Running out of time to find a girlfriend/wife???

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Yes you're right, what's wrong with me ? how do i have such little self worth? why am i lik this? i need to see a therapist
Why did i even have a relationship with such a women in the first place.. i think so little of myelf for some reason
is it simply due to balding?

As INT said it could be many things and he's an expert in the field who has followed your posts unlike me. You need to get checked out first so you get the best care, it could be something genetic/environmental like personality disorder or something as "simple" as an early mid life crisis accelerated by loneliness, balding, bdd,other personal life factors, depression and anxiety. It definitely isn't just balding, you're a thickish NW2-3 for a start.
 

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I've run out of time im in my late 20's i should of found a good women when i was at university
im succh an idiot!
When i was at university i was in a top course , some high quality very good women were in that course, in abundance, smart, attractive, not sl*ts good women and i had so muhc social anxiety and issues i didn't talk to any for years

then i went on tinder and met a girl who became my gf , complete opposite, uneducated, tonnes of baggage, slept with tonnes of men, no morals, complete trash but i loved her then she cheated on me and left me heart broken, a good thing in hind sight, imagine if i made her pregnant

but now im in my late 20's and all the good women are taken all that's left are the crazy ones or single mums or ones no one else wants

i think i ran out of time

I’m 35 and still single

have had a few opportunities to settle down recently
 

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How long until Feelsbadman posts a near exact thread like this one???
I'm gonna say by Thursday.
 

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You haven't run out of time in your late 20s or even early 30s. Many people are single much later in life than before. Just meet people in social groups geared to similar hobbies, etc then hookup apps if you want to date longterm or settle down
 

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Better question is how long till this server crashes from all the spam thread you have produced.
IF YOU HATE YOURSELF THE UNIVERSE WILL HATE YOU
FINISH THE END

YOURS SINCERELY, EVERY USER ON THIS FORUM
 

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Better question is how long till this server crashes from all the spam thread you have produced.
IF YOU HATE YOURSELF THE UNIVERSE WILL HATE YOU
FINISH THE END

YOURS SINCERELY, EVERY USER ON THIS FORUM
Cope
 

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Better question is how long till this server crashes from all the spam thread you have produced.
IF YOU HATE YOURSELF THE UNIVERSE WILL HATE YOU
FINISH THE END

YOURS SINCERELY, EVERY USER ON THIS FORUM

your mum
 

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Better question is how long till this server crashes from all the spam thread you have produced.
IF YOU HATE YOURSELF THE UNIVERSE WILL HATE YOU
FINISH THE END

YOURS SINCERELY, EVERY USER ON THIS FORUM
This, I believe, is another truism that doesn't really mean anything. It is what it is. You are what you are. Life isn't fair. Be the best version of you. Be true to yourself. That's all meaningless.

He hates himself because others hate him because he is bald. One's feelings towards oneself will strongly reflect the feelings of others about you, unless you are a very strong willed individual such as an elite athlete. The universe can not hate and there is no evidence that there is any sense of justice in it. Meaning that it's not necessarily true that hate begets hate and love begets love. He is here on the impact section complaining and that's what it is for. If you are reading it and not enjoying it then you should not read it; doing otherwise would be an act of hate towards yourself.
 

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This, I believe, is another truism that doesn't really mean anything. It is what it is. You are what you are. Life isn't fair. Be the best version of you. Be true to yourself. That's all meaningless.

He hates himself because others hate him because he is bald. One's feelings towards oneself will strongly reflect the feelings of others about you, unless you are a very strong willed individual such as an elite athlete. The universe can not hate and there is no evidence that there is any sense of justice in it. Meaning that it's not necessarily true that hate begets hate and love begets love. He is here on the impact section complaining and that's what it is for. If you are reading it and not enjoying it then you should not read it; doing otherwise would be an act of hate towards yourself.

why don’t you become a strong willed individual then?
 

