"Sexiest Man Alive" Adam Levine Shaves Head...Internet Loses Its Mind

winnyblues

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I'm like this too. My friend called me out because I laughed at a woman who had a hook instead of a hand.

My other friend and I called her Captain Hook. We were on a boat when we met this woman, so yeah.

And of course, my friend who never misses an occasion to mock baldness said: "You can't laugh at that."

He goes on: "She has a lot of courage going on a trip in Iceland with a hand missing!"

Give me a break! Courage? How about going out in a bar with a full NW5 when you're only 22.

That's courage. I know, it might look more devastating to be missing a hand. But it doesn't compare with disfigurement.

When you're bald, you get openly mocked by everyone, because hey, it's only baldness, so it's open season!

Who cares if baldness cripples you mentally: "Haha he has no hair!" But don't you dare laughing at the woman missing a hand or at the fat girl!

People who lose limbs can in fact quickly come to terms with it after the initial shock. They can even become as happy as they were before their accident.

We all know you never really get over baldness. And you certainly will never reach the level of happiness you had when you were NW1.

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Yup having one hand is better than going bald ay.

And CK with the great post
 

DannyBoyy

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Well obviously people are going through worse i said this countless of times, hairloss is nothing compared to what you could have, and also like i said countless of times just because its not as bad as *insert problem here* dont mean its silly to worry about said problem. I have worried about all sorts what would make you lot think "huh why", i worried about hairloss in the past due to worrying about being bullied not cause i want to "look good for society" a society what treated me bad with every look i had possible.

You want to look your good thats fine, but doing it to impress who ever is silly and we all know it, if "society" (lets be honest most dont give a damn what we are doing we just another stranger walking by) has a problem with it, well thats their problem, i found my best friends in this cruel world you lot speak off, im sure the rest of you can aswell. Society is not forcing you to do **** all, looking around at films or bloody facebook posts at people disliking baldness, come on now its silly and you know it, maybe you cant help it i dont know but if you can find a hobby or something.

Im sorry for people going through hell about hairloss and truely hope you will find the light by getting treatment or shaving, and a worry is a worry and you need help, and once you get help in time you can finally move on, peace out.
 

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For me, I couldn't think of anything worse than losing a limb/eye sight etc. But that is due to my lifestyle, I do a martial art 4 times a week which is a huge part of who I am, I am also a performing musician meaning I would lose the ability to do the two biggest and most enjoyable things in my life, not having those alone would be enough to drive me into a very deep depression. There would also be a large amount of comments about courage etc and sympathy, but I truly think it would be harder to meet your "ideal" woman if you were missing a hand/arm/leg. As while people won't judge you for it, there would be people that would find it unattractive. Would someone's ideal woman be bound to a wheelchair or have a prosthetic leg? I doubt anyone would say it is. Someone would have to get to know you and fall for your personality and other attractive traits, and that can be said about anything we as humans consider to be a disability or an imperfection.
 

Saurabhaj

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This world don't like bald young men, i am so much worried,if you had girl to marry forget this problem then but if you don't have just like me,i don't know how will i solve this problem.....Baldness in young age is not common,i saw shaadi.com where indian grooms registered themselves so that they can be seen by familes of girl,but there were none person who had baldness in top 150 -200 results..

Baldness is not a problem or health issue,my brother's friend who was engaged, now his planned marriage has been canceled because he is suffering from psoriasis,dare to search that on internet,u will close the tab soon,my sisters friend fiance` had one little finger than normal size in his right hand and also had problem in leg(not confirmed but he looks okay,he is not bald and looks good.
 

Saurabhaj

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I know a family who are neighbour to us at my other city where the uncle has phD in Music and is professor in college who are completely blind but they are still married and they have really cute family and beautiful son,he is damn good looking.
 

DannyBoyy

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facepalm.jpg
 

macbeth81

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That 50/50 clip is probably accurate. Women love what you can provide. Being with someone with cancer provides them attention and even more if you die. A slightly different example is Michelle Carter. She encouraged her boyfriend to commit suicide and used his death to gain sympathy attention. You are expendable no matter where you fall on the Norwood scale. On a positive side, your baldness may be repellent to the modern woman and save your life one day. Unless you want to die, then that is another negative.
 

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Comparing missing limbs with baldness is not really accurate because you assume the end goal is getting laid. I am sure there are different issues a person with a missing limb has.

