Relationships with females

[harlan1988]

Thanks, we should all be on good terms. I recon we all suffer from this so in that sense we are all in the same boat, excluding Loyd Braun of course :whistle: .

lol agreed.

I think the impromptu bjs could happen to bald guys, it just depends on the moment. My friend is 24 and a nw5 and very muscular and just had a random girl approach him and ask for NSA sex and she was like 7. It is pretty rare though probably a once in a life type thing for the average guy.

 

[TravisB]

My friend is 24 and a nw5 and very muscular and just had a random girl approach him and ask for NSA sex and she was like 7.

You mean 7 years old girl asked him for sex? :laugh:

 

[virtuality]

In my early 20s, I had so much going for me in life that I could pick a girl almost at will. When I was 23, I had 5 different sex partners in 12 months. For the last 10 years, I had only 2 partners. I was in a relationship for 7 years that completely broke me, and it took me almost 2-3 years to recover from that.

That's when I got obsessed with my hair. I'm sort of over it now. I'd like to have my hair back, but I have other priorities.

I can't afford to let my hairloss or a few past mistakes to rule my life.

 

[Wicky]

I'm 29 now and the last time I had a relationship or sex was 4 years ago. But to be honest - the longer I'm single, the less I care. I would actually say that I prefer a good p**rn more than having sex with an average girl (5 or lower). That may be shallow, but it's true. Don't get me wrong, a good relationship is a very nice thing in life (I had a fantastic relationship with a beautiful girl, which lasted 4 years), but an average relationship with fights, breakups and so on is way overrated.

 

[seb]

I am celibate.

 

[seb]

I'm 29 now and the last time I had a relationship or sex was 4 years ago. But to be honest - the longer I'm single, the less I care. I would actually say that I prefer a good p**rn more than having sex with an average girl (5 or lower). That may be shallow, but it's true. Don't get me wrong, a good relationship is a very nice thing in life (I had a fantastic relationship with a beautiful girl, which lasted 4 years), but an average relationship with fights, breakups and so on is way overrated.

This just doesn't make sense to me! I find that the best sex is with those who you have a certain mental bond with.

If I love a women I can all the more enjoy driving one into her.

If a girl is openly a sl*t and you both know you both know and it's just a f*ck for fucks sake this can be incredibly exciting!

I have to admit that where the act of sex is concerned, sl*ts are best which is why I don't think I'd ever remain faithfull cos I'd never fall in love with a sl*t I don't think!

Hmm well actually I don't know!!

Good old sl*ts! :hump: God bless them!

Hmm now I'm going to totally contradict something I said in another thread as well as just here :whistle: They are all seem to be sl*ts really. When they feel comfortable with you and know or think you love and respect them they all like being degraded and being treated like a sl*t. I wonder why this is?

Nice too see another mysogynist on the board.

 

[seb]

Seems like sex is your vice...I really don't think I will ever have sex again.Infact I can't stomach the thought of a woman touching me,and me touching them.

 

[virtuality]

Hmm now I'm going to totally contradict something I said in another thread as well as just here :whistle: They are all seem to be sl*ts really. When they feel comfortable with you and know or think you love and respect them they all like being degraded and being treated like a sl*t. I wonder why this is?

I actually respect women to the point that I'm almost a feminist...

However, I totally agree that most women love being dominated in bed..

The contradiction is that most women I have known would be turned off by public displays of power. I had gfs who would tell me not tell them what to do, but then ask to be dominated in bed :dunno:

Women love confident men or the idea that men can protect them in times of hardship. They also want to be in charge of the male power, that's why they play mind games with us. Ie, sex without consent is rape, on the other hand rape like fantasy is good.... Go figure :dunno:

 

[virtuality]

Seems like sex is your vice...I really don't think I will ever have sex again.Infact I can't stomach the thought of a woman touching me,and me touching them.

I'd stick my penis in anything at the moment :innocent:

I'm not 100% serious, but I'd lower my standards for a night of carnal pleasure :woot:

 

[seb]

Seems like sex is your vice...I really don't think I will ever have sex again.Infact I can't stomach the thought of a woman touching me,and me touching them.

Jesus!

You have any idea why this is?

Probably because I don't like myself.

 

[seb]

Seems like sex is your vice...I really don't think I will ever have sex again.Infact I can't stomach the thought of a woman touching me,and me touching them.

I'd stick my penis in anything at the moment :innocent:

I'm not 100% serious, but I'd lower my standards for a night of carnal pleasure :woot:

Nothing wrong in that,its just a endocrine response,we can't help it.

 

[Wicky]

I'm 29 now and the last time I had a relationship or sex was 4 years ago. But to be honest - the longer I'm single, the less I care. I would actually say that I prefer a good p**rn more than having sex with an average girl (5 or lower). That may be shallow, but it's true. Don't get me wrong, a good relationship is a very nice thing in life (I had a fantastic relationship with a beautiful girl, which lasted 4 years), but an average relationship with fights, breakups and so on is way overrated.

This just doesn't make sense to me! I find that the best sex is with those who you have a certain mental bond with.

If I love a women I can all the more enjoy driving one into her.

If a girl is openly a sl*t and you both know you both know and it's just a f*ck for fucks sake this can be incredibly exciting!

That's not what I meant. I would always f*** girls/sl*ts which are a 6 or higher unk: But I wouldn't lower my standards and have sex with a ugly chick, just to get some sex.