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why don’t you become a strong willed individual then?
These people are very rare. Even in elite sports they are rare. Think of Novak Djokovic winning grand slam titles when the crowd wanted his opponent to win. Or think of eminent leaders. Very few athletes, even elite ones manage to do that. I tried meditation, affirmations and even appreciating other little victories in life and it didn't work. Imagine a bald guy waking up every morning meditating, doing positive affirmations and truly believing, for a bit of time, that things would work out well for him. Then on that same day stuff goes badly for him because he is bald. He goes back and repeats the next day. After a few years, if he's not a strong willed individual (i.e. almost everybody) he'd just be going through the motions with his affirmations and will no longer truly believe that things will work out well for him. A strong willed individual (very very rare) would keep believing forever but guys like @Feelsbadman get worn down and after a few years, become so negative and hopeless, as you are seeing.
 

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I've run out of time im in my late 20's i should of found a good women when i was at university
im succh an idiot!
When i was at university i was in a top course , some high quality very good women were in that course, in abundance, smart, attractive, not sl*ts good women and i had so muhc social anxiety and issues i didn't talk to any for years

then i went on tinder and met a girl who became my gf , complete opposite, uneducated, tonnes of baggage, slept with tonnes of men, no morals, complete trash but i loved her then she cheated on me and left me heart broken, a good thing in hind sight, imagine if i made her pregnant

but now im in my late 20's and all the good women are taken all that's left are the crazy ones or single mums or ones no one else wants

i think i ran out of time
All the good women? Are you on drugs? Women your age are getting plowed and looking for somebody desperate to marry and divorce. You have time.

Have you ever heard of DATING YOUNGER? Jesus Christmas tree. Get a grip.
 

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reminds me of how a friends family members advised him to get married fast, before he looses more hair...
 

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I've run out of time im in my late 20's i should of found a good women when i was at university
im succh an idiot!
When i was at university i was in a top course , some high quality very good women were in that course, in abundance, smart, attractive, not sl*ts good women and i had so muhc social anxiety and issues i didn't talk to any for years

then i went on tinder and met a girl who became my gf , complete opposite, uneducated, tonnes of baggage, slept with tonnes of men, no morals, complete trash but i loved her then she cheated on me and left me heart broken, a good thing in hind sight, imagine if i made her pregnant

but now im in my late 20's and all the good women are taken all that's left are the crazy ones or single mums or ones no one else wants

i think i ran out of time
I think it also boils down to a modern society and culture thing as well. The foreign women I've met and seen, don't seem to give a crap if a man is bald or not. Having a personality that is more visible than any bald spot is even better.
 
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I think it also boils down to a modern society and culture thing as well. The foreign women I've met and seen, don't seem to give a crap if a man is bald or not. Having a personality that is more visible than any bald spot is even better.
foreign women from where? in my experience, in europe women care way less than in east asia...
 

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foreign women from where? in my experience, in europe women care way less than in east asia...
I've seen a lot of Hispanic women especially not care. My girlfriend is Icelandic and apparently being bald isn't a big deal there either.
 

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I think it also boils down to a modern society and culture thing as well. The foreign women I've met and seen, don't seem to give a crap if a man is bald or not. Having a personality that is more visible than any bald spot is even better.
depends if u can pull it off.
 

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This, I believe, is another truism that doesn't really mean anything. It is what it is. You are what you are. Life isn't fair. Be the best version of you. Be true to yourself. That's all meaningless.

He hates himself because others hate him because he is bald. One's feelings towards oneself will strongly reflect the feelings of others about you, unless you are a very strong willed individual such as an elite athlete. The universe can not hate and there is no evidence that there is any sense of justice in it. Meaning that it's not necessarily true that hate begets hate and love begets love. He is here on the impact section complaining and that's what it is for. If you are reading it and not enjoying it then you should not read it; doing otherwise would be an act of hate towards yourself.
It isn't even truesim there is no higher power or universal energy at play. How do ugly people achieve feats or become high networth males? He just simply places so much import on his hair an looks that other people around him have no choice but to treat/judge him based off the time tendincies he displays. You think other people have time to care about whether you are a Nw3 or diffuse balder? People have become so self engrossed they don't even care if their government is enslaving them lol.
Happiness equals reality minus the expectations
 
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