So I decided to sign up to a new dating
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Prove it.
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Matches don't mean sh*t in dating apps, it's whether w****s want to meet up with you at all
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I get dates
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I don't know how you do it. I'm just about ready to give up. Getting a hair system took a lot out of me mentally. I don't think that I want to go through the same cycle of more pro photoshoots and getting no results again. Last time I was going to give up and focus on other pastimes and here I am again. This time I can look good doing it (with hair system on).
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Bro, im seriously starting to worry about ur mental health... what are your expectations when bragging on a hairloss forum? I mean, i kinda make some success specially in Instagram and so, but i have friends to talk about it. You re not being positive and helping others, you re just making ppl sad or mad at you
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Rofl good one.
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But you still live at home in your late thirties my guy. That's an immediate turn off for any high quality woman you might find on there
Seriously though, if you want to live the life of a bachelor you need your bachelor pad. Now you're stuck in between two modes of life and living neither to the fullest
Seriously though, if you want to live the life of a bachelor you need your bachelor pad. Now you're stuck in between two modes of life and living neither to the fullest
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I got over 40 matches on Japanese tinder within 3 days. You are small time.
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Going on tinder in Japan or SK as a white guy is the biggest cheat code in dating. Especially if you look traditionally 'western' ( paleish skin, blue eyes, blond or light brown hair ). Like it's unironically mind-blowing. Just don't look like an orc and you'll slay
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I have brown eyes and dark hair with a reddish tint though. Also that assessment is too simplistic. You are especially attractively exotic to some and a No-Go for others. Not so different from being a black guy or Arab looking Indian in the West.
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You're ethnically German right? Even with darker colouring it's impossible to not look phenotypically 'white'.
I agree but there's still a difference I think. Sure you'll not be attractive to everyone, but there's some positive racism working for you, while it works more against Arabs and black guys in the West, regardless of the exotic factor.
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Yes I'm obviously white, especially with my skin colour.
I think the main difference is that the competition for that niche market is numerically smaller in Japan than in the West. Very little foreigners in Japan but many in Britain, so you compete with much more other men who apply for that exotic preference in the West.
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Indeed.
And to be blunt, the competiton you're facing is pretty soft. The dreaded "English teacher" stereotype in Japan is pretty accurate more often than not.
You worked there?
My gf has a flat in the city centre of Osaka where we used to go every year ( before the wu flu hit at least). The summers are unbearable for me though. The humidity kills me. The sticky heat together with the uncessant chirping of the cicadas is like the classic impression of a Japanese summer. Very nostalgic however tbh
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I was jobbing there. I was a foreign exchange student at that moment.
I love the cicadas, the climate took some time to get used to, but I did even with a mild sun allergy. You should go there more often, it's a really based place, I'd kill for a gf with a flat in Osaka.
I love the cicadas, the climate took some time to get used to, but I did even with a mild sun allergy. You should go there more often, it's a really based place, I'd kill for a gf with a flat in Osaka.
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its not ideal bro, and I’m looking to move out end of year once I’ve saved a deposit for a home to buy
I don’t want to get into the cycle of indefinitely renting here
any decent woman should understand that and I’ve met many that do
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I mean you live in London, they should at least tolerate it tbh. But the value of property everywhere is going nuts. We really have been shafted by wealthy boomers.
I'm lucky I inherited a nice place from my parents, because even a small appartement goes for nearly 500k here. Many of my friends are still doing the co-housing thing or staying with their parents to save up.