But I do agree, in that those kind of defects can actually help a guy who is good looking, get girls. Girls love nothing more than to a find a hot guy that they can "fix." It has that romantic touch. It could be he is a bad boy, minor (lol) psychological issues or has some kind of physical health problem. I don't know why, but they have that fascination to correct.

Baldness takes away the good looks usually (in their eyes in the first few seconds), so it's more harder. It's also something no woman wants to really do, date a bald guy. It's a compromise. Unless he has lot of compensatory things about him physically, job wise e.t.c.
 

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Women love what you can provide. Being with someone with cancer provides them attention and even more if you die.

Yeah man. Wish I had cancer so I could get girls. Going bald is much worse.
 

macbeth81

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Yeah man. Wish I had cancer so I could get girls. Going bald is much worse.

I hope not. Although it may help, no woman is worth sacrificing your health.

Even though balding may render a man a loser, if he lives long enough, biology will win. By thirty a woman's clock will start ticking so loud they will have to settle. No woman wants to be that old cat lady and anyone providing them salvation will do. Of course this may only be a short-term benefit for the man. In our era were monogamy and life-long marriage is dead, he will likely end up paying mother (child) support while being cucked.
 

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it cuts deep even though im not bald yet. it pisses me off that balding is okay to poke fun at. we cant hwlp it and its a negative trait that affects our lives negatively. its crazy how we are supposed to not poke fun at anything else but baldness is fair game.... i watch tv to entertain myself, not make myself insecure. stopped watching the show after that episode. not just because im butt hurt, but thats just retarded
 

DannyBoyy

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Lets be honest you all "poke fun" at things, not even in a horrible way, but just joking among friends, its no different, unless its full on hate, unless its hate dont take things to seriously.
 

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Well, cancer sufferers admit the worst part of cancer is losing your hair.

"Puking your guts out? Weight loss? Pain? Actually dying? Nah, hair loss is the worst man!"

One of my friends died a couple years ago from cancer. I asked him what's the hardest part about all of it... he said it was losing his hair because it not only makes you look visibly sick, but it also takes away from your identity.. a part of you is gone.
 

Yoshi3Mario

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I've given this a lot of thought. As a man that is balding/bald now I'll say this. I'd rather be bald like I am than have cancer, missing a limb, etc. I can rock climb, run marathons, still have sex with my beautiful gf, etc. The only limitations I have as a 30 year old bald accountant is I can no longer pick up young superficial women, or be complimented for my handsome hair. I still get called handsome from time to time. There has been an adjustment period over the last 6 months for people to get used to my buzzed/shaved head but now that it is the norm for me others and I have accepted it for what it is.

For someone going through cancer I could see that being the most distressful thing. We've experienced it ourselves so we know where they are coming from. But I can't help but think it is a coping mechanism or for them to convey their fears of death and their true illness. Or the fact that they can visibly see their outward appearance has been affected by their illness and that is what hits close to home for them. Where as you don't notice that your lungs are black because you can't see them...
 

DannyBoyy

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I've given this a lot of thought. As a man that is balding/bald now I'll say this. I'd rather be bald like I am than have cancer, missing a limb, etc. I can rock climb, run marathons, still have sex with my beautiful gf, etc. The only limitations I have as a 30 year old bald accountant is I can no longer pick up young superficial women, or be complimented for my handsome hair. I still get called handsome from time to time. There has been an adjustment period over the last 6 months for people to get used to my buzzed/shaved head but now that it is the norm for me others and I have accepted it for what it is.

For someone going through cancer I could see that being the most distressful thing. We've experienced it ourselves so we know where they are coming from. But I can't help but think it is a coping mechanism or for them to convey their fears of death and their true illness. Or the fact that they can visibly see their outward appearance has been affected by their illness and that is what hits close to home for them. Where as you don't notice that your lungs are black because you can't see them...

We all have different opinions on the matter, for me if i had cancer and had hair losing hair would be the last thing on my mind, dying at a very young age would be on mine, but to someone else losing their hair is the worst and so on.
 

Yoshi3Mario

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I agree with your logic. Reason would dictate that death should be a greater concern than hair. But it does seem that many people with full heads of hair that go through kemo treatments do say that the hair loss is the worst part. I'm just trying to get inside their head and see why that would be. My only explanation on it is that they are that much affected by what others can physically "SEE" and what they can "SEE" that it truly is in their case the reason why hair loss is the worst part of cancer. Even though we all know that their potential or for sure death is really the worst part without any doubt.
 

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Ever have penile cancer? I think many would quickly change their tune.
 
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