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CaptainForehead said:IrishFella said:Jesus Christ, the amount of vanity and judgemental attitudes on this site is unbelievable. I thought something like losing your hair would add a bit of humility to the afflicted person.
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I am fine if a person chooses to be fat.
To cause it an affliction is ridiculous (except for th 1-2% who really do have a medical disorder).
We struggle with the same weight issues too. It would be hypocritical if I was fat but required my woman to be in shape. This is not the case.
Moreover, body condition is functional, an obese person (usally) is not fit, not as active, not as physically capable.
Hair or loss of it does not have any functional significance as evidenced by the tons of bald athletes, wrestlers, MMA fighters etc.
So losing your hair doesn't cause pain and suffering, emotionally? Because that's the definition of an affliction.
When someone says "I don't find fat women attractive" then that's acceptable, there is no need to say how they are repulsive, not talking about you specifically.
It's one thing when a woman says "I don't find bald men attractive" and another if she says "I find bald men repulsive".
I wonder what would happen if a site dedicated to overweight women had a thread titled "Should we just settle for bald men?"