 

[seb]

No offence taken.Regarding getting over it,why?...I don't like humans,and long for largely a life of solitude,this obviously includes women.Personally I found them strange creatures,and am quite repulsed by what they have too go through,physiologically.
ps I have been married,thus I have had experience of life with a woman.

 

[virtuality]

I'm 29 now and the last time I had a relationship or sex was 4 years ago. But to be honest - the longer I'm single, the less I care. I would actually say that I prefer a good p**rn more than having sex with an average girl (5 or lower). That may be shallow, but it's true. Don't get me wrong, a good relationship is a very nice thing in life (I had a fantastic relationship with a beautiful girl, which lasted 4 years), but an average relationship with fights, breakups and so on is way overrated.

This just doesn't make sense to me! I find that the best sex is with those who you have a certain mental bond with.

If I love a women I can all the more enjoy driving one into her.

If a girl is openly a sl*t and you both know you both know and it's just a f*ck for fucks sake this can be incredibly exciting!

That's not what I meant. I would always f*ck girls/sl*ts which are a 6 or higher unk: But I wouldn't lower my standards and have sex with a ugly chick, just to get some sex.

Drunken sex with a fat chick is great fun... Lots of soft tissue to hold onto :whistle:

 

[virtuality]

Fair enough!

Years ago when I first left home I shared a flat with this guy who was mid 30s. I was 17 at the time! We were up late at night smoking weed and watching prisoner cell block H. The main warden on it was called Ferguson if memory serves. I remember saying to him; Imagine you had to shag that!

He said it could be the best sex of your life! I lolled!

Every man has his limitations!

That reminds me of Oz...

 

[seb]

Yeah,and a big hairy baggy pouch too...no thanks. :shakehead:

 

[Buzzlightyear]

Hi guys I am obviously new here I stumbled on this site yesterday and decided I should register and post with you guys, maybe I will help some of you or maybe I will just become another useless poster on an internet forum! Anyways as I read some of the posts on this forum I can't help but relate I started balding at 18 I am now 26 and would say I am a Norwood 5 and I get laid fairly often. Now not trying to brag or anything I just want to tell you guys I understand how losing your hair can destroy your confidence and systematically destroy and break you down.


At 18 I started balding but had a really beautiful gf who I dated for 5 years during my early years of balding, as the years went by and the hair got worse my confidence in myself really started to drain with it. I used to be extremely confident and felt I could do anything, which is why my ex gf was so attracted to me. I know everywhere you read people tell you "oh just have confidence in yourself blah blah blah" and I know how impossible that is when you feel so low and hate yourself because of something so out of your control. But the truth is you have to just own it. When my ex broke up me I was devastated I felt how the f*** could I get back into the game looking like this. I would go out with friends and never even bother trying to talk to a woman for fear of rejection that my ego just couldn't handle, and I felt as if who I was on the inside this extremely confident and full of swag person didn't match who I was on the outside, bald and sad. I eventually just said f*** it! I mean only truth in life I know is that I only get one shot, I don't know if there is heaven or hell or if I will be reincarnated, only thing I know is I am here today and could be gone tomorrow so what did I have to lose ?


I am now 26 I take nothing for hair loss I shave it and I tan in the summer time I am in Canada and I am a pale *** person. I joke all the time that my parents had sex and I got the combined worst of both their genes I am hairy like my Italian father and bald like him, and I have pale skin like my mother and yes I get girls and for the shallow readers out there who put it in scales I land 7+'s on a regular basis. I still obsess about my hair loss and feel cheated sometimes but you will learn if you put yourself out there that girls and guys and people in general aren't as shallow as you presume they are. Yes you will face rejection, yes you might even get made fun of or laughed at but you will find and meet people who will like you for you. I am telling you I am no prize and I get girls who let me do any and everything with/to them and then massage my hairy back after. Believe in yourself and the rest of the world will follow, if you don't believe in yourself or like yourself you can't expect other people to.


Hair loss is part of life and it sucks so bad when it happens young you feel your youth and happiness are taken away from you but I assure you a lot of girls truly don't care, the older you get the less the dating game is about looking like Justin Timberlake and more about who you are and what you have to offer. Yes I am aware that attraction plays a part in meeting people a big part sadly. The biggest thing that helped me was updating my wardrobe to go with my look, you'd be amazed at what dressing really sharp can do for your look and confidence. Sorry this post is so long I will be around on here from now on and I look forward to sharing more of my life with some fellow travelers!

 

[s.a.f]

Good post, have you ever heard of paragraphs?

(waits for the pessimists to begin flaming)

 

[Buzzlightyear]

Good post, have you ever heard of paragraphs?

(waits for the pessimists to begin flaming)

my apologies I was concentrating on several things while writing it out and didn't even realize how long it was till I was finished, hope that's better!

 

[Primo]

Great post there from Buzz!

Also in my experience if you don't have natural "confidence" then sometimes you've just gotta manufacture it artificially through developing continuous positive mental mindsets.

If you read any decent game book you'll read a lot about this stuff and it does genuinely work, especially on those days when you're feeling shity and low about life.

For example when I walk into a bar or nightclub, the last thing I honestly want to do is "put myself out there" and approach random females for random chat, 95% of the time I just can't be arsed with all that and just want to chill with my mates, but I still force myself to do it and put myself in that uncomfortable position regularly, because I know if I didn't, all my game and self confidence, not to mention self-esteem around women would quickly diminish and I'd soon be like the loser who stands by the bar alone all night.

It's tough and a pain in the arse sometimes, but well worth it ultimately and very rewarding obviously...