Running out of time to find a girlfriend/wife???

Feelsbadman

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I've run out of time im in my late 20's i should of found a good women when i was at university
im succh an idiot!
When i was at university i was in a top course , some high quality very good women were in that course, in abundance, smart, attractive, not sl*ts good women and i had so muhc social anxiety and issues i didn't talk to any for years

then i went on tinder and met a girl who became my gf , complete opposite, uneducated, tonnes of baggage, slept with tonnes of men, no morals, complete trash but i loved her then she cheated on me and left me heart broken, a good thing in hind sight, imagine if i made her pregnant

but now im in my late 20's and all the good women are taken all that's left are the crazy ones or single mums or ones no one else wants

i think i ran out of time
 

Scott Ryan

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This is the reason you can't get a girl ... You're running scared .. no woman wants this. Get in the gym, slow down a bit, take your time and chill you are a very young man - a woman is a person just like you - work on yourself first. Loads of time
 

Feelsbadman

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This is the reason you can't get a girl ... You're running scared .. no woman wants this. Get in the gym, slow down a bit, take your time and chill you are a very young man - a woman is a person just like you - work on yourself first. Loads of time
I dont get it
I go to the gym and workout regularly what are you on about?
 

Scott Ryan

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Do you think that everyone over the age of 30 has run out of time?

If you do, you obviously are not experienced with women.

I'll say it again, you are a very young man with your whole life ahead of you. Believe it or not, most women worth their salt want a Man who is solvent, kind, considerate, can make them laugh and is an interesting guy with their own interests.

I would recommend taking your time, enjoy the journey, meet loads of women, it takes time and it will happen when you are feeling comfortable in yourself. When that happens, everything flows like water.
 

Feelsbadman

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Do you think that everyone over the age of 30 has run out of time?

If you do, you obviously are not experienced with women.

I'll say it again, you are a very young man with your whole life ahead of you. Believe it or not, most women worth their salt want a Man who is solvent, kind, considerate, can make them laugh and is an interesting guy with their own interests.

I would recommend taking your time, enjoy the journey, meet loads of women, it takes time and it will happen when you are feeling comfortable in yourself. When that happens, everything flows like water.
Its just that i see all my friends getting married buying houses etc
I go on dating apps and the women left over at my age are terrible
 

doubleindemnity

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You don't run out of time you run out of hair. A guy who goes bald at 25 ran out of time age 25. Guys who keep their hair can go until age 40 or so.
 

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Is 0.25mg finasteride enough?
I don't know about treatments. I didnt use enough. But you need at least NW2 or somethng with temple points, even with thinning elsewhere. After that it legit is over. Now i understand why the full density nw3 guys on here complain as much as I do.
 

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@Scott Ryan gave you some good advice. Once you are secure, comfortable in every sense, the rest should follow barring some major flaws like personality or being really ugly (so rare). Being groomed, mentally and financially secure, fun to be around is enough to meet an okay girl (mostly looksmatched) where you both get along. I do understand your anxieties, depression and agree with you on what you want - because trips have never been so amazing, how nice it is with lads and then just with your missus/family, both complement each other well and staying in random motels or crashing in your car and watching the sunrise. Couples hanging together is fun and a natural progression of life. But as INT says, you have some serious problems which require therapy, you may need to change your mindset as we can't always get what we wish for. And remaining stuck like this will only heighten your mental health problems as you can't enjoy the present in any shape or form. And there is a lot to do outside a relationship, there are single lads that I know that come on such trips or we see them at other places. And I've noticed they are well balanced and having fun in life too.

Set a plan to work for it but you need therapy, lifestyle change (all this bs about becoming a woman, prostitutes and wanting an "unused prime" girl), it's not going to happen now and you may pass up on good opportunities with this thinking.
 

Feelsbadman

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@Scott Ryan gave you some good advice. Once you are secure, comfortable in every sense, the rest should follow barring some major flaws like personality or being really ugly (so rare). Being groomed, mentally and financially secure, fun to be around is enough to meet an okay girl (mostly looksmatched) where you both get along. I do understand your anxieties, depression and agree with you on what you want - because trips have never been so amazing, how nice it is with lads and then just with your missus/family, both complement each other well and staying in random motels or crashing in your car and watching the sunrise. Couples hanging together is fun and a natural progression of life. But as INT says, you have some serious problems which require therapy, you may need to change your mindset as we can't always get what we wish for. And remaining stuck like this will only heighten your mental health problems as you can't enjoy the present in any shape or form. And there is a lot to do outside a relationship, there are single lads that I know that come on such trips or we see them at other places. And I've noticed they are well balanced and having fun in life too.

Set a plan to work for it but you need therapy, lifestyle change (all this bs about becoming a woman, prostitutes and wanting an "unused prime" girl), it's not going to happen now and you may pass up on good opportunities with this thinking.

i just want an ok gf not a sl*t like my ex.
 

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i just want an ok gf not a sl*t like my ex.

She was ugly, a sl*t, cheating or just bad to you from what I remember, yet you fell for her and cried about her many times on here? Develop some self respect and standards if you wish to find a good girl. The fact you were affected by this shows you need to learn to love yourself and not be clingy, only then will someone love you too and that experience will be real unlike this one. It sounds like that was your one experience so you keep replaying it as it provided an escape from reality.
 

Feelsbadman

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She was ugly, a sl*t, cheating or just bad to you from what I remember, yet you fell for her and cried about her many times on here? Develop some self respect and standards if you wish to find a good girl. The fact you were affected by this shows you need to learn to love yourself and not be clingy, only then will someone love you too and that experience will be real unlike this one. It sounds like that was your one experience so you keep replaying it as it provided an escape from reality.
Yes you're right, what's wrong with me ? how do i have such little self worth? why am i lik this? i need to see a therapist
Why did i even have a relationship with such a women in the first place.. i think so little of myelf for some reason
is it simply due to balding?
 
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