Social phobia and hair loss

Eren

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variables will always arise. But largely speaking, almost all men who start balding as teenagers will be a full blown horse shoe before fourty.

Finasteride seems to be the deciding factor nowadays.

Ok, of course, given that you start to go bald as a teenager, I'd bet without meds most would be a full blown horse shoe at thirty lol. But there are more than enough who start to go bald later on (late twenties) and still get very bald (NW5 to NW7). Take Sean Connery, that guy had great hair in his 20s and he is bald now. Nonetheless, bald men are a minority and that's a fact.

If, however, someone would have ZERO hair loss and is 33 years old, then he won't go very bald at all (in general). Adam Lambert, for instance, is 34 years old and look at his hair. Another example is Undiano Mallenco (42) with a juvenile hairline. Those men won't go bald, ever.
 

Saurabhaj

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I just don't know how to be person who is comfortable in own skin..
When other people will ask questions on my balding..
Today is engagement of close relative and will enjoy lots and lots of hairloss mentions..

Remember I cannot answer back rudely to them because they are my elders and speaking to them will not be liked by me..

Only thing I can do is smile .smile...forget everything..

Awesome life..

This are the comments my cousins receive when in social functions .
Have u found a girl..
When are u getting married..
I have a found a girl for u .

What I get comments are..
Do something for your hairloss or no one will marry you..
Get some hairtransplant..
Get a wig...


Btw I do not get angry hearing this because it's their courage to speak for this issue to me implies..
Atleast they knew hairloss is a major major issue for someone young unmarried who just having age 29...

I do not bother such comments later..so I do not feel angry for themm..
But that awkwardness is so difficult for me to handle..

In front of strangers..I do not care for my hairline at all...
 

shookwun

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I just don't know how to be person who is comfortable in own skin..
When other people will ask questions on my balding..
Today is engagement of close relative and will enjoy lots and lots of hairloss mentions..

Remember I cannot answer back rudely to them because they are my elders and speaking to them will not be liked by me..

Only thing I can do is smile .smile...forget everything..

Awesome life..

This are the comments my cousins receive when in social functions .
Have u found a girl..
When are u getting married..
I have a found a girl for u .

What I get comments are..
Do something for your hairloss or no one will marry you..
Get some hairtransplant..
Get a wig...


Btw I do not get angry hearing this because it's their courage to speak for this issue to me implies..
Atleast they knew hairloss is a major major issue for someone young unmarried who just having age 29...

I do not bother such comments later..so I do not feel angry for themm..
But that awkwardness is so difficult for me to handle..

In front of strangers..I do not care for my hairline at all...


We are all libido driven. Once I get comfortable with a women this discussion always arises, and everyone wants to know who's dating who. Who's ****ing.


it's almost a pre requisite every-time I meet up with a women. SO interested in who I'm seeing, and what I'm doing with my sex life.



It's almost impossible to escape/
 

CharAblaze

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I can't go to events I want to go, because i'm a freak of nature. I know that I won't have good time, plus seeing other people happy will break my heart.
Girls don't like me, they used to like me before I was bald, they always said that I looked like a model. Now only women with children are interested in me, even thought I'm 21 years old, but I don't like them since I don't like older women. I want to feel young, yet it seems god has decided to punish me for my sins that are no greater than average person's.
Why do I have suffer through this, why do I have to feel like a monster?
Why has this world decided to take away my youth?
3 ****ing years of battle and no regrowth, things are only getting worse.
I want to take finasteride again at lower dosage, I really do, because If I won't stop this **** and regain my youth I would die of despair.
Yet I have to visit countless doctors and waste precious time to prove my parents that finasteride has done nothing negative to me.
 

Saurabhaj

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This is so reality...all girls atleast speaks about which boy has which gf and all that...this makes me so sad...

all girls ask me not directly..do u have any gf...my feelings will...like please move to topic to another thing..
 

shookwun

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I can't go to events I want to go, because i'm a freak of nature. I know that I won't have good time, plus seeing other people happy will break my heart.
Girls don't like me, they used to like me before I was bald, they always said that I looked like a model. Now only women with children are interested in me, even thought I'm 21 years old, but I don't like them since I don't like older women. I want to feel young, yet it seems god has decided to punish me for my sins that are no greater than average person's.
Why do I have suffer through this, why do I have to feel like a monster?
Why has this world decided to take away my youth?
3 ****ing years of battle and no regrowth, things are only getting worse.
I want to take finasteride again at lower dosage, I really do, because If I won't stop this **** and regain my youth I would die of despair.
Yet I have to visit countless doctors and waste precious time to prove my parents that finasteride has done nothing negative to me.


Older women are fun bro. Beggars can't be choosers.

Would you rather play with your hand or get some snatch?


This is so reality...all girls atleast speaks about which boy has which gf and all that...this makes me so sad...

all girls ask me not directly..do u have any gf...my feelings will...like please move to topic to another thing..

That's all they ever talk about. Every women iv'e been friends with, and dated always brings relationships, and sex into the discussion as early as first date.

Especially when a women is interested in you.
 

shookwun

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I wouldn't date them, but I have no problem screwing them.

I'm screwing a 41 year old women right now on the side. She pretty much laid out the terms before we hooked up, and I fealt the same way. Just fun, no dating... discrete.

A lot of older women just want a good pounding, no strings attached.
 

Joan

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Only for a short limited time though, trust me I know. Ive learned they only get crazier with age to, so if you are going to deal with the same annoying schit just stick with a young sexy one.

I can vouch for that. Middle age doesn't seem to affect men like it does women.
 

scorpiolove

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I think we all got robbed of the good life due to our social situations, this is just a thought, I thought I'd put it out there.
In some cultures the parents decide who their sons and daughters are going to marry, so philosophically, you could have a butt ugly spouse for the rest of your life or, and someone you don't get along with at all. Than you have kids and have to support them too, and nowadays children stay with their parents for the rest of their lives due to their social disfunctions,a bunch of Ronald kids I tell ya, lol j/k. You try to get em out of the house for a half an hour just to have lousy sex with your so called significant other.
Just be glad your choosing your sex/love interests, it could be worse. In time looks fade, for the most part and balding, unfortunately is the process of elimination for the weak hearted.
 

blackg

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Only for a short limited time though, trust me I know. Ive learned they only get crazier with age to, so if you are going to deal with the same annoying schit just stick with a young sexy one.
This is so true!! The traits we have when we are young only amplify as we age.
See, if you know a kinda crazy young hot woman, but, you can otherwise put up with her. Then you can bet she will be twice a crazy (well, more like a FULL ON! personality) as she ages.
 

I.D WALKER

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I agree.
Although it's a bit off contextually,
my father (a habitual gentleman) used to be irritated by the expression "dirty old man',
and his general rebuttal was that the core of personality or our nature changes very little,
and so there' a good possibility that he was a "dirty young man" first.

The other guy, not MY father of course :)
I miss you Dad.
 

blackg

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I agree.
Although it's a bit off contextually,
my father (a habitual gentleman) used to be irritated by the expression "dirty old man',
and his general rebuttal was that the core of personality or our nature changes very little,
and so there' a good possibility that he was a "dirty young man" first.

The other guy, not MY father of course :)
I miss you Dad.
Yes! So true! We are, for the most part, just "dirty men."
Neither young nor old.
 
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