wants his money to help fill her crackpipe. I'm sure anyone could do that, but it's bound to add to the problem, and take him further from the solutions.

 

[s.a.f]

Not neccesarily It all depends on how you view it : either you can see it as paying for sex because you cant get it or just getting some expeirence the best way you can. It all depends on how you view it to me it would be barely much different to a meaningless one night stand.
I know a few guys who lost it to a prostitute (ok so their situation was a bit different to these older virgins but still) and then when they got will a girl they liked they did'nt have the worry of heading 'into the unknown' so to speak when it mattered more to them.
Also I'm sure there's a huge difference between a crack addict street walker and a high class escort I'll bet some of them would actually be quite compassionate if they knew the situation.
I think that Taug and CCS have built the whole first time thing up in their minds to the point where it terrifies them. Once they've finally experienced popping their cherry they might be more relaxed about sex.
I'm not advising Taug to do this but just saying that that Barcafans idea is'nt so totally wrong.

 

[barcafan]

S.A.F hit it right on the money, maxpwr is just an angry wank with absolutely no common sense. I think all the street hookers you fucked gave you syphilis which would explain your mentality. There's a difference between a prostitute and an escort.

 

[s.a.f]

Nice and subtle there Barcafan :whistle:
Nah, Maxpwr has posted many good replies in the past, usually I agree with him 100% but we obviously see this one differently though.

 

[barcafan]

He called me a dumbass, there wasnt any need for that. Besides, he even suggested a one night stand which kind of contradicts his own advice.

 

[Maxpwr]

Well I have absolutely no respect for sex workers of any class, sex or orientation. I see them as shallow individuals with poor morals and standards (scum). So I wouldn't advise anyone to go to one at all, especially for the first time. I suppose what you're saying is acceptable from a certain point of view, however I still consider there to be a VAST difference between meeting someone nice and having sex with them (one-night-stand or not) and actually paying someone for sex. Think of how many times that sex worker has been penetrated in the last month... or year... and by whom...

I know of two guys who had their first time with a wh***. Both of them regretted and it felt shameful about it. One of them has not had sex at all since then. Then I used to know a guy at my old work who went to sex workers regularly. I never actually asked him, but I'd put money on it that he'd never had sex with a real woman. (real, as opposed to wh***)

I just get the general impression that someone who thinks about it so much (like Taug or CCS) needs to experience it the proper way for the first time...

maxpwr is just an angry wank with absolutely no common sense. I think all the street hookers you f***** gave you syphilis which would explain your mentality. There's a difference between a prostitute and an escort.

...woah, such strong words. The fact you have resorted to a personal attack, shows you are weak minded and have already lost the battle.

I didn't call YOU a dumbass, I labeled your post a dumbass one for describing a personal opinion like that as "logic". Maybe it is logic for you?? Does sexual frustration give you the urge to rape someone...?

Since you've raised the bar a bit to include childish name-calling, I don't consider you to be a valid candidate for discussion. However I will still allow you to fantasize about my "freshly picked" facial syphilis scabs rubbing on your ballsack while I felch you and f**k you up the arse with a broken champagne bottle. But only because I'm a nice person.

No common sense? You really summed me up well didn't you? :roll:

 

[s.a.f]

I just get the general impression that someone who thinks about it so much (like Taug or CCS) needs to experience it the proper way for the first time...

Yes and it could happen possibly sometime in the next 20yrs if all the planets are aligned and fate deals a strange hand of luck, I suppose you have to work on the basis that nothings impossible.

 

[Hans Gruber]

Well I have absolutely no respect for sex workers of any class, sex or orientation. I see them as shallow individuals with poor morals and standards (scum).

thats a really fucked up thing to say,you have no idea how or why women or for that matter men get into the situation where they end up selling themselves for sex,who the hell made you the moral guardian of HairLossTalk.com? to call them scum is a truly stupid and cruel thing to say,you really see them as scum? you dont feel sorry for them at all? you sound like a right wing neo con christian with a raging hard on,people are people,have some f*****g sympathy

 

[Maxpwr]

thats a really f***** up thing to say,you have no idea how or why women or for that matter men get into the situation where they end up selling themselves for sex,who the hell made you the moral guardian of HairLossTalk.com? to call them scum is a truly stupid and cruel thing to say,you really see them as scum? you dont feel sorry for them at all? people are people,have some f****ing sympathy

Thankyou for appreciating my opinions and views on the matter. I do not strive for, nor seek your approval on this topic or any others, but just feel free to try and cut me down to size whenever you want, Libertine. Aside from the fact that I am entitled to my own opinions, just remember that some people's opinions are based on previous experiences and issues, and can be quite educated in the subject.

(...actually I'm a bit suspicious that you probably have the same views on the matter and are just attempting to attack me, on the grounds of some of my previous posts.)


I do consider them scum. That's not to say, however, that I do not feel sympathy for them. Of course I feel sorry for them, but my opinions were given in the context of THIS argument, which was from a consumer point of view. These "high class" escorts do have a choice whether they want to do it or not - unlike the common street wh***, who probably does it as their basic survival technique... and will most likely take 10 bucks if that's all that was offered.

But someone who is degrading and cheapening themselves, when they DO have a choice otherwise? Yes, scum... trash... Get off the coke or the meth and get yourself a decent job. You don't agree with me there?

There are a lot of different situations and influences that could make a person turn to a life of degradation. But as much as I feel sorry for them, that's not my problem... and I'm still going to have my opinions on it. I don't act high and mighty about it, I have tackled some pretty f*cked up situations myself and have overcome them.

I have never, and would never go to a wh***, because I have respect for myself... and absolutely no respect for a person who I could pay, to receive that sort of pleasure. So from the consumer's point of view, they are scum, with low morals and standards.

you sound like a right wing neo con christian with a raging hard on

oh, how very perceptive and creative... :thumbdown2:

 

[Hans Gruber]

sooo you think they are scum but you have sympathy for them,yea ok......

suspicious that i have the same view but im attacking you because of previous posts? i have NO IDEA what you mean or what your previous posts are about

of course you are allowed your view but im allowed mine and my view is that labelling every sex worker 'scum' is ridiculous.......

as for you being a right wing neo con with a raging hard on,well i just say what i see

 

[s.a.f]

Heading abit of topic there boys. But whatever your opinion I dont think any women ever went into prostitution with a smile on her